What are the advantages and disadvantages of sibling love?
First, is the brother-sister relationship good?
Most sibling relationships are to save the younger brother. It is not difficult to find that in the model of brother-sister love, the relationship between sister and brother is unequal. At the beginning of their acquaintance, my sister's gentle concern made my brother fall in love, and my brother's clever praise also made my sister very useful.
My sister is usually depressed by her family background or growing experience, and her personality is somewhat inferior and insecure. In her subconscious, she thinks that her older peers or the opposite sex can't control it and don't deserve it. Only young men can make her feel confident and recognized.
Younger brothers are more common in two extreme cases of family background: lack of mother's support and care or being spoiled by mother. He is naive, subconsciously eager to be cared for by mature women.
Problems in the relationship between brother and sister are usually due to the fact that the elder sister wants to rely on her younger brother while taking on more care responsibilities, and hopes to get the care and attention that the younger brother lacks from his family.
The love between brother and sister turned into control while relying on it, and finally forced the younger brother to leave.
Second, the advantages and disadvantages of brother-sister love?
1, the advantage is that you can have sweet love, but the disadvantage is that the other person is easy to feel insecure and then distrust the other person. It's hard to get to the end.
2, the advantage is that the woman will hurt you, the disadvantage is that she feels bad and thinks it is the property of a greedy woman.
3. Benefits: The physiological harmony is high, and the combination is more stable to some extent. Disadvantages: it does not conform to the traditional concept and is greatly influenced by the outside world.
Girls are mature and considerate of boys, so as a man, they will be happier. But on the other hand, boys are naive, so women will be very tired.
5. Sister-brother love makes two people look at the relationship between men and women from a new perspective. Boys can grow up quickly and girls can learn to be more considerate of others. The disadvantage is that others don't particularly accept this kind of love, and they have to face a lot of gossip.
6, the advantage is that men will be more sensible, will always consider your feelings, will take care of you, the disadvantage is that they may have more views on each other because of their age.
Nowadays, sibling love is very common, and many people don't care about the age difference at all, which is also related to the open concept of young people now. However, sibling love is not necessarily a good thing, but also brings pain to people. Let's talk together today. What are the advantages and disadvantages of sibling love?
For girls, falling in love with their younger brother will have a young feeling. The man's experience is less than that of the woman, so naturally there will be a little man's emotion, which will stimulate the woman's natural maternal feelings and take care of the man more and more.
The woman's maturity and intellectuality also make the man realize that the girl of the same age is not his favorite, and he appreciates her more.
In addition, because the two people have different experiences, both sides are actually very happy to listen to the other half from different age groups telling their childhood experiences. Finding each other's enthusiasm is like being exposed to new things and being curious to explore.
However, differences are not necessarily a good thing, but also bring about a generation gap in communication. The age gap between men and women is too big, which is probably due to the differences in values, world outlook and outlook on life, and the greater the difference with the increase of age gap.
A previous survey showed that when men were seven years younger than their female counterparts, their satisfaction was the lowest. Imagine that when you reach a certain age, you are passionate and lifeless. Can such happiness be reliable?
There are also economic problems, which will also bring pressure to the man. When both brothers and sisters need to face marriage, they will encounter problems such as unsuccessful career and poor financial resources. Because the woman is older than the man, she is more anxious and insecure psychologically, which is one of the reasons why the relationship between brother and sister is unreliable.
Women want to get married, and the younger wants to start a business. There are bound to be differences or quarrels. After a long time, the two will gradually drift away.
But when a man is young, his feelings will be more sincere. Unlike old men, they are smart and sophisticated. Many old men especially like to haggle with women for fear that they will pay more.
Although young men are not mature enough, they are mostly simple and delicate. If he really likes you, he will treat you wholeheartedly.
Some girls just like this feeling, so they will be immersed in the love between brothers and sisters. So falling in love with a little boy can't guarantee the result, but the process must be happy, which will make women fully enjoy the sweetness and happiness of love.