Feng Shui in Gong Li
Parents' good intentions are often what we need most, but many times, they don't listen, which makes the old people very sad. Gong Li's mother is even worse. When she is old, she still breaks her heart for her daughter's marriage all day. ...
1987, 22-year-old Gong Li became famous overnight with "Red Sorghum", which was her first performance in a work directed by Zhang Yimou. And this work brought her not only fame and fortune, but also the warming of love. When she won the first bucket of gold in her life, she chose not to eat black silk, but to bring gifts to her family. Because she understands that her father Gong and her mother have made a lot of efforts to support their five brothers and sisters, and they also know their difficulties.
At that time, she bought a senior razor for her father and a pure wool scarf for her mother. Her sister is a down jacket, and her brothers are cowhide shoes. Looking at it, these gifts are nothing now, but at that time, they were all rare and good things. Seeing that her family is so happy, she is willing to spend no matter how much money.
Since then, Gong Li has been cooperating with Zhang Yimou. With the help and support of the great director, her acting career is bright and she has won many awards, including Golden Rooster Award and Hundred Flowers Award. Gong Li in The Seeds of Love, after many cooperations with Zhang Yimou, produced a spark of love. She told this "good thing" to her parents, waiting for her is not a blessing, but countless accusations. How did she make it clear on the phone?
My parents bought a plane ticket from Jinan to Beijing the next day. They came to her and scolded her: "You didn't know he had a wife and children. Why do you want to be a third party? This is endless harm to you, my silly girl ... "My parents left tears when they said this, although they didn't impress Gong Li and wanted to be with Zhang Yimou. Young and frivolous, she didn't understand the stakes at all and fell into what they called love.
It's painful to lose someone you love. Her parents have been trying to convince her. She didn't say a word, but cried silently. Faced with such a situation, parents had to go back to their hometown, trying to calm her down and talk about emotional things. Gong Li filmed all the year round, but her family seldom saw her, especially her mother, who broke her heart for her feelings. She knew it was her parents' nagging, but it went in one ear and out the other, regardless of her family's persuasion. "If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer."
199 1 Gong Li was filming when she received a phone call from her family: "Your sister has cancer". Hearing the news, she was so confused that she had no time to think about other things that she bought a ticket and rushed back to her hometown. She had a good relationship with her sister since childhood, and it was painful to see her skinny. I directly arranged for my sister to go to Shenzhen for treatment. She gave all her savings to her parents, hoping to tide over this difficulty.
After living for more than a month, my condition did not improve, so I moved to Beijing in a hurry. When filming, she has to go back and forth to the hospital. In those days, she was exhausted physically and mentally, but there was only one thing in her heart, to film well and take her sister abroad for treatment with her own salary. Good fantasy can't match reality after all. My sister died unfortunately, and she was very sad. When I got to the hospital, I could only watch my sister lying on the cold bed, holding her cold hand. ...
At that moment, she didn't believe that her sister was so young, how could she get such a disease. She wept with her mother. Then, with grief, she packed her things and took her mother back to her hometown. The pain of losing loved ones made her know how to cherish this word more, and she became her mother's greatest reliance. Moreover, my parents have worked hard all their lives and have various physical problems. Moreover, they have to worry about her marriage, which is called "poor inheritance".
It's better to lose another closest mother, but dad has always had high blood pressure. He advised her to go to the hospital many times, but my father insisted on not going. 1994, just finished filming a work, she also saved a lot of money and wanted to take her parents abroad. This is her wish. She is planning her trip when she is busy. Those years were her busiest days and the peak of her career. Unexpectedly, the bad news came again, that is, my father died of a cerebral hemorrhage.
This time, she cried her eyes out. When she looked back at her mother, she found her hair turned white and her eyes were full of melancholy. During that time, she looked at her mother and couldn't lift her spirits for a day. Every corner of her hometown is full of her father. She decided to take her mother to Beijing, arrange for her to live in Beijing, take her to taste all kinds of delicious food and try to make her happy. Even if you are filming, you should bring your mother to reassure her.
1In July, 995, Gong Li, 30, wanted to get married, because once a woman passed that age, she wanted to have a home, and so did she. At that time, Zhang Yimou had divorced, but he refused because his daughter was too young and he didn't want to hurt her. She told her mother about it, and her mother wrote him a letter, telling him, "Xiaoli loves you, and being a mother is in her eyes. Besides, you are not young. I hope you can seriously consider getting married. "
Unexpectedly, Zhang Yimou didn't listen to her mother and said, Isn't marriage just a piece of paper? We are doing very well now. Why are we getting married? She knew that after waiting for so many years, there was no result. After careful consideration, she made up her mind to break up with Zhang Yimou. It's like cutting her flesh. Even if her heart is twisted, she has to pretend to be strong in front of her mother. After all, they are all adults, and most of the time they report good news instead of bad news.
During the 10 years when women became famous in tears after their marriage failed, they had little time to spend with their families. Even more heartbreaking, she lost two close relatives in three years. In front of such a thing, a whole heart was broken. After that, she met Huang Hexiang, the president of a tobacco company. He is very kind to both mother and daughter, but her mother is worried after all and doesn't want her daughter to be hit by love. After meeting and observing, her old mother's heart was finally put down.
They got along well and agreed to their marriage. My mother is old, so naturally she is not as good as before. She often flies to Beijing to see her mother, whose mother-in-law has physical problems. Mother told her: "You are the daughter-in-law of the Huang family now, so you should spend more time with your mother-in-law." She was very sad. Her mother can't live a leisurely life when she is old, and she has to suffer from illness. Her heart hurts.
At the end of 2000, her husband's career began to decline, followed by pressure, and she could only come back. Those years were the hardest time for her. Because of her fame, she began to enter Hollywood, during which she also made many plays. A play will last for several months. She is very worried about her mother, often calls her to say hello, and yearns for her cooking. After all, a marriage that gathers less and leaves more will not last long. She and Huang Hexiang got a peaceful divorce.
She blocked the news, but she didn't want her mother to worry. There is no windtight wall in the world, but she is still known by her mother. Gong Li wanted to die alone, but her mother naturally didn't want to. When she sees her, she will shed tears from time to time. Her mouth is full of bravado, but her heart is full of holes It was not until I married a foreigner last year that my mother gradually felt relieved. She said to her mother, "I don't want you to cry because it will hurt your health." Let's face life with a smile and be happy together. "