How can I teach myself without communication at work? So confused.
As the old saying goes, stand at thirty.
The original meaning of this sentence is that at the age of 30, a person should know what he is going to do in his life and what his goal is. In short, he established his own outlook on life and values.
However, many people find it difficult to meet this requirement. Take the workplace as an example. What is the significance of your going to work?
I believe that 70% or 80% of people can't answer this question, because many people spend their lives and work in a muddle. There is no goal, no plan, and sometimes I don't even know what the meaning of my actions is.
This is most of us ordinary people.
To answer the question itself, let's disassemble the key words of the question:
1.30 years old 2. Resigned on February 3. It is not easy to find a job. No funds. Confused.
Specifically, the first two are practical reasons, the middle two are problems encountered, and the last one is the result of the above contents. Let's try to rephrase this question: because I am 30 years old, it is not easy to find a job, so I resigned from home in February; Because there is no money, I can't start a business; So I'm poor, so I can't live.
So, very confused!
The question is: What should we do?
I didn't deliberately mystify and dissect this problem for you. The fact is that many people are really confused and anxious, but they don't know what their problems are. Maybe they just feel that they are 30 years old, and like everyone else, they have no venture capital, so they are confused and anxious.
But is this really the case? We discuss this problem from two aspects: starting a business and working.
A. Entrepreneurship
In the impression of many people, starting a business is a very difficult thing. The hardest thing is that you don't have enough start-up funds, because the solidified thinking mode tells him that you can't do anything without money!
Of course, the same is true. For most things, having no start-up capital means that you have accomplished nothing. After all, the world is relatively fair, and only investment can be rewarded.
However, I personally think that entrepreneurship is a way of working and an attitude towards life.
The 75-year-old Chu Shijian started his business again and founded Chu Orange, which was successful at the age of 85. Du was born in poverty and started his business five times in a row. The more frustrated he became, the more brave he became. Jack Ma, who looks weird, started his business three times and eventually became a rich man.
But do they care about wealth? Do you care about the label of the rich?
Maybe it was true when they started their business. With the progress of their career, they have regarded entrepreneurship as a way of life and a positive spirit.
Chu and Du, in particular, really understand the entrepreneurial process of these two people. But the fact is, they always have indomitable spirit. Even if they lose the whole world, they absolutely believe that they can still control the whole world.
So I said, entrepreneurship is a life attitude and a positive life ideal.
Maybe you will say, don't mess with me. How can you start a business without any capital?
Do you know Liu? This is a real poor man, and his home is in the Mid-Levels. It is no exaggeration to say that his family used to be poor, but he founded the JD.COM, which has been in charge since then and is worth hundreds of millions. What did you say?/Sorry?
His first job was to transport chips from Huaqiang North. At that time, he gradually accumulated experience, contacts and funds, and climbed to the top of JD.COM's business empire step by step.
Let's talk about Ma Yun again. At first, he was just a teacher in a normal college. He may have some capital in his hand, but certainly not much. Maybe he was destined to be an extraordinary person, so he registered a translation company and got the first 1 bucket of gold for starting a business.
But what you need to know is that before he founded this translation company, he once founded an English corner to provide free learning space for others. Most of these teachers became the backbone of his later translation company.
Let's talk about Zhou Zuoluo, who is known as the first content entrepreneur. He started late, and he was born in the 1990s. Do you know what he did when he just graduated from college? Set up a stall! It was in the process of setting up a stall that he learned how to communicate with people and understand the needs of customers. More importantly, he learned the path and method of continuous entrepreneurship and growth, and then he went to work and started a business and achieved great success.
Now, what do you need to start a business?
In my opinion, starting a business needs more courage, an invincible courage.
As for capital, experience and technology, these are additional skills.
If starting a business is regarded as a person's life, will God give you a chance to be reborn after you are fully prepared? Everyone is following others' path step by step, and learning from others' experience in constant growth, so as to accumulate and become their own advantages.
Who is born to start a business and has a perfect entrepreneurial environment?
So I think whether a person is successful depends more on his own spirit and whether he can match the temperament of successful people.
Especially ordinary people like us, when you decide to do something, start doing it at once, because your courage will be slowly worn away in the process of your preparation and thinking, until finally you will find that all your preparations may fail, until the end.
You haven't taken the 1 step of starting a business at all.
Regret is not failure, but knowing that I can do it, but never taking the first step 1.
On the contrary, the best way to do something is to start doing it as soon as you make a decision, accumulate experience in the process of doing it, and make iterative corrections, so that your path and results will converge to the goal.
To give the simplest example, I want to write an article. If I consider the reader's reaction and the usage structure of every word and sentence before writing, it may take me a lifetime and I can't write an article that satisfies everyone.
But if I had an idea, I would have started writing this article. In the follow-up process, I only need to fine-tune according to the reader's preferences, so that he can be liked by more people.
Of course, this is only a limit idea, but for most people, I think this method is applicable.
Especially in the workplace, some people are very disgusted with the work assigned to them by their leaders because they have never participated in it. But how can you grow if you just stand still and do what you can?
