When my girlfriend called me, I met other boys I knew in college. She said hello and asked where the boys were going. Does she really love me?

First of all, from the male aspect. He gave up because he was rejected for expressing his feelings to you for the first time, and he gave up completely. Such a man is not worth cherishing. He can block you so decisively, firstly, there may be a better candidate, and secondly, he feels that there is no need to continue if you don't love him. This also shows that he is not mature enough. Of course, I know a lot about both of you and I would like to give you my personal advice. One final piece of advice, girl, those who miss you will definitely come to you, and don’t feel sorry for those who don’t cherish you. I read an article and found it to share with you.

Zhou Xiaopang is my former colleague. In fact, she was not fat at first. She was just a little lolita with a small waist that was easy to push down. But later on, the pig feed mutilated her small waist into a Wuhuafa.

I had just joined at the time, and because she was mean-mouthed and I was cute too, we quickly chatted together.

I asked: Do you have a boyfriend?

She asked: What do you want to do? Sister, I don't like this.

The corners of my mouth twitched and I said: I was just asking if there were any.

She said: Oh, no.

I said: No, although you look very safe, it will be dark and it will be difficult to see clearly. Isn’t it possible that no one will blindly chase you?

Zhou Xiaopang pouted: What did you say!

I smiled and said: No, I mean, it would be a waste of money for a little lolita like you, who is so light and delicate, to have no one want her.

She said: Yes, but he...

He was called Lengbencheng in Zhou Xiaopang’s mouth. The two were high school classmates. One time Lengbenchi saw Zhou playing basketball. Little Fatty drifted by and was deeply attracted. At this time, he was about to shoot a three-step shot, but accidentally broke the entire basketball stand, and he also lay down for a month.

It was really a life-threatening encounter, but Zhou Xiaopang was not moved by it. According to her, all the big guards and slam dunk masters of the entire basketball team were chasing her, so why choose a cold one? What about the bench?

On the contrary, the ten thousand-year-old bastard who has been sitting on the bench chases Zhou Xiaopang like a hammer, day and night, regardless of whether she has a boyfriend or not, she is simply a If you are okay, I will have a spare tire. Old story.

Then I said: After listening to what you said, I think it’s good to be on the bench.

Pang Zhou sighed and said: Not bad, but not as handsome as Oppa.

I was stupid and yelled: Zhou Xiaopang, can you stop being so naive? Can handsome people be used as food? Can Shuai be used as a card swipe? Can being handsome cure hemorrhoids... Let me tell you, Little Fatty Zhou, you must have a clear view. Not every man is like Brother Qiang or me, or as handsome as Oppa.

Zhou Xiaopang looked disdainful: What kind of oppa are you?

I said: I am Hu Jian and Oppa.

Zhou Xiaopang was speechless.

I continued: Don’t worry, you won’t end up alone. If the cold bench misses you, he will definitely come to you.

For girls in their early 20s who have just entered the workplace, they are simply born visual animals, so their love standard is that they would rather stay than lower the standards of Korean dramas.

Another year later, Zhou Xiaopang moved to a new house and it coincided with her birthday. She invited several of our colleagues to share her apartment with her and eat dumplings to celebrate.

As soon as we entered the door, we saw a tall boy wearing a Hello Kitty apron. He greeted us enthusiastically and then poured us drinks and prepared the dumplings he made.

Yanran Zhou saw her husband immediately, but she didn’t expect that when she asked him, he would be called a cold shoulder.

You really agree with what I said: people who miss you will definitely come to you.

So everyone clinked glasses and said blessings, and I quickly grabbed the lines and said: I wish you a happy marriage, a long life together, and a son soon!

The cold bench laughed, and Zhou Xiaopang directly cursed!

It turns out that Lengbei came to struggle and rented a house. It happened that Fatty Zhou was due to change his house. Lengbei gave her a 50% discount, and Zhou Xiaopang moved in smoothly. The two just The relationship between old classmates and roommates.

Although the appearance and talent of the cold bench are several industrial ages behind me, the whole meal experience is still worthy of manual thumbs up.

