After the child is born, why is the content of the circle of friends sent by Dad scolded by Grandma?
It is a pleasure to let family members join the family. Nowadays, many people are used to transferring some actions from offline to online, so the circle of friends has become a performance place for everyone to show themselves. Family, which will stimulate parents' interest. The child's grandmother. What happened?
Facts have proved that Xiao Wu gave birth to a good son a few days ago. Xiao Wu, who was excited for a while, quickly announced the new news in the circle of friends, and also announced the birth time and weight of the child. When the grandmother next to him saw him, she scolded him angrily: Delete the birth time quickly! Do you know why?
Facts have proved that there is a saying among people that a person's fate, study, occupation and so on can be seen through the eight characters of his birthday. It has a bad influence on children, because there is also a folklore: people's lives are getting thinner and thinner.
Although the credibility of this statement remains to be discussed. However, helping mothers still disagrees with the act of revealing children's privacy in a circle of friends. Although it is possible to expose babies, we don't know where the tentacles of the Internet are now, so that we can better protect children's privacy.
So, what should Dad Bao do after the baby is born?
Take care of your wife.
You should know that the child's mother is the hardest in childbirth, and when the baby is born, your mother is in a very fragile state both physically and mentally, so at this time, compared with the child, the mother is the most eager to be concerned, and the father must seize this opportunity. The more such moments, the more mothers will remember that this is a rare opportunity for fathers to express their love.
2. Report to security.
Not all related relatives may be present when the mother gives birth. Therefore, when mother and son are safe, we should not only show off, but also take care of other worried people. When the situation is stable, you should call your family or good friends as soon as possible to eliminate their anxiety.
3. Ask the doctor about his wife and children.
Many people ignore this link. In fact, after Ma Bao gave birth to the baby, Bao Da's study stage officially began, so his father should consult a doctor for his wife's health and prepare for future care. After all, for a period of time after delivery, the mother needs nursing and physical recovery.
It is precisely because Bao's mother is very weak that the child needs Bao's father to worry for a while. Therefore, during this period, Bao Dad should know more about the child's situation, so that his eyes will not turn black when he takes care of the child in the future.
It is normal for parents to show off after the baby is born, but in the process of showing off, we should also protect our wives and children. After all, the safety of mother and child is only the first step, and we hope they will be safe in the future.
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