Ox born in October, Ox born in May

Ox born in October

I have eight brothers and sisters. Some of them got rid of me, some of them were given away, and I still have four others. They gave me twelve nephews. My nephew, the older niece is two years younger than me, and the youngest niece is one year older than my son. The eldest niece and eldest niece are my peers, so in the whole family, we are in the position of being the junior, and we can’t grow up. My eldest sister-in-law or aunt, I watched my nephews and nephews grow up and integrate into each other. As I am nearly sixty years old, I always think about some things and understand some people. To me, my nephews and nephews are more research-oriented. Why can they all be able to do this? Coming from behind, even the youngest niece is not inferior.

1. Doudou did not eat the lonely old man

Doudou was the daughter of the second brother who was born at the age of forty-one, and was born to the third second sister-in-law. The first two were both She was tied to her ex at Baizi Cave in Daxiang Mountain, far away. According to her, the far away is close to human nature, and the close is close to human nature. This makes sense. Raise a child who will grow up to be a monk or a nun. It would be better not to raise a child.

Doudou should be the treasure of the whole family when he was born, but because the second brother was chasing his unfulfilled ideal and could not take care of the family, Doudou was given to me when he was weaned at more than one year old. He was raised by his mother, and from now on he became a child without a mother, relying mainly on his second sister for help.

When I returned to my parents’ home in the winter of 1990, she was already able to talk, walk unsteadily, and respond to adults. She was a lively and cute little girl with a boy’s hair. I bought some wholesale. Fried rice was soaked for my son and niece to eat. My son was not yet weaned at that time, and he was not used to the Gansu diet. After a while, both children became fat, especially the niece. When she peed, There is a heavy feeling. When we got home, the mother gave her son a sweater. The little niece expressed her opinion. The baby is small, so she gave him the smaller one and left the big one for me to wear. I was surprised. When did the rules of the Li family become Like this, but what has changed is what has changed. This is the one who is biological, loved by family members, and loved by young and capable parents.

The second time I moved to my parents’ home was during the Spring Festival of 1995. This time, I wanted to explain why my mother had gone missing and was unable to pick her up in time, and I wanted to clear up the past grudges and seek forgiveness. A family of three embarked on a journey to Gansu. At that time, the baby had already gone to kindergarten. Doudou's father did not apply for a household registration for his daughter, so he did not go to kindergarten. At that time, she was very naughty, and the whole family actually sat together on the hot kang. When we went to school, we went to shave the nose of the second brother who was so serious and irritable. The father and daughter had a lot of fun.

At that time, Doudou was so cute, but it was a nuisance to the family. Occasionally, my mother would take her to watch TV, and her nephews and nieces would not pay attention to her, and even called her a precious egg sarcastically. .

This kind of treatment did not change until Doudou secretly helped his eldest niece take care of her children when she was in school.

When I went there in 1998, I had already dropped out of school and was winding yarn in the weaving workshop. I was now half an adult. She asked me to go out on the street and get married, but I didn’t. What does it mean? It was because of the need to raise chickens that I went to borrow money at the urging of my husband. However, I didn't get the loan. I took some apples from my elder brother-in-law and planned to sell them on the train, but I didn't have the courage after all.

In 2002, I followed my second niece in the Nanling Hotel to wash dishes, serve dishes, and pack some leftovers to help support the family. I also bought myself a household registration. So far, I have had a lot of fun in life, and I can also read and write diaries. . In 2006, we were doing big business. I didn't meet her when I went there. Later, she got married, and the partner also did business with her in Lianyungang.

She and I agree on the concept of money. Therefore, they can get along with each other in the future without resenting each other. But she has never been lonely and has always been self-reliant. By the way, as a child born in the 1990s, she is not afraid of the heavy family burden brought by having children. She already had two children in 15 years.

2. The incredible Fu Niu

The eldest sister gave birth to four children. Fu Niu is the youngest. She has two sisters and a brother, and she is the most handsome one. , the whole family's love is on her.

