After children enter junior high school, it also indicates puberty. /kloc-What if 0/4-year-old students are tired of learning?
/kloc-What if 0/4-year-old students are tired of learning?
First, expect less.
Moderate expectations can give children motivation. If expectations are too high, children are like snails struggling with their shells on their backs. Of course, less expectation is not without expectation, nor is it a "broken jar." Parents without expectations have no motivation to learn.
Second, a little more encouragement.
Parents should improve the ways and methods of education, encourage their children regularly, create a good learning atmosphere, stimulate their interests and hobbies, and let their children love learning from the heart, instead of taking completing learning as a task.
Third, more changes.
The most important thing is the child's own change. Be sure to analyze the reasons why children are tired of learning and find different solutions according to different reasons. At the same time, environmental improvement is equally important. Society, schools and families should strive to create an environment full of love and sunshine for children, and form an atmosphere that values learning and is willing to learn.
Fourth, establish correct goals.
Going to school is to get into college. There is no problem with this goal, but for many students, the goal is too big, the space is too long, and it will not inspire children too much. Only by setting small goals, and constantly achieving these goals, and bringing children a sense of accomplishment, can we constantly encourage children to move towards the best big goals.
Fifth, cultivate interest and build confidence.
Interest is the best teacher. Parents and children should encourage their children to follow their interests, give play to their own advantages and specialties in practice, have a new understanding of self-worth, and gradually develop good study habits and correct learning methods, so as to establish confidence, strengthen their beliefs, and overcome psychological obstacles of being tired of learning.
/kloc-what are the reasons why students in grade 0/4 are tired of learning?
1. Parents give their children too much pressure.
Many children are only children now. Parents put all their hopes on one person. There will also be some parents who are very strict with their children. Allow progress, not retrogression. When children face setbacks or failures, they may be very sad. If parents put too much pressure on their children at this time, it will do great harm to their hearts and easily cause irreversible psychological trauma.
2. Incorrect parenting style.
Are parents' parenting styles correct? Did they adopt the wrong way of raising children? There are generally three wrong ways to raise children. The first type is authoritarian parents, who never allow their children to have their own ideas and always try their best to ask them. The second type is arrogant. This type of parents are obedient to their children, and they do whatever they ask. The third is neglect. This type of parents never care about their children, which makes them feel insecure and concerned, thus making them feel inferior.
3, the child's own reasons.
Perhaps it is because the learning process is too difficult to keep up with the progress, or because of inferiority and lack of confidence in learning.
4, related to interpersonal relationships.
There is also the interference of bad interpersonal relationships. Many children hate learning, not learning itself, but having a bad relationship at school or at home. For example, school bullying in the school was isolated because he didn't fit in. Parents often quarrel at home, which makes children unable to study with peace of mind.