The best "feng shui" for a family is mostly related to these points

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There is a saying that "Those who love go out love to return, and those who have good fortune will come back."

If you think about others, I believe others will also think about you. For your own sake. If you help others and contribute your own blessings, your blessings will increase in the future. This is the good fate of people.

Why do we often say that we should “build good relationships”? It is because good karma is not only related to our own happiness, but also related to the rise and fall of the family.

As the saying goes, "If a person is good but his family is not good, then disaster will ensue. If a person is prosperous and his family is prosperous, then good fortune will come."

If you are blessed, that is a good thing. However, if our family is not blessed, then we will also be unlucky. If we do well ourselves and our families are well, then future generations will be more prosperous.

Of course, family blessings will not appear out of thin air. They require our efforts. There is a saying that "Always say it's your destiny, and ask for more blessings." Blessings are what we strive for.

You will eventually understand that a family's best "good karma" is mostly related to these points.

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The first point: Family members should work together and avoid fighting among themselves.

To make a family lose quickly, we only need to do one thing, and that is to let the whole family "fight among themselves."

You target me, I target her, and she plots against you. In this way, the family becomes a mess, and everyone has their own little calculations, believing that the family will never develop.

There are two families in the town. One family is rich and powerful, but they all like to fight. The other family is more ordinary, but the whole family gets along well with each other.

Ten years later, the first family was defeated due to "fighting among themselves", and all their money was lost to their descendants. The second family became prosperous because of the concerted efforts of all the family members, and is now relatively wealthy.

There are only four words "working together" between wealth and poverty. Don't think that a strong person can ignore his family. Sometimes, when the whole family is strong together, only then can the effect of "one plus one be greater than two" be achieved.

The greatest blessing for a family is that you and I work together and work together for the rise of the family.

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Second point: Family members should be of one mind and avoid relationship rifts.

Why does the Qi family in "Cultivate oneself, harmonize one's family, govern the country and bring peace to the world" come after self-cultivation?

If a person does not know how to cultivate himself and how to deal with the relationship between family members, then he cannot manage the family well. How can he achieve a greater career?

Dealing with family relationships seems simple, but it is particularly difficult to do. For example, how to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, how to maintain the relationship between parents and children, and how to keep the relationship between husband and wife fresh. These are all issues we need to think about.

If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well, the problem of "relationship separation" will arise between the wife and mother-in-law.

If the parent-child relationship is not handled well, then the "relationship disintegration" will occur between parents and children.

If the relationship between husband and wife is not handled well, that is the most fatal thing, because the entire family will be affected by "spousal conflicts".

In order to properly handle these relationships, our first approach is to try to balance the interests of all parties and try to be "one heart".

If everyone in the family is satisfied and knows how to live with one heart, then how bad can the family be?

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The third point: Pay attention to family tradition and family education.

Some educationists believe that the atmosphere of a family will have an immeasurable impact on the next generation. Perhaps, the direction of most people's lives is related to the atmosphere of their families.

Some people are gentle, especially well-educated, and speak in an orderly manner, so their family tradition will definitely not be bad. And some people are very angry and violent, so there must be problems in their family.

Why is "family tradition" said to affect a person's temperament and cultivation?

In reality, some aristocratic families emphasize "family atmosphere." For example, intellectual families emphasize the atmosphere of reading, businessmen's families emphasize the atmosphere of socializing, and simple families emphasize the atmosphere of hard work.

These good atmospheres will allow children to receive an “excellent” and “irreplaceable” education. On the contrary, once the atmosphere of the family deteriorates, our descendants will fall into a place of "endlessness".

Therefore, paying attention to the construction of family tradition and paying attention to family education are complementary to each other.

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The fourth point: Be upright and don’t have too many mean words and deeds.

Mencius said, I am good at cultivating my awe-inspiring spirit.

According to Mencius, people should cultivate their own "awesome spirit". And the aura of Haoran is the most masculine and upright aura in this world. It can also be attributed to the positive and enterprising spirit of people.

Families in modern society often have more feminine atmosphere and less masculine atmosphere. This is a bad phenomenon.

Especially in some families with unethical views, parents educate their children to obtain their own interests by any means necessary and by suppressing others. This is incorrect.

There are also some families who basically regard the word "money" as a family motto and only instill the concept of making money into their children. This is not conducive to the development of the family.

All extreme thoughts, all violent behaviors, and all unfair means will produce a dark atmosphere. As a result, it will only make people's hearts become sinister and dark, causing all kinds of harm and no benefit.

Only cultivating the righteous Haoran righteousness is the right path for the family and the whole society.

Text/There are deers in Shushan