She was born in the year of the Ox. Because at that time, the farming work had been exhausted and the cattle plowing had stopped, the October Ox was known as the lucky cow. When the eldest sister was pregnant with her, there were some contacts of the same age, so the child was named. There is often one word in common, so the lucky cow is named Danwa, which is of course just a pronunciation, maybe it is Danwa, it doesn't matter. The sun rises on the horizon, and it is a good thing for a baby to be born at the right time.

She is said to be a lucky cow, of course because of her birth date. In fact, when she was a child, her family was not in a good situation. Her eldest brother-in-law dragged a truck, and her eldest sister unfortunately suffered from confinement disease and could not take care of the family. The family of six had to live alone. The eldest niece cooks two meals a day, plus a cooked bun. When the eldest niece is busy cooking, the second niece cooks the pot. If the fire is too high or the fire is too low, the pot will be raw or mushy. It was the responsibility of the pot cook. Therefore, it was common for the second daughter to be beaten. Once she got used to it, she became the support of the family. Not only her parents beat her, but also her siblings. Until she grew up, she would even ride on her and beat her. , even within one day, he was beaten first by his brother, then by his mother, and then by his mother.

Compared with her elder sister, she is really a lucky cow. Her eldest sister also has to take care of the housework while going to school. When she was about to graduate from elementary school, she dropped out of school and worked in a flour mill to take over. Despite the disapproval of her whole family, she was the only one who could sit quietly in the classroom and receive an education until she graduated from junior high school, bought clothes, and worked as a nanny.

She has a high IQ and extremely good academic performance. When she was three years old, she could sing Nanniwan with her mother. Although her pronunciation was not true, she still had the same taste. In school, she was the most naughty one. One, at that time, before the school bell rang, there would usually be a cultural teacher leading the whole class to sing. She ignored the presence of the teacher at the door of the classroom and led her classmates to sing one by one. Of course she could be in class, naturally. They are all the top teachers. Once the teacher steps onto the podium, stands up, and starts class, all activities in the class will stop.

If we talk about how she was able to get into the heart of the teacher, it is of course the peaceful and gentle personality she has developed since childhood. This personality is also reflected in her interactions with her cousin and aunt, and her second niece. , the eldest daughter of the second sister's family is a little one or two years younger. That year when she went to the second sister's house, in the summer, the three of them covered themselves with a quilt. It was cold at night, and the two of them lay in bed. I just caught a cold. When I saw this, I saw a shadow of Xing Xiuyan who had given up his winter clothes. That's why the ending ended like Xing Xiuyan's.

One year, she made an appointment with her second niece to work in Guangdong. Because her second niece was getting married, my eldest brother didn’t agree. She said, “If my second niece doesn’t go, I won’t go either, so I’ll just stay at home and work.” housework.

Maybe the world can’t bear to see a beautiful and filial daughter who has a bad life. When she got a good marriage, her husband was from the bureau. She got married and became a member of the bureau, responsible for collecting fees. She accepted the offer. As the old saying goes, if you marry a chicken, follow the chicken, if you marry a dog, follow the dog. After marriage, they had two sons, both of whom received higher education.

Her two sisters fought hard, but in the end they were not as brilliant as she was. The eldest sister later started a business and was very good at making money, and was favored by her family. After the second sister failed in her business with fifty yuan, she was The eldest sister was married to Lianyungang, but due to the disapproval of her natal family, she was not retained at all. Soon, the eldest sister also married to Shandong. Not long after their mother passed away, she suffered a car accident and died. When I returned to my natal family in 15 years, I heard that My second sister talked about this with her second sister.

