In marriage, will it have a good result to pay blindly?

Marriage is a matter for two people, not one who gives and one who takes. Some people say that liking someone is my own business, not yours. But I think anyone who likes another person is at least expecting a response, even if he doesn't ask for anything in return. Unilateral feelings will eventually be rewarded, but most of them are sad and closed until the end. Just like birds can't fly across the sea, not because they don't have the courage, but because they don't have the waiting on the other side. Few people get a response.

Two people in a relationship must trust each other and give to each other. Whether it's love or marriage, it can't be done by one person. Even though I have taken 99 steps forward, you won't take a step. Our relationship and marriage will not work out. Many times, we take the love and care that the other party gives you as a kind of should, but we didn't expect it to be because of the other party's love. I always ask for it blindly. When I lose it, I will think about this reason, whether I am not active enough or not loving enough.

If it's not trust, how can it be at your mercy? People are sometimes really cruel, specifically hurting the people closest to them. In marriage, it seems that the one who loses most is the one who pays. Husband and wife should be equal, no one pays and no one enjoys. If you take what you pay for granted, then, over time, you will not get the attention and cherish of the other party. Therefore, the management of marriage should know how to be loose and powerful, not unilaterally desperate.

Running a successful marriage is not an easy task. In marriage, both parties are equal. Only by loving each other can feelings last longer. In fact, love is not a question of who is right or wrong. As long as you are really good to each other and really pay, you can go hand in hand. There are many people like Wang Yi. They don't have a correct view of love. Just think more about experience. In fact, this is also true. You won't suffer in love if you experience more, but you must never wear away the patience of others. Only when we treat our feelings correctly can we gain something from them. If you treat them negatively, you will learn something.

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