If you don't make these preparations, then don't have children.
As a new mother, after a series of things such as pregnancy preparation, pregnancy and giving birth to a baby, I think it is necessary to give some advice to women who are ready to have children. If you don't make these preparations, put off having children first.
1, pregnancy stage:
When I was pregnant for the first time, it happened that my home was decorated and I was very busy all day. I had no intention of getting pregnant at all, but it happened at this time. I had no fetal heart for just two months and had to have a curettage.
The first pregnancy was an accident. It came suddenly and left unexpectedly. It is also the first time that I feel eager to be a mother, and it is this child who has no chance with me that makes me make up my mind to have a child.
I don't know if it's the environment or the body. When I really want a child, I can't conceive it.
My husband and I had a comprehensive examination. Drink Chinese medicine for half a year, and then go to the hospital to check ovulation every month. After more than a year, I still can't conceive. Then I began to take pictures, showing that there was nothing wrong with the fallopian tube, except that there was a myoma less than one centimeter in the uterus. Because I couldn't conceive for more than a year, I ruled out all possibilities. I had to have a hysteroscopy and a comprehensive examination. I had an injection for three months after the operation. Fortunately, I went to the hospital three months later and the doctor told me I was pregnant. The excitement at that moment is beyond anyone's comprehension.
It's hard to get pregnant now. Many of my colleagues and friends can't get pregnant, many of them can't keep it for the first time, and then they are very careful when they get pregnant for the second time.
In fact, many women now make a lot of preparations before getting pregnant. Mothers have to bear many difficulties in order to have a child. Therefore, in addition to the basic examination accidents, psychological preparation must be sufficient, because pregnancy is only the first step.
2. Pregnancy stage
It is said that I was pregnant in October, and these ten months can be said to be like years. Spending money to go to the hospital for various tests is second.
The psychological pressure is the greatest. When I was just pregnant, I was always careful for fear that something would happen to the baby in my stomach. When there is fetal movement, because it is very weak, once my stomach hurts a little, and then I can't feel fetal movement, so I am afraid to cry. I went to the hospital for examination overnight, and the doctor said that I was scared.
Every day after that, I was very nervous. Every time I go to the hospital for examination, I am afraid that my baby will have problems.
In addition to psychological stress, I have to control my diet and behavior in these ten months, and I can't eat many things I usually like to eat. I haven't even been to the cinema for ten months.
In the third trimester, I carry a watermelon-like belly every day, my legs are swollen, I can't sleep well at night, and I look forward to her coming out early every day.
The pain of pregnancy can only be experienced by people who have really been pregnant. Those men and people who have never had children will never know the pain.
3, production pain
I hoped she would come out early when I was pregnant, but it took me 12 hours from the beginning of labor pains to the last delivery. Although the birth process is tortuous, it is already very fast. My classmate was born for three days and finally chose caesarean section, which was tantamount to double pain.
It is said that the pain of giving birth is the most painful, which is not true at all. My sweet girl has a big bipedal diameter and is difficult to give birth. The doctor said she had to use forceps, and she threatened me with forceps, saying that once she used them, it would be bad for children and adults. At that time, I had been in the delivery room for several hours, and the fetal heart in the sweet girl's stomach was getting weaker and weaker, and the pediatrician was asked to stand by.
I spent the greatest effort in my life, and finally the doctor helped me hold my stomach and squeezed it out.
Because of the side cut, there was no anesthetic when sewing the needle, so I had to work hard. Maybe I was numb before, but I can bear it. If I am stabbed by a needle at ordinary times, I will burst into tears.
However, when I saw the sweet girl lying beside me, I suddenly felt that it was all worth it. Perhaps this is why so many women bravely accept this challenge when they know that giving birth is painful.
Step 4 take care of children
If you think it's difficult to get pregnant, get pregnant and have children, it's all wet. The painful days are over. After all, I am pregnant for ten months and have a baby for a few days at most, but it is more than ten years to bring a baby.
I couldn't sleep well with a big belly, but now I can't sleep well. I have to get up for food every night. And I can't sleep at all. You should always pay attention to the baby's movements and see if it will get cold when she kicks the quilt.
There are many things you can't eat during lactation. I can't go anywhere because children can't live without people. Even when I go to work, I always care about whether my children are at home or not, and whether they are crying.
And you have to put up with your figure, the original waist is long gone. As long as I am awake every day, I basically turn around her and don't take care of my own time. I envy those hot moms who can still be beautiful after giving birth. I can't do it anyway. I just hope that sweet girl is older and can have some time of her own and do something she likes.
When you become a mother, you will find that the greatest patience in your life has been given to her. All your time, energy and money will be spent on her, even willing to spend everything on me, just for the healthy and happy growth of my sweet girl.
There are many difficulties in raising a child that you can't imagine, just like Tang Priest's learning from the scriptures. You have to pass 998 1 to see the final result. From jaundice, colic and eczema at birth to illness later, there are hardships to overcome at every stage, but watching her grow up day by day will bring you full happiness every day. And these pleasures are irreplaceable by anyone and anything.
If you are fully prepared, then create a happy fruit for your life. If you can't accept the hardship of this fruit ripening process, then I advise you not to make a decision easily, because every child needs the careful care of his parents to grow up happily.
I hope my sweet girl can spend every day happily under the care and care I can.