Her only brother, who got married very late, was the naughtiest one among her nephews. He went to school until the first grade of junior high school and never went any further. He was born in the Year of the Pig and in the Dog Moon, and his name was Tiger. I guess that was his name. My wife is too big, my fate can’t hold me back, I haven’t done a serious business, he is quite impressive, he is a competent brother-in-law, the kind who can protect my sister from being bullied, and can protect her from being bullied. I heard that my wife is pregnant with her second child. Considering her age, she couldn't bear the fear and aborted the pregnancy. As a girl, she served her during the confinement period.

It’s time to leave, leaving two brothers and sisters, who depend on each other for life and are no longer in love with each other. As a sister, she is lucky to have such a brother. Can you say that it is not a blessing to the whole family? Her father With her, the end-of-life care was in place, with Doudou having her, she was carried out and carried in and out when she was a child, which lightened my mother's burden. When talking about her, they are all words of praise. I hope she will be happy for a long time.

3. The Destined Mouse on the Bull’s Head

The second sister is the only one in the family who has not gone to school, and is also the only one who has attended kindergarten. There are two brothers below, one and one for sending. When I was born, she was ten years old, so she dropped out of school to take care of me, and then went to my grandmother's house to serve my grandparents until she got married.

My in-laws are my relatives, and the marriage was arranged by an old aunt who read palmistry. After reading it, the matchmaker made the match for the son of the old aunt’s in-laws. She saw the appearance of a prosperous husband in her second sister. As the saying goes, the wealth should not flow to outsiders. My grandma made the decision and it was decided through a kiss.

After the engagement, the second sister’s fate came into play. The second brother-in-law became a militia battalion commander. Later, he took some of my father’s medical books to study and was recommended by the village to study in Lanzhou. After completing his studies, , became a veterinarian, but also treated people.

On the first day of the twelfth lunar month in 1972, the second sister gave birth to one of her children. The child’s birth date was not bad, and he was destined to be a rat. Before the separation of the family, the second brother-in-law became unemployed and worked in In the commune, they had commercial food, and the second sister earned work points at home while taking care of the children.

When I was in the fourth grade of elementary school, my second sister’s family separated from their original family and established their own small family. By the time my second sister gave birth to a second child in 1976, the eldest daughter was When he was four or five years old, he could carry three to five kilograms of wheat flour to the village to process noodles, and his grandparents never asked him about it.

The second sister belongs to my grandpa and grandma. She knows how to teach children to do housework. Before her family built a house in 1978, the six or seven-year-old girl could roll out the dough that the second sister had made. I used a stool to wash pots and wash dishes. I had fun and learned happily throughout my childhood. Children in the mountains have the embrace of a big mountain and the determination of a big mountain. They don’t have too much squeamishness when they grow up.

She is one of grandpa’s grandsons, and she is grandpa’s pistachio. During a day’s hard work in the farm, she looks at her granddaughter’s imitation, and she can’t help but laugh. The fatigue of the day is gone. Sweep away.

Once, my dad took her down the mountain with oil and potatoes on his back. On the way, he spilled the oil, probably quite a lot, even on the potatoes. She asked my dad for help. The idea was to wipe it with soil and wipe it clean one by one. The mountain road was winding and dusty. It looked poor and white, but the soil was very fine. Every time I went up the mountain, I would grab the soil and play with it. Not to mention, the white soil in Beishan was clean. After we gave birth to a child, we used it as powder.

After that, when she asked her grandfather how he got rid of the oil, she imitated it, first pretending to go downhill with her back straight, and then spreading her hands, both the potatoes and the oil fell off, and she said helplessly , what to do now, and then said, Grandpa, wipe it with soil.

Whenever I go to my sister’s house, I always see her and a large group of children running down the slope. When she sees me coming, she calls her aunt enthusiastically and accompanies me all the way home. At that time, I can’t remember, When I went to my sister’s house, I used all the pocket money given by adults to buy snacks. Later, when the second sister picked up potatoes and asked me to bring them down, the second sister picked the big ones and she picked the small ones. After that, the second sister and I picked the small ones. My brother finds it too heavy and is not happy to carry it.

