Parents get together to worship Confucius and pray for good luck, which will increase the psychological pressure of candidates.
With the coming of the college entrance examination, many parents began to gather in the Confucian Temple in Suzhou to burn incense for Confucius and pray for their children's good luck. However, most candidates do not agree with their parents' behavior, but some citizens understand their parents' behavior.
The college entrance examination (excellent course) is coming. While the candidates are nervously reviewing and preparing for a positive response, some parents of candidates are also anxious. On the eve of the college entrance examination, many parents began to gather in the Confucius Temple in Suzhou to burn incense for Confucius and pray for their children's good luck. Hundreds of parents come to worship Confucius every day. However, most candidates do not agree with their parents' behavior, but some citizens understand their parents' behavior. It is unnecessary for parents to pray for good luck, but don't be too nervous, which will increase the psychological burden.
On the afternoon of June 2, the reporter saw in the Confucian Temple of Renmin Road in Suzhou that it was being renovated and scaffolding was set up in front of the archway. Even so, many parents came to burn incense and worship Confucius. They come from Suzhou and surrounding cities. Parents come to the Confucian Temple to burn incense and worship Confucius mainly to pray for their children and hope that the college entrance examination will go smoothly. According to the staff of the Confucian Temple, almost every day these days, many parents get together to burn incense and pray for college entrance examination students.
Parents of candidates think that praying for blessings in the college entrance examination is very meaningful and also seek peace of mind. To this end, Suzhou Confucian Temple Management Office posted? Civilization incense announcement? , opening and promoting Suzhou Confucian Temple? The champion of the Confucian Temple is fragrant? Advocate parents' civilization and respect. Ms. Zhou, who came to worship Confucius, told the reporter: The children's college entrance examination is coming soon, and all the parents around them come to worship Confucius. I also come to worship myself and wish my children good grades. ?
According to the staff of the Confucian Temple, on the eve of the college entrance examination, parents who came to burn incense and pray for blessings came in an endless stream. According to the announcement posted by the Confucian Temple Management Office, this has become the custom of the citizens since ancient times, especially before the senior high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination. However, with the increasing number of pilgrims, in order to maintain the civilization, safety and environmental order in public places, the Confucian Temple Management Office decided to burn incense in a civilized way, prohibiting the burning of high incense and tin foil paper money.
However, many candidates do not agree with their parents' practices, and some candidates say, in fact, I don't believe in these things either. If you study well, you will be admitted. If you can't learn well, it's no use burning incense. I told my parents not to do these things before, but they didn't listen and I was helpless. ?
I learned from Suzhou Guangji Hospital that many parents used to take their children to a professional psychologist for help. This year, not only candidates, but also parents asked for help. Parents can't sleep because their children have to take the college entrance examination. This situation has obviously increased. It is understood that many parents are more anxious than their children in the face of the college entrance examination. Psychologists say that anxiety is contagious, and parents can't control their emotions well, which can easily affect their children's preparation for exams. Under normal circumstances, this anxiety will gradually ease and disappear after the college entrance examination. Once parents and candidates have such serious anxiety symptoms, they can seek the help of psychologists and receive professional psychological counseling. If necessary, they can take some anti-anxiety drugs to relieve anxiety symptoms.
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