What do you want to say to the first batch of post-90s people who are about to turn 30?

First, what I want to say is that time flies too fast.

As a person born in 1992, I am now 28 years old. In fact, before entering 2020, I always felt that I was very young, because being a post-90s generation represents youth. But now I am only 28 years old, but my family is always urging me to get married, while my peers have already had a second child. Not to mention this, whenever I go home and see children playing in the streets, I always feel as if I have grown a lot older. I was playing games more than 10 years ago, but now I can only watch other children playing, and I can no longer jump into the sea, hide and seek with other children, leaving me with only work worries and emotional confusion.

Second, I want to say that even though I am about to turn 30, I still have accomplished nothing.

For many people, when they are 30 years old, most of them have already married or graduated, but I have neither married nor established a career. At work, it has been 5 years since I graduated from college, but I am still working hard as a white-collar worker in a small company, subject to the constraints of my supervisor every day, and earning a monthly salary of three to five thousand, which seems like my whole life. Can see the end at a glance. Emotionally, almost all of my close friends had kids and I was all alone. Originally, I thought that being single at the age of 28 was not a big deal, but my parents and elders had always been anxious about my relationship, and they were always nagging in my ears that I should get married and start a family in my 30s.

Thirdly, what I want to say is that as I grow up, my parents are also getting older.

In fact, in my impression, my father has always been very tall and burly, and there is nothing he can’t solve, while my mother is always gentle and kind, always Likes to wear beautiful dresses. But now when I stand with my father, I am taller and more powerful than him. Sometimes he will ask me to help him solve some unsolvable things; and my mother, she does not Then there was the girl who loved to wear floral skirts. She put on an apron early and cooked for the two of us. So I want to slow down time and spend more time with my parents.