Parents question the presence of "pornographic" illustrations in the children's picture book "Journey to the West". Is this an over-protection of their children?
It’s not overprotection.
The quality of books read by students has also attracted much attention. Parents have experienced the problems with previous textbooks and are also worried that some bad content will be hidden in extracurricular books. If students read it, they may have cognitive problems. deviation. A parent saw a book that his child was reading and felt that the content was inappropriate.
More and more young parents sympathize with the pressure of students to enter higher education, so they are gradually helping students to reduce their burden, with less extra cram schools and more quality training. Students are on vacation, which is really not particularly rich. According to the schedule, it is also good to read quietly at home for a while.
Each generation has its own thinking concepts, and each generation has its own living habits. Obviously, there are differences in the life concepts of our parents and ours, and there is a generation gap. Therefore, if you live with your parents after marriage, there will be some inconveniences. This is of course not because the children dislike their parents, but because of different living habits and thinking concepts, which can easily cause some unnecessary conflicts. From the perspective of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the reason why conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law frequently occur in many families is because the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live together for too long. Under the same roof, they have to worry about daily necessities and all kinds of trivial matters. Intersection, coupled with some generation gap factors, it is difficult to maintain a harmonious family atmosphere. For example, for our current young people, if conditions permit, it is normal to turn on the air conditioner 24 hours a day if the weather is very hot or cold. However, for many parents, because they They have become accustomed to a frugal life, so they may feel that leaving the air conditioner on all the time is too expensive, and may even consider it a waste. In contrast, they are more accustomed to using fans, electric fans, stoves, etc. instead. air conditioner. In this situation where there are big differences in living behaviors and habits, it may not be a problem if you live with your parents for a short period of time (a few days or a few weeks). After all, parents also want to leave the best to their children, but , if we live with our parents for a long time, our living habits will be a kind of "luxury" in their eyes. The longer the time, the more obvious the differences in these living habits will be, and the easier it will be to appear. contradiction. In addition, after getting married, it may be easy for us men to adapt to living with our parents, but for women, it is not necessarily the case. Many women even feel restricted and unable to adapt. Furthermore, in most cases, after two people get married, they live in the man's home and have frequent contact with the man's family. For the man, this is naturally his own home. , there is no need to restrict anything. However, for the woman, she will feel that this is a relatively unfamiliar environment. In this living environment, there are mother-in-law, father-in-law and other family members. Since these family members are essentially not related to her by blood, so, In this living environment, she will instinctively have a sense of distance. For example, when I was eating, I was too embarrassed to let go. I would have drank some drinks while eating, but I was worried that my mother-in-law would tell me, so I had no choice but to endure it. During the weekend break, I even slept a little longer. The son hesitated for a long time... As for the man, because he has been living in this home since he was a child, he is more casual in this home. He can do housework if he doesn't want to do it, and wear whatever clothes he wants to wear. You don’t need to think about clothes if you want to sleep a little longer. If you want to cross your legs, you can cross your legs... Therefore, in comparison, when living with your parents after marriage, the woman will feel a little constrained. In this sense of constraint Many women feel uncomfortable living under a family, and in order to help the woman get rid of this sense of restraint, it is best not to live with her parents for a long time after marriage.