Why is it bad luck if an old man dies?
Why is it said that after the death of an elderly person in the family, there will be three years of unhappiness? What is the root cause? What's the problem?
If we can compare it to this, it is like mashing more than one hundred kilograms of our human body, including bones and meat, into a paste and twisting it into a rope. Even if we go around Mount Sumeru ten times, we will not be able to reach it. I can’t repay my parents’ kindness enough! People in the world don't understand. After their parents pass away, they organize their parents' funerals and collect gifts.
These views are just superstitions, not credible and are for reference only.
If the gift money you receive can be used in the name of your parents to help print charity books, release animals, donate to charity, build bridges and repair roads, etc., then you are doing merit for your deceased parents, and there is no problem at all. No.
Anyone who has read the "Ksitigarbha Sutra" knows that the merits we do for the deceased, out of 7 points of merit, the living person gets 6 points for self-interest, and the deceased gets 1 point of merit, it is absolutely both. A good deed that benefits both the deceased and the descendants.
On the other hand, if we don’t understand this principle and instead take the opportunity to collect money, we also think that it is money that we have taken for other people’s families in the past. Now it is our turn and we deserve it.
To be honest, wherever you spend this money, you will be unlucky, and whoever you spend it on will be unlucky more and faster, without exception.
If you meet another person who has no faith and dares to compete with your brothers and sisters for your parents' inheritance, you will have planted a time bomb for yourself. It is as powerful as a nuclear bomb and will be damaged very quickly. Your good fortune and longevity.
When your overall luck declines, various cancers, unexpected disasters... will come over you like a mountain falling, making you regretful!
No one is spared from birth, old age, illness or death. It happens to every family and everyone, and misfortunes in life are by no means accidental.
Many people encounter such things at home, which will cause tension between husband and wife, discord between brothers and sisters, rebellious children, and career difficulties... but they never review what they have done wrong, but complain. , complain about your family, complain about how others have failed you, complain about how unfair God is, how unlucky you are, etc., complaining all over the world, complaining all over the world, but not blaming yourself, and not knowing how to reflect on yourself, be grateful, help others and do good, which ultimately leads to cause and effect As a result.