Among my brothers and sisters, my second brother is the most eloquent one, but he was robbed speechless in front of my second sister’s niece. Once, while eating rice dumplings, my second brother said, “Country people.” Eating rice dumplings is sweet without honey. She replied, we country people have never seen what honey is. I was frustrated once during a verbal battle because when I accidentally talked about a child from a relative of hers, she felt offended and said that child was much better than me. I hesitated. In front of me, I just have to shut up.

A year after I came to Jiangsu, she also got married. The two were in love. The second brother-in-law initially disagreed, and the second sister became angry because of it. Later, she couldn't resist her daughter, so she agreed to the marriage. Later, she learned how to barber and opened a barber shop. The business was booming. The couple went to the dance hall. However, there were problems in their marriage and they divorced. Later, she found a man in Guangxi who talked to me in Gansu a few days ago and planned to fight against the epidemic. After it was over, I accompanied my second sister to my place to play. She was one of my nieces and nephews who came to see me, which made me deeply moved.

Fourth, the eldest niece who is both deaf and mute

When my eldest brother got married, I was only half a year old, sixteen or seventeen years old. I was not much taller than Kangtou, and I was still young. Entering, therefore, he came to my house to raise her for several years, and it was only six or seven years before she became pregnant with a daughter. During the pregnancy, someone asked my eldest brother to help the baby, but my mother couldn't stop her. I heard that it was not good for the fetus. Sure enough, the eldest niece was born with rickets and needed long-term calcium supplements. Initially, she took calcium in a thermos bottle. If you have stains, eat scrambled eggs with beeswax, the child will be cured. By the time he is three or five years old, he will not be able to speak yet, so he will embark on a long road to seek medical treatment.

When I was in second grade, my mother took her to Lanzhou for more than 40 days of treatment. She stayed at her aunt’s house in Yanchangbao. She took out the earplug in one ear, but the other one was not removed because I was worried about my family and came back.

It is said that my aunt was very cruel to my niece. On the way to seek medical treatment, she kept dragging her away and never hugged her, nor did she let my mother hug her. Both her husband and wife were the same. After the marriage, my grandma wrote at her house. After grandma died, the children became independent, each washing their own dishes and each washing their own clothes. Therefore, the children in her family were well-educated, which is not the case for children from poor families, like the second brother and the second sister. I went to my aunt's house in Lanzhou, but it was not easy to live there. When my mother came home, she took out and washed all the bedding she used.

Since she has not been cured, just accept her fate. She can only remain deaf and mute, but people are divided into three, six and nine. The trip to Lanzhou allowed her to grow into a mute. Her smile makes people warm and makes her She was so pitiful that her eldest brother took her with him when he redeemed and sold sweaters and spent all the money on her. When the ticket was being checked on the bus, she hid under the seat. After her brother and sister-in-law were taken away by the police, she got out and waited for her brother and sister-in-law. Come back and live like this until later.

On the first day of the first lunar month in 1978, the second nephew was born. That year, the eldest brother built a new house on his private land and took his eldest niece with him. The second nephew continued to sell sweaters. When selling sweaters, the eldest niece took him with him. The second nephew, when the second nephew is hungry, the child cries, and she cries too, which attracts passers-by to look around and give some food to them. Often, when they come back, they bring a lot of food.

In 1979, the eldest niece met the man of her destiny, a guest from Lanzhou who was visiting relatives. He introduced her to the Lanzhou School for the Deaf and Mute. From then on, the fate of her life was changed. On the eve of her graduation, , she also sent a mute girl from her neighbor to school, and several boys liked her.

When I was still taking the college entrance examination, the Renfu Garment Factory was recruiting workers, so she went to work. When I went on a blind date, I even borrowed a set of clothes from her. When I left for Jiangsu, she wanted to send me off, but was blocked. Swearing in sign language, Chunshang ran away from home for a while, married in Tianshui, gave birth to a daughter, later divorced, and now has a family in Shanghai.

