My mother-in-law always said that I was a husband and that my husband had a smooth career before I got married. He always broke the money two years ago, and this year he had an accident.

Because this is a problem with different concepts between the two generations. Very headache. Decades of social life has its own set of beliefs. I have my own effective experience. No one can convince anyone. Therefore, the best way is to live separately first, so as to reduce the conflict between different concepts of thought and outlook on life. Secondly, people cannot be separated, so we must pay attention to mutual respect and support for the elderly. Visit old people often. When it's over, maybe the contradiction will be eliminated automatically. If you don't live under the same roof, you'd better temporarily reduce your walking. Do your duty. Don't push. You should care. Go ahead. Don't let the old man feel cold and regret it. Still have to wait until the incident has passed and everything is fine. Mother-in-law herself will be relieved. More important than any analysis and communication. After all, two generations are two generations. Some ideas are difficult to communicate. Some need big events to change, and some can only be eliminated by the magic knife of time. This is a small rule of family life. I wish you happiness.