How to resolve the doomed love?
Tell a story.
Hongchi is the most famous sake manufacturer in Japan. However, when he started his business, he was just a small businessman who traveled between Osaka and Tokyo. From a small vendor, he became a rich man famous in Japan in one fell swoop, which was due to a story of mistake.
It is said that one day Hongchi came to his restaurant to check the work of workers, only to find that one worker was stealing rice wine. Feeling very angry, he severely scolded the worker and deducted his salary for half a month.
Afterwards, the worker was also indignant, thinking that he was just trying the taste of newly brewed rice wine, and the boss had no reason to deduct his salary. Seeing the attitude and reaction of the workers, Hongchi thought, "This guy is still resentful after doing something wrong. It seems inappropriate to leave him in the restaurant." So he told him to pack up and leave the restaurant without hesitation.
Unexpectedly, the worker was very angry after being fired and decided to take revenge before leaving. So he grabbed a handful of ash from the stove, secretly threw it into the rice bucket, and then quickly left the restaurant happily.
At that time, the rice wine made in Japan was a little cloudy. The worker thought: After the ashes of the stove are scattered, the rice wine will be more turbid, and the boss will definitely not sell it. But the result of the incident was beyond his expectation. When Hongchi visited the restaurant the next day, although he saw the ashes discarded on the ground and in the bucket, he also found something he had never seen before. The ashes of the original furnace sank to the bottom of the barrel, but the wine layer on the sediment became very clear and transparent.
He guessed that it must be a prank of the resigned workers, but when he saw the clear rice wine in the bucket, he forgot the anger of the workers' deliberate revenge, and instead thanked the workers for providing him with an idea to turn turbid rice wine into transparent sake.
Hongchi immediately used the new discovery of clarifying wine with furnace ash to do research and experiment on sake. After many improvements and experiments, he finally invented an efficient and practical method to purify turbid wine. After the purified sake went on the market, it immediately caused a sensation in Japan, and hotels and restaurants ordered a large number. Full of gratitude, Hongchi invited the laid-off workers back to continue their work.
From this perspective, when you meet a noble person in your life, you should naturally be grateful and don't forget the kindness of others, because he is a turning point in your life. When you meet someone you don't like, or someone who deliberately opposes you, you don't have to fight evil with evil. As a person, you should understand the truth of "complaining about others and hating others". Maybe he can give you a rare opportunity!
Even if you meet someone who has appeared briefly in your life, thank him for his attachment to you in this life, and there may be follow-up opportunities in the future.