Home should be a small boat, carrying us through such a long time
Between husband and wife, we are equal, no one is the slave of the other, and no one is the maid of the other.
It’s not that the other person can’t live without us, but that we need the other person to fill the gaps in our lives.
Husbands and wives are the audience closest to us and the people who have been with us the longest. What we need is encouragement and cherishment, and we should not always criticize and criticize.
When something happens, if we only care about the harm it brings to us without considering the other person's mood, it is easy to burst into anger, complain, get angry, and even become hysterical.
But have you ever thought about it, if you can't tolerate him, who in this society will tolerate him?
Partners need to support each other and not always bring down each other.
Whether you choose to treat the other person as your enemy or your spiritual confidant all depends on your attitude.
Who is your partner?
He is our pillow, the best person in the world to us.
He also has his own weaknesses. What we need to do is his armor, not the bayonet that hurt him the most.
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Not blaming someone when something goes wrong is the best Feng Shui for a home.
Zhou Guoping said:
"Home is a small boat that has to carry us through such a long time."
In a long life, There are calm moments, and there are moments when the storm rises. There are many opportunities and many challenges.
The more stormy the weather, the more we should join forces to stay warm instead of blaming each other.
Home is always a place of love. It is warm because of love, and long-lasting because of love.
Don’t get into a fight at the slightest sign of trouble, and don’t nag endlessly because of the other party’s slightest shortcomings.
If we want love, we should give more love. If we want praise, we should encourage each other more. If we want happiness, we should work harder to manage.
A good marriage is definitely not a war-torn marriage, and a good love is definitely not a love with constant quarrels.
Home is a haven for the soul, not a prison for each other.
Only when there is love in the family can the inheritance of love be passed down; only when the family is warm can the heart be warmed.