Family harmony is the best feng shui for a home
Family harmony is the best feng shui for a home
Zhou Guoping said: "It is instinct to be picky about people close to you, but it is good to overcome the instinct and not be picky about people close to you. In education, we must be wary of instinct and cultivate education.”
It is instinct to express temper, but it is skill to suppress it.
No matter how stressful you are outside, you can still be kind and cheerful when facing your family, which is a rare accomplishment for a person.
The host Li Jing told the story of her own business.
When she first resigned from CCTV and started her own business, she had a miserable life due to lack of experience.
Li Jing recalled: "Things were very difficult in those few years. At most, I owed more than 2 million yuan in debt."
At that time, she was burdened with debts of one million yuan every day. He went around soliciting investments and drinking and socializing with advertisers. Then, I rush back to the company for meetings, program planning and production...
In the early days of starting a business, life was very hard and very difficult. She also got drunk several times and broke down crying.
But she never brought home the stressful emotions from outside. Instead, wipe your tears at the door, adjust your mood, and then walk in the door.
She entered the house in a different way and dealt with the negative emotions outside the door in advance. What it brings to the family is harmony and peace.
Today, Li Jing is a female entrepreneur worth hundreds of millions, but no matter how busy she is at work, she still sets aside one day a week to reunite with her family.
The most correct way to treat your family is to leave the bad mood at the door and go home with a good mood.
I like this sentence: "Don't just give politeness and respect to strangers; don't leave your temper and bad temper to those closest to you."
Leave your good temper to Only family members can live in harmony with each other.
Zeng Guofan once said: "Only with family harmony, you will not have to worry about being an official or leading the army; only with family harmony, can you speak in front of your colleagues and subordinates; only with family harmony, can you speak in front of your colleagues and subordinates; only with family harmony, can you be an official or leader outside. Only then can blessings arise. ”
Blessed people live in a blessed land, and blessed people live in a blessed land. A harmonious family is a haven for everyone to rest and brings prosperity to the family.
In fact, treating your family well is the best feng shui for a family.
Please be kind to your family for the rest of your life
In "The Analects of Confucius: Politics", Zixia once asked Confucius: "What is filial piety?"
Confucius's answer was: "It's hard to look good."
The most difficult thing in life is to be pleasant to the people closest to you;
Everyone grows up in a different environment, which creates different personalities and tempers.
It is inevitable that you will be hurt while growing up, but this cannot be an excuse to accuse your family members.
No matter how life treats us, we should cultivate ourselves and respond to our family members with a smile.
Hu Shi once said: "The most disgusting thing in the world is an angry face, and the most obscene thing in the world is showing an angry face to your family. This is worse than being beaten or scolded."
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A truly educated person knows how to leave good emotions and attitudes to his family.
Treating your family members in a pleasant manner is the best education.
Life is both long and short. May you and I treat our families with kindness and kindness.