The big housekeeper in the family is mother.

I often read articles about the importance of women to the family, such as "mother is the foundation of a family" or "mother affects the feng shui of a family" and so on. In this holiday, when I return to the role of a child and can quietly feel and observe the truest appearance of a family, I have to say: Mom is the big housekeeper at home.

She is a life housekeeper: starting from one day, she has three meals a day, prepares dishes for her father and cleans them every day.

She is a financial manager: family food and clothing, financial management, children's education expenses, respect for the elderly and love for the young, courtesy and so on.

She is a diplomatic housekeeper: holiday visits with relatives and friends, marriage and birth wishes for colleagues and friends.

She is an emotional housekeeper: the mother's natural attribute determines that she listens to her children's voices more, and she naturally becomes a bridge between us and our father.

She is also a fair housekeeper: this is my feeling. My sister and I are nine years apart. She is trying to weigh the quota of love for us. It's a bit awkward to say, but it is. She hopes that our sisters don't think they are biased, and that we can all feel the same concern.

She is also a wife. She must deal with her husband and control their feelings.

At the same time, she also has her own small world. She has her own hobbies, her own circle of friends, and hopes to gain a sense of identity and satisfaction.

A family is not just rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but also includes intimate relations, social attributes and contact with relatives and friends. These all need to be managed with care, and it is not easy to switch between these roles constantly, and then if you can still leave some room for yourself.

In this long-lost feeling of home, I saw the difficulty of a mother, and gradually understood why people always use "manipulation" to summarize a mother's work at home.