If you don’t come out, how can you know the warmth and kindness of people? There are things in the world where relatives are not as good as neighbors. I miss my aunt, who has the ability and opportunity to let my niece go to a school for the deaf and mute earlier and receive more education. , but it turned out that it was the help of outsiders, but if she had not been an aunt for more than 40 days, how could she have the eldest niece who has settled in Shanghai today? It should be said that she is ruthless but affectionate.

Fifth, the eldest nephew who has returned to the ancestors of the third generation

The eldest nephew is the third child of the eldest brother. The older he grows, the more he looks like my grandfather. The family is secretly happy in their hearts and can’t help but recall it. Those family histories where the family business is prosperous.

My grandfather is ranked among the old brothers. He is a successful businessman. He opened a wine shop and built two courtyards. He has a family and three small families eating on the same stove. My uncle is His right-hand man, who helped him manage the business, was unfortunately killed while purchasing goods from other places. Half a year later, my grandfather also passed away. In this way, without the backbone, the sky fell.

The eldest nephew’s return to his ancestors is another sign of prosperity and decline, making the whole family look forward to a comeback and spring in the dead wood. He is ten years younger than me, and he is like a tiger in Luopingchuan who will not be bullied by dogs. When he was weaned, I learned to be an aunt. During the days when I was doing business outside, I could help my mother take care of him. In winter, I would get up and make steamed buns for my eldest nephew to eat. The purpose was just to reduce the burden and wait until he was older. When I go to school, I stay with him overnight, wash up in the morning, make the bed, and then go to school separately.

In 1985, after my two brothers separated, my dad gave it to his eldest brother, and his eldest nephew slept with my dad. When my dad passed away in 1988, he cried more than us children. They are all sad. That is the true relationship between grandfather and grandson. It is not how Liu Ye cried for Jingzhou, nor Zhuge Liang's tears of condolence, nor can it be stopped when the mourner asks to stop, nor can he hold back his tears when he is not allowed to. come out.

After my father passed away, he paused for seven days and asked a feng shui master to choose an auspicious time. Finally, he chose the east end of the responsibility field across the sand embankment. It is said that in that cave , among the grandchildren, there can be two college students. This good thing is left to the children of the eldest brother. On one side, the second brother is poor and dependent, and on the other side, the eldest brother is prosperous. All the children of the eldest brother, except the eldest daughter, are Fight for the chance.

After graduating from high school, my eldest nephew repeated his studies for one year, but had no chance to go to college. He helped his brother and sister-in-law at home, making noodles at night and selling steamed buns the next day to support his two younger siblings in school. I got married and had children. My daughter-in-law was a colleague of my second niece. I went to the hospital for a blood transfusion because of anemia that year. At that time, I opened a rice noodle shop in the East Alley. In 2006, I opened a hotel near the brigade. When I went there, , my eldest nephew picked me up in the car. I had dinner at my eldest brother’s house. When I left, my eldest nephew also delivered it to the car. When he returned in 15 years, on the tenth anniversary of my mother's death, he had already arrived in the village.

I was surprised as to why he didn’t pass the exam. Could it be that he had no chance to go to university because of his ancestral appearance, and he just wanted to be a successful businessman? However, the status of businessmen today is not low. , and from a businessman to a villager, his future, for him, his failure to pass the exam is more of a concession. This can be seen when he took the initiative to help his little niece learn to ride a bicycle. My little niece is much more patient and meticulous in her homework than my father and I were back then.

Sixth, the second niece dancing on the ground

The second niece was born just after the fighting, which corresponds to the eldest niece being born at the beginning of the fighting. They were each named Yan Wu Heping Wu, with typical historical significance, was called the Queen. Unknowingly, it was called Yan Wu, Ping Wu, and as the name suggests, the eldest niece danced well. When she came back from the summer vacation, the younger niece became her prop. But when it comes to dancing, the second niece is the best dancer on the stage of life.

