How to control your emotions?
A person who can control his emotions is greater than a general who can win a city. A person's top accomplishment is to be able to control one's emotions. The specific points are as follows:
01. Don't lose your temper when provoked
And people with a high sense of security , full of self-confidence, don’t care about other people’s opinions at all, and are good at regulating and controlling emotions. Naturally, their emotions are naturally relatively stable. ?There is a little story. The old monk is going on a far journey and leaves his beloved pot of flowers to the young monk to take care of. The little monk watered and fertilized the flowers every day, and the flowers grew well. ?The old monk was very happy when he came back and saw the flowers growing vigorously. One time, the little monk accidentally broke the flower pot while watering it, and he was so frightened that he cried. ?At this time, the old monk came over and asked, "Why are you crying?" The young monk said, "I broke the master's favorite flower because I was afraid that the master would be angry." The old monk laughed and said, " Why should I be angry? When I grew flowers, I didn’t grow them just to be angry.”
02. A good marriage starts with emotional stability?
Love requires passion and impulse. , but marriage is more important for comfort and longevity. ?I can tolerate your shortcomings and you can understand my little temper. Only then can the two of us go further together. ?Emotionally stable people can give the other person a sense of stability and peace of mind. You don’t have to worry about the other person’s face changing at a moment’s notice, and you can communicate calmly about everything. ?As for the city of marriage, only two people who know how to control their emotions can stick to it.
03. Good education starts with emotional stability
Whether a family is happy or not is written on the face of the child:? A family where parents love each other and the family is harmonious will also be seen on the face of the child. Always smile, and you will be confident and generous when dealing with others. ?In a family where parents have bad tempers and always quarrel, the children are always sensitive and cautious, and they can observe what is happening at a young age. ?Only when parents are emotionally stable can the family be warm and happy, and children can grow up healthily
04. Be filial to your parents and start with emotional stability
The further you go, the more you will see and know. The more people you have, the more you will realize that there are only a few people in your life who you really care about and who care about you at the same time. These few people are your entire world. "? And family means the whole world. So being an emotionally stable person is the best Feng Shui for your family.