A good wife is a successful husband. What kind of woman in life is a loser?
A good wife is the first-class feng shui in the family. If there is no good wife, then the family will not prosper. When you have such a good wife around you, she can live well for herself and the whole family. If you meet such a wife, you are likely to be unhappy because you lose your husband's characteristics.
Remind men that these characteristics of women are very important, and some women with these characteristics are very unsuccessful and must not marry!
First, a woman with three incorrect views.
Children regard their mother as the first teacher, so women are too important. As mothers, children will be the first to be affected. Children educated by women's three views are naturally conscientious and obedient, but women's three views are not correct, and children educated naturally can't get on the table.
Second, arrogance is always negative and interesting.
There are naturally many contradictions in married life, and the tolerance between men and women is different with more contradictions. If a woman is just arrogant and unreasonable, and a man is more humble, she will naturally resent it. If a woman is unruly, willful, irrational and often has negative emotions, then this family will certainly not be too happy.
Liu Juan and Mingyu met through the introduction of their parents. Because my parents are familiar with each other, they got married within a year. After marriage, Mingyu found that Liu Juan was a very provocative woman. No matter what happens, she always has a temper and is very spoiled. She caused her husband a lot of trouble.
At work, because Mingyu is the department manager, Liu Juan always feels superior. Obviously, she is just a small secretary, always bossing others around. Liu Juan is always careless at work. Mingyu had no choice but to let her resign at home.
Mingyu needs support when she encounters difficulties in the company. Liu Juan only sighs and never offers to help him. She is also very emotional. Being particularly emotional is not a particularly good thing. It will affect the family atmosphere and children's personality. After Liu Juan resigned, the children were taken care of by herself. Mingyu was too busy to take care of her children, so Liu Juan completely spoiled her children, and they were very delicate. As a father, Mingyu doesn't like it herself.
Third, I love leisure and hate work.
I believe that every man doesn't like to find a particularly lazy woman. If a woman is lazy and doesn't do housework, her home will be like a garbage dump, while a diligent woman always keeps her home clean and tidy. Going back to a tidy home and a messy home, men must have different moods, right?
When Kevin·Z and Wen Qiang were in love, Kevin·Z said? I can't cook and I'm lazy? But Wen Qiang doesn't mind her at all because of her good looks? Malfunction? Be dead set on her.
In fact, some beautiful women are not suitable for marriage, but Wen Qiang doesn't understand this truth. After marrying Zheng Hui, Wen Qiang still felt that he had got a big bargain. Only now did he realize how stupid his original decision was.
Kevin·Z doesn't do any housework or cook at home. She only knows how to eat takeout. Wen Qiang has to order takeout for his wife in advance every time he works overtime. If it doesn't suit her, Kevin·Z will lose his temper. Every day, Wen Qiang is very tired after work. After returning home, I still have a wife to support. This feeling makes Wen Qiang completely unable to feel the warmth of home.
Personally, I think women can not cook, but they can't. There are many housework that women can not do, but they can't be lazy. The appearance of a family reflects the characteristics of the people in this family. Therefore, you can't just marry a beautiful woman with a good figure. Although the face looks good, it is just a useless vase. When you get home, you will find that what you need is a diligent woman, not a vase that can only be shown to others.
Fourth, vain women cannot get married.
Vanity is not good for women. A vain woman is too materialistic and often makes mistakes. For a family, a wife must have a correct view of money, otherwise the expenses of this family will definitely overwhelm men.
After Li Na and Wang Zhen got married, Liu Juan especially liked to overspend. She bought many credit cards. She goes shopping every month and buys a lot of things. Some clothes have been thrown away once or twice. Li Na earns 10000 yuan a month. In addition to paying off the mortgage, she has to spend at least 8000 yuan, which will not only cost her husband a month.
Li Na's pursuit of material things is far superior to her own, which makes Wang Zhen very headache. This made him unable to make ends meet. After ten years of marriage, he saved less than 50,000 yuan, not to mention buying a house for his son in the future and having no money for his own pension.
Fifth, women who do not respect the elderly cannot get married.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a very sensitive topic in marriage. If a woman asks not to serve the elderly when she gets married, such a woman must not marry.
Personally, I think women should be kind-hearted. Anyway, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not something without a correct answer. We should try our best to do it well. Old people are old people after all. Don't be too hard on them. We still have basic moral codes of conduct.
It's really important to have a woman at home. If a hostess has these characteristics, then the family will not be happy. Good feng shui is brought by good women. A good woman is good feng shui, and a woman who loses her husband will never make a family happy.