If you haven't grown up, why should the company give you a raise? If you haven't grown up, why should the company give you a promotion?
Everything has a cause and effect. Many times, we may just complain that others have achieved higher achievements than us, but we often ignore his best efforts behind the scenes. However, this is precisely where we are inferior to others.
Take the simplest table making as an example. Some people always ask for the opinions of their leaders after filling out the form, and they will continue to try online learning to make the form the best.
But some people just deal with the task, usually in the form of completion, or simply specious, just completing the task.
Imagine which of these two ways do you prefer? Which do leaders prefer? In the process of doing it yourself, which one will you choose?
Life is to keep growing, and standing still can only be forgotten, abandoned and eliminated.
Now please tell me, what does it matter if you don't have funds to start a business?
B. Work
In the last article, we have mentioned that 30 years old is a watershed, especially in the workplace.
After 30, a person's energy is limited. He has to take care of his family and social relations, so the energy he can allocate to his work will inevitably decrease. And 30 years old is also a watershed for the human body. After the age of 30, a person begins to gradually evolve into aging.
So there is a very apt metaphor on the Internet. Before the age of 30, you were a reservoir filled with water. After the age of 30, you are still a reservoir, but you just start to release water and have a lot of openings.
From this point of view, it seems that 30 years old is indeed the feng shui ridge of many people in the workplace, and everyone should be afraid of the crisis of middle age.
But the fact is that we can see successful people everywhere after the age of 30. Even if a person may not be so successful, he is proud of himself in the workplace. Why?
There is only one reason. You think you have a midlife crisis, and you think the company won't want you anymore, so the company may really stop wanting you, and you are facing a midlife crisis.
As the old saying goes, the heart Buddha is a Buddha, and the heart demon is a demon.
The sign of a person's aging is not that he can't walk, his hair is gray and his body is wobbly. But he began to accept his fate, taking everything for granted and thinking that everything was true.
This phenomenon is called by most people, accept it!
On the other hand, it is difficult for a person to find a job at the age of 30. Why?
Because the company leaders think that you may not be able to devote all your energy to your work, there may be many problems in your work, which will affect the overall development of the company because of your work status.
So, he doesn't want you.
But if you don't have the above concerns, and you still have surprises above him, will he still want them?
My classmate's father graduated from technical secondary school. After graduation, I worked as a private teacher in my hometown primary school. His monthly salary at that time was 300 yuan.
About 15 years ago, my classmate graduated from primary school, and my father was thirty years old, but he resolutely resigned from school and devoted himself to the outside workplace.
What can a 30-year-old Chinese teacher who has been a teacher for 78 years do?
The answer is: clerk.
His father started as a clerk in a company and became the office director of that company two years later. During these two years' work, he taught himself the knowledge related to civil engineering. He didn't stay in the position of office director for half a year, but he was dug up and became the project director of civil engineering.
The project director has been working for five years. During these five years, he taught himself knowledge related to architecture, culverts, railways and other civil engineering. There are only two ways to learn, one is to buy books by yourself, and the other is to learn from the big coffee in the industry. Sometimes I even have to learn from my son's nephew's college students unconsciously.
Just when my classmate was in college, his father was valued by a large enterprise with a state-owned enterprise background and was hired to take charge of regional projects. He has been there for nearly ten years now. According to my classmate, his father plans to go out by himself.
Is this experience legendary?
In my opinion today, this experience is still very legendary.
Twenty years ago, when my classmate was a child, there were three children in their family, each of whom made only one suit every year. There are five people in the family huddled in a shabby little house. Sometimes there is no food and no food, and we have to rely on relatives to help.
What about now? Their hometown is a tile house, and all three of their children have houses. His father still has the courage and capital to go it alone.
There is not so much to take for granted in this world, only the result after doing it in a down-to-earth manner.
This is especially true at work!
Back to the first question: What is the significance of your work?
There may be many different answers: make money and do something. ...
But you have to understand one thing: work is the most important part of life!
At least, for most ordinary people.
24 hours a day, sleep for 8 hours, go to work for 8 hours, and eat, entertain, spend time with family and study at other times. ...
After all, your work will always take up most of your day.
So I quite agree with a point: the workplace is the Dojo, where you practice and cultivate your mind.
If you compare life to a game, the difficulty in your work lies in your breakthrough again and again, until finally, you hit the last BOSS and the game is over.
Of course, there may be many people who will never reach this stage, because many people's so-called work is just marking time, just repeating a job for decades.
So what I want to say here is that the length of service has never been your limiting factor. A person's attitude determines your attitude towards life, and your attitude towards work also determines the attitude of the world towards you.
Now you still find it hard to find a job?
C. About 30 years old
Many people will regard the age of 30 as the feng shui ridge of life, make money before the age of 30 and support their families after the age of 30.
There is nothing wrong with this truth and logic, but some people often feel that after the age of 30, they will definitely have no energy to do anything.
But you should always remember that 30 is just an ordinary age in your life. You should always be yourself, do what you like best, achieve yourself and realize your dreams.
And don't forget to be positive, otherwise, no matter what, whether you are 20 or 50 years old, even if you are only 18 years old, your life will be gloomy.