How to tell a person’s accomplishments from the volume of his speech

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Chinese linguist Wang Li once said: Shrews are often eloquent when they curse, and people who go around selling plasters are even more eloquent. However, we do not admit that they can speak. ?

The main way of communication between people is through dialogue! Language can best reveal a person's cultivation. In many cases, speaking is a manifestation of a person's emotional intelligence.

There are thousands of kinds of knowledge in the world. Speaking, doing things, and being a human being are three things that everyone must learn. Speaking is an art and a knowledge.

The volume of speaking is warm. Life is composed of your words and deeds. How you speak can even determine whether you live well or not.

Your mouth is your Feng Shui. People who can talk make people feel like spring breeze. Words are the door to disaster and fortune, so it is wise to know how to be careful with your words and deeds, and to take care of the feelings of others.

What kind of person will say what kind of things. The loudness of a person’s speaking voice often reveals his level and character.

A rough voice is as cold as a severe winter, chilling the heart; a soft voice is as warm as the spring sun, resolving the coldness of the world. You can see a person's soul in the volume of your speaking. The volume of your speaking reveals your cultivation.

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Small things can best reveal your character, and details can best reveal your wisdom.

A person's cultivation and level are often hidden in small details such as speech and behavior, and the control of speaking volume often accurately reveals a person's cultivation, level and character.

It is better to persuade others with virtue than to suppress them with your voice. It is an instinct to get angry when something goes wrong, and being able to suppress this instinct and always treat others with a pleasant attitude is the highest quality of a person's cultivation.

Only those who are cheerful about life can be treated gently by fate. As Samuel said: The world is like a mirror. If you frown at it, it will frown at you; if you smile at it, it will smile at you. ?

Many people in life like to talk to themselves and argue endlessly with others. These are immature and irrational practices. Be reasonable and don't speak loudly. A well-educated person will let others see the best of themselves, instead of being a shrew, swearing, and being aggressive.

Don’t speak too arrogantly. Sometimes, it may seem like you are shouting to scare people, but it is actually a sign of guilty conscience. A person should always avoid frivolity and complacency in this life, guard his mouth carefully, and not be quick to talk.

Your attitude towards others is how others will treat you in the future. Only by treating others with kindness and kindness can you get a warm response.

When some people are chatting, they talk endlessly, but others are actually impatient. They keep talking, which actually exposes your lack of literacy.

-03- A kind word warms you in three winters, but a bad word hurts you in six months.

Soft words, although gentle, are the most powerful. They can turn spring breeze into rain and warm this cold world.

In life, you will always meet some people who have angry faces and thorny words. It is extremely stressful to interact with such people. A true wise man does not argue about winning or losing with words, but walks life based on quality and virtue!

Speaking quietly is civilized! Practice speaking softly! Gentleness is a virtue! Gentleness is the best medicine. No matter how harsh the words are, paired with a gentle tone, the damage will be instantly reduced.

Controlling one's own volume is a sign of respect for others and a person's self-cultivation. Being kind to others is the minimum respect for them. Speaking well is the lowest cost kindness we can give to the world.

Still water runs deep, and a true master never shouts and praises himself. The volume of your words is how you feel on the inside. People who live a high-level life always speak softly, giving people a warm and gentle feeling, and are not aggressive.

In this world, what is more hurtful than indifference is the inability to speak well. Speaking well is a kind of wisdom and a kind of compassion. Only those who are gentle and learn to speak well can be closer to happiness.