What should you do if the person you once loved suddenly wants to see you?

A friend once asked me a question: "What if he comes back to me?" From what I know about her, I know it must be that boy. She has only known him for a week. In their two-month relationship, they only met once at the weekend. Many times, we just communicate through WeChat to share the little things in life, such as what to eat for breakfast, what problems we encounter at work, and where to eat with friends in the evening. Although the time together is very short, feelings are not measured by the length of time. After only two months, my friends were completely.

Every time I meet her, she always shares everything they get along with me. For example, he took her to eat a delicious middle school meal, he took her to visit his alma mater, and he took her to see a place suitable for fishing. When she can't sleep, he will gently tell her stories, and he will gently say to her, "You have worked hard all these years alone. After having me, you should be afraid of nothing. " In my opinion, ordinary little things seem to be the best things in the world in her heart. Every time our topic ends, she always says, "I really feel that I am very happy now. After knowing him, I even felt that the previous setbacks were not worth mentioning. In the end, as long as it is him, it will be fine. " But I always feel that the power of love is really great, which can turn a girl who is usually indifferent and unsmiling into this.

Not long after two months, one day, she came to me. She told me that the boy told her that he didn't know if his feelings for her were love. He wants a girl who can make his heart beat, but she is not, even if he likes her. She said she hadn't eaten for a week, but she didn't feel hungry at all. She sends him a lot of messages every day, but he never answers. She spent a lot of savings to find many fortune tellers, hoping to give herself some spiritual sustenance. She did many things by fortune telling. Why hasn't he come back yet? Why can't he be together when he clearly says he likes her? She dreamed many times that he was back, but she woke up alone. It never occurred to her before that the pain of losing someone would not make her leave in a dream.

I wonder how her darkest days were spent for her. Finally, time changed her back to what she was before she met that boy. At least on the surface, after two years, she asked me this question again, and I realized that in her heart, I never forgot that boy.

I remember answering her like this: "If it were me, I wouldn't choose to make the same mistake again, and I wouldn't give the same person a second chance to hurt me." Then I finally got through the hard times. I forgave it easily. How can I be worthy of myself at that time? No matter how much you love me and regret missing me, at least when you decide to leave me, you are thinking in your heart that you will be better without me. "