Although I tried my best to accommodate Zhou Xiaopang and sit on the bench, Zhou Xiaopang was still looking for "thumping heartbeat". I originally advised her to stop eating early, but unexpectedly she told me that she had just made a boyfriend.

I asked: Did your boyfriend give it to you by charging phone bills? Why so suddenly.

Zhou Xiaopang said: I went to a Sanlitun bar with my friends that day and met Oppa.

As he said this, he showed me the photo, and I admitted that he looked really handsome after using Perfect Picture cosmetics.

But I still object: Are you serious about the Sanlitun match?

Zhou Xiaopang asked: What is Lianliankan?

I answer: Aren’t those who go to Sanlitun bars to drink and spend the night hunting? He is a firewood, you are a fire, his surname is Ximen, your name is Jinlian, his sperm is on the brain, and you are lonely in an empty bed, isn’t that consistent Watch a night of matching!

Pang Zhou cursed me a few times.

I said: If the heartbeat you want is based on Obama, it will definitely not last.

Zhou Xiaopang scolded: You are just jealous that he is more handsome than you...

Unfortunately, they broke up soon, and they stayed together for more than half a year, and Zhou Xiaopang came to find me. drink wine.

She said: Brother Qiang, you said that women can’t control their mouths when they are thirty years old and gain weight easily...Brother Qiang, you said that I couldn’t even wear the clothes I wore when I graduated from college. ...Brother Qiang, you said that all the Obamas are looking for people born in the 90s, like me...

I interrupted and said: Fatty Zhou, look at what you are doing when you are cold, lonely, empty and cold, what should you look for? One person warmed the bed.

Zhou Xiaopang said: I think so too. In the past few years of work, I have found that there are fewer and fewer men chasing me.

I said: This is very reasonable. Things are changing. If you always dominate the scene and let those little girls born in the 90s live, how can they live? Zhou Xiaopang, brother Qiang, tell you the truth, the little girl born in 1997 is also 18 years old. If you can have one now, don’t pick one.

She said: I didn’t choose. What I wanted has always been Oppa, and that hasn’t changed.

I said: Don’t count on Oppa, the cold bench is really reliable. In order to chase you, he came to Beidiao to take care of you, and he also acts as a free chef for you every day. Where can I find such a thing? A wonderful man, of course, I am not suitable for you.

Zhou Xiaopang didn’t argue with me: But the cold bench has returned to his hometown.

I said: Don’t worry, if he misses you, he will definitely come to you again.

Zhou Xiaopang said: I made him wait for so long in vain, what if he gets discouraged? And I heard that he is already on a blind date and getting married.

I was angrily: Then go after him. If you really think he is suitable, don’t lose him again. If you really miss him, go find him.

Pang Zhou was stunned!

I then left my job to start my own business. Because I was in retreat writing scripts, I rarely saw my former colleagues. I met Zhou Xiaopang by chance.

She said: Brother Qiang, I’ll treat you to pig’s trotters.

I said: You better understand Brother Qiang, I will change the manuscript and I will be at your house in an hour.

She said: It can’t be reached in an hour, I live far away.

I said: Is the Eastern Land far away from the Tang Dynasty? Can't I take an express train?

She said: No, I am in my hometown.

I said: Hao, what kind of pig's trotters did you treat me to in my hometown?

Zhou Xiaopang said: My mother said that when you get married, you must ask the matchmaker to eat pig's trotters.

I was surprised when did I become her matchmaker? When I asked, I found out that I was the one who got along with her and the cold bench.

It turns out that Fatty Zhou, whom we were chatting with that day, really went back to his hometown, but suddenly left in the middle of the blind date and stayed up all night.

The two of them crossed paths and waited all day at the door of their shared apartment.

When the call came the next day, Zhou Xiaopang asked the cold bench: Why did you come to see me?

The cold shoulder said: Because I miss you.

Because I miss you, this is the most affectionate love words I have ever heard.

Because I miss you, this world has become so beautiful.

So, girl, don’t worry, no matter where you are, the people who miss you will definitely come to you.

So, girl, thinking of you in the middle of the night is like eating fried chicken and wanting to drink a bottle of beer. Flying to your city all night will not take long.