What are the difficulties in married life?
The relationship between husband and wife is the leading force of feng shui in a family. When husband and wife live in harmony, Yin and Yang will take care of each other. It used to be said that "a good wife at home is not a problem for her husband", so the balance of yin and yang will definitely make the family prosperous.
Qin Yidongkui
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Husband tolerates the family and is bound to be happy.
Men are the wind, women are the water, and harmony between husband and wife is the best feng shui. What kind of wind do men want to be? It is very important for men to be virtuous, gentle and cool. A truly soft-hearted man can make four or two efforts. As a man, don't get angry easily and lose your incompetence. When the husband is angry, the wife will have a hard time. If a man can't even tolerate and understand his wife, what can you do to be perfect in this world?
As a husband, if he is overbearing, unreasonable and has no man's cultivation, it is the destruction of family feng shui. Because women are the source of feng shui in a family, there are no women who are not prosperous. The key is to know how to be a husband.
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A good woman is serious.
As a woman, her identity will be different in different periods. At home, she wants sex like cotton, and after marriage, she wants sex like water. A woman must love her husband, love him as a son at home, and praise him as a day outside, because he is the image of a family. Always praise your husband outside, don't always insult and attack him. It is very important for a woman to know how to be a woman. Husbands work hard for a living, and women must turn their families into warm harbors. After a man has suffered a storm outside, he can come back to you to heal and rest.
Some couples are walking on thin ice. What's the problem? At this time, it is necessary to think carefully about whether women have achieved these three points-being a good daughter, a good daughter-in-law, a good wife and a good mother.
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The growth of children needs the maintenance of husband and wife.
Many people say that children are disobedient, rebellious and unfilial. Looking back at myself, I am dozens of years old, all rebelling against my parents, being unfilial and contradicting my parents. Think about it, isn't the child learning what we have done? So good parents are better than good teachers. What we give to our families is directly proportional to what we get. What we enjoy now is what we used to do.
Only couples and children can feel the warmth. The most important thing is to look at the children themselves when they find that there is something wrong with them. If husband and wife live in harmony, children will feel particularly happy at home, children will not be prone to violence, and the crime rate will be greatly reduced. If the family is violent, the child's mood will be particularly bad. Parents should do their duty and play their roles well. As long as they do well, they naturally don't have to worry about the children. Parents are a mirror of children, and a good education method does not need outside help.