My father took care of my second niece. Because he knew how to prepare nutrients, his face became chubby. At that time, my mother and I were both working part-time in the canteen, so we gave her the task of taking care of my second niece. I asked him, and he lived up to expectations and led him very well.

The fact that children are naughty and not willing to play bad depends on their concept of rightness and the conditioned reflex they have formed. A good child will know that he is about to be beaten when he raises his hand, and a middle-class child will only feel that he is being beaten when his hand touches his body. A lower-class child is called a spanking only if it hurts. My second niece is considered to be a middle-class child. My dad just used the thick cotton hat to hold his hand for a moment, and she started to cry. At that time, it was not like spanking the elder sister, but a slap. The iron rod beat him to the head, and it was not like beating the second brother, which caused a nosebleed, but it had the same effect.

My second niece is so good at fighting. When she was five or six years old, she followed a girl from the neighborhood who hated me and scolded me. I gave her a firm slap in the face, which made her weak. Bu Na sat there for a long time and became known as wilted apricots.

Women like to travel around the world, and take their children with them, euphemistically called socializing, or socializing, it is the same, but she only wanders in the circle of wealth, not poverty. After staying in the geda, my second niece had a playmate and stepped out of the shadow I had created.

As I grew older, my playmates turned into friends, and my friends turned into besties. My friend gave her a job as a plate carrier in a county guest house, and my mother also wanted to find one for me, so I asked her to make friends with her. My mother there asked An Po for help. An Po asked, "Can I hold seven or eight bowls of food on a plate?" My mother was speechless. But the guest house is not just about holding plates, there are people in the kitchen. Don't all series of jobs require people to do it? But newcomers always have to accept the test, and the second niece continued to do it.

Why is she able to do it but I can’t? Do you even need to ask? Of course she is a mother. She can always find something to do for her children. Her eldest brother cooks and the kitchen is tidy. She had to cook, and the kitchen was a mess, waiting for her second niece to clean it up. From then on, all the washing and cooking were left to her. Even when her hands were swollen with frostbite like steamed buns, she refused her mother's help. During that period, her appetite increased greatly. , I eat steamed buns as soon as I wake up in the morning, and eat steamed buns before going to bed at night. I have not experienced that stage of life, so I asked for advice, and they said it was a normal stage of development. Later, my stature increased a lot, and even the uncle of the third room said that she was in a normal growth stage. As early as the second brother's third marriage, she participated in the preparations and suggested using sea buckthorn wine. At that time, she was still a student. In the uncle's dormitory in the third room, the second niece hugged her uncle's son. He said a golden sentence that made the teachers present laugh. In this way, the second niece can be fully cultivated and developed, and it also creates conditions for her future work to be smooth. How can a spoiled little sister like me do it?

After she entered the county guest house, she came into contact with mostly upper-class and powerful people. To be able to get along easily among these people, it was impossible without some social experience. Coincidentally, her second niece already had it under her words and deeds.

The second niece’s husband works as a driver in the county and has an older brother. After the marriage, the two brothers jointly contracted the Nanling Hotel. The second niece became the manager and took the second brother’s Doudou to wash dishes. The two sisters-in-law each took the leftovers, rice and soup from the hotel to raise pigs, and the second niece's share supported the eldest nephew's pig-raising business.

In 15 years ago, she was cooking in the county. Her eldest nephew stopped raising pigs and vacated a new house to open a hotel. In her hometown in the county, she was the only one of the five sisters who lived together.

This year, she is fifty and zero, and tomorrow is her birthday. It is the eighth month of the lunar calendar and the fruits are fragrant. It is a better day of the year. August fifteenth is also a festival for family reunion. , here, I wish her all her wishes come true and everything goes well.

7. College students buried in ancestral graves

The above is the content related to people born in October in the year of Ox, and is about marriage. After reading about Ox people born in May, I hope this will be helpful to everyone!