My elder sister is filial to her parents, why do my parents only love my younger sister?
Because I have been obsessed with metaphysics since I was a child, I am lucky enough to be a disciple of Master Yuan Chanzi, and I am deeply honored for this!
Not long ago, a woman asked me a question, does fate affect people’s choices, or does people’s choices change destiny?
This lady’s surname is Zhang and she has a younger sister. When they were children, their mother asked a fortune teller to predict that the younger daughter would be filial, but the older daughter would be unlucky. From then on, their destinies began to be completely different.
My parents' hearts are completely biased towards my sister, and they respond to every request like a pearl or a treasure. As for the little sister who was still a baby, she didn't know why, but her parents cared less about her and became more indifferent to her.
Now that the sisters have grown up, their parents want to give all their property to their sisters. My younger sister is so pampered that she naturally becomes a bit arrogant. If her job doesn't go well, she will resign without any worries. Her parents will still serve her well and eat well, leaving her idle.
The little sister silently cares about her parents on weekdays. Her younger sister is ineffective and she needs to work harder to improve herself. Xu knew that his parents could not be his support, but he also wanted to prove that his parents had wrongly believed in this fate.
Even so, her parents are still lukewarm towards her, believing that the eldest daughter should be filial to her parents because she works and makes money. On the other hand, my sister can be moved by her parents for a long time if she occasionally buys small gifts, even if the money is just their pocket money.
The family has a lot of expenses, and the parents confidently ask the little sister for money, but the little sister seems to be aloof.
We are one family, one family, why should we contribute all the money we have earned through hard work? Not to mention that my sister’s food and clothing are all provided by the family, but as sisters, shouldn’t we share the responsibilities of the family together?
My parents didn't listen, they just thought she was rebellious and had no conscience.
He gave without asking for anything in return, just because of his filial piety, but his heart was chilled and his blood was cold again and again. It's not unfilial originally, but I don't know how much love can withstand the wear and tear. Maybe in the end, the so-called fate will be fulfilled.
One of the numerology I have heard recently is that good intentions will not be rewarded. You have always been the only one to give without caring about yourself, and even if you are a family member, you are lucky if you don't stab you behind your back. How can you get help?
I asked the master: My destiny has been predestined for a long time. If I know it, I will be influenced and there will be no more variables.
The master pondered for a long time: If there is a young man, the fortune teller tells him that he will not achieve anything great in his life and is doomed to live a life of poverty. The young man was desperate and no matter how hard he tried, it was in vain, so he ate and waited to die and became a tramp. So did he fulfill the fortune telling? Is he really destined to be a homeless man?
No one has the same horoscope, but no one lives the same life. If this horoscope is a symbol of illness, some people in this horoscope may have gastrointestinal discomfort and only have diarrhea twice, some may have fever and cough for a week, and some may be diagnosed with suspected malignant tumors and require surgery.
In such a large area, your family feng shui, parents and brothers are all involved with each other. The blessings of doing good deeds and good deeds in daily life, as well as your own positive aura, are all changing unknowingly in every detail.
Even if this young man is indeed destined to be poor as the fortune teller said, how to define this level? Even if you are working as a coolie and living in a low-rent house, you will keep your home tidy, your clothes may not be glamorