How to resolve those Feng Shui taboos at wedding ceremonies

1. Taboos on the wedding day.

1. After getting up in the morning, the groom and the bride must eat a good breakfast (such as milk, eggs, etc.) to reserve energy for the day.

2. Do all preparations, such as posting Please prepare all the items for picking up the bride (bouquets, gifts, red envelopes, corsages, etc.), arrange the front of the car, and arrange the fleet. Every driver should know the driving route and the groom’s contact information. The people in the first car include the groom, the bride, the best man, and the bridesmaid sitting in the driver’s passenger seat. The rest of the vehicles can sit freely.

3 After the groom sets off, the family members bring the officiant, the witnesses, the host’s corsage, two bouquets of mother’s flowers, flower petals, and items needed by the host (wine glasses, red wine, two bottles of champagne, red wine) candle, etc.).

4 The rings will be kept by the groomsmen and bridesmaids respectively.

5 The best man opens the car door for the groom, and the best man sits in the passenger seat.

6 The groom, best man and receptionists lined up to go upstairs to welcome the bride.

7 After the groom enters the house, he greets the bride’s parents and introduces the entourage → the bride’s parents introduce relatives and friends to the groom → when the groom sees the bride, he kneels down on one knee to lay flowers and kiss the bride.

8 The newlyweds go to their parents to make promises, bow, take photos, and get into the wedding car.

9 The best man opens the car door for the newlyweds.

10 Car seats: The newlyweds sit in the back row of the float. When the bride gets off the car, she should face the hotel entrance. The best man sits in the passenger seat and the bridesmaid sits in the second car.

11 The newlyweds cooperate with the cameraman during the trip, such as rolling down the car window and waving at the right time.

12 After arriving at the hotel, the newlyweds wait for the guests and friends following in the car to get off the bus, and then get off the bus one after another.

13 The order is that the best man gets out of the car and opens the door for the groom, and the groom opens the door for the bride. (Suggestion: Before the bride gets off the car, cover her face with the veil to protect her makeup and maintain a sense of mystery. If time permits, she can take a photo at the front of the car. At this time, the veil can be lifted.)

14 The bride and bridesmaids enter directly Rest in the dressing room, touch up makeup, and wait for the show.

15 Guests sign in and find seats.

16 The best man asks the host to listen to the arrangements. (Corsage for the host)

17 The best man and bridesmaid open the door of the banquet hall for the couple. The couple enters, followed by the best man and bridesmaid. (The wedding march plays 3-4 bars before opening the door, giving the guests a sense of anticipation. When entering, the newlyweds, groomsmen, and bridesmaids should hold their chests out, their heads raised, their abdomens in, their steps slow, and their faces smiling. Sacred, happy, don’t wave)

18 During the ceremony, the couple should stand naturally on the stage, smile and hold hands. The best man and bridesmaid should stand diagonally behind the couple, with happy and natural expressions. You need to stay focused and cooperate with new people at any time.

19 During the wedding banquet, the bride and groom, accompanied by the host and the best man and bridesmaid, toasted to the guests and lit cigarettes from table to table. When toasting, the bride and groom first toast the bride and groom in order of seniority and light cigarettes. When toasting to other guests, if there are many guests, the host will ask each table to select one or two representatives, and the bride and groom will toast and light cigarettes. After the newlyweds and guests dispersed, the groom's family saw them off at the door of the hotel. The wedding banquet is over.

20 The newlyweds are preparing to go home or have their wedding ceremony in the hotel.

2. You can refer to the taboos left by ancient traditions, but do not be overly superstitious.

(1) It is taboo to get married in the ghost month, which is the seventh month of the lunar calendar.

(2) Avoid getting married in the 6th month of the lunar calendar, as it means a half-moon wife.

(3) When setting up the bed, the bed should be placed in the right position and should not be in contact with the table, wardrobe or any other object. The sharp corners are facing each other.

(4) From the time the bed is set up to the eve of the wedding night, the groom-to-be is not allowed to sleep alone in the new bed. Instead, he can find a boy with a big zodiac sign and an underage boy to sleep with him, such as a zodiac sign. Dragon.

(5) On the day of the engagement, no matter how hot the weather is, all the people participating in the engagement are not allowed to fan, otherwise it will mean breaking up.

(6 ) After the engagement ceremony and the wedding banquet, neither party can say goodbye, otherwise there will be thoughts of remarriage.

(7) The dress worn by the bride on the wedding day should not have pockets to avoid being taken away. The wealth of the natal family.

(8) When the bride leaves her natal family, the harder she cries, the better. The more she cries, the more she cries, which means not crying or crying.

(9) On the wedding day, When the bride goes out, her aunts and sisters-in-law must avoid each other and cannot see each other off. Because "aunt" and "gu" have the same pronunciation, and "sister-in-law" and "sweep" have the same pronunciation, which are both unlucky.

(10) On the way to the wedding , if you encounter another wedding convoy and call "Happy to Happy", it will offset each other's blessings, so you must set off firecrackers for each other, or have the matchmakers of both parties exchange flowers to resolve it.

(11 ) On the wedding day, no one is allowed to touch the new bed until going to bed at night. The bride is not allowed to touch the bed on the day.

(12) On the wedding day, the bride is not allowed to lie down, otherwise there will be a The meaning of being sick in bed all year round.

(13) Because children cry easily, they should not be allowed into the wedding hall, because crying in the hall is unlucky.

( 14) When the bride enters the groom's house, she should avoid stepping on the threshold and should step over it.

(15) Anyone whose zodiac sign is "tiger" or widows are not allowed to attend the ceremony or enter the bridal house.

(16) The bride should be careful not to step on the groom’s shoes, as this will cause shame to her husband.

(17) On the day of Guining, the newlyweds must leave their parents’ house and go home before sunset. You must not stay at your parents' house overnight. If you cannot go home for special reasons, the couple should sleep separately to avoid bumping into your parents' house and causing misfortune to your parents' house.

(18) Do not participate in any activities within four months of the wedding. weddings and funerals.

(19) Within four months of the wedding, it is forbidden to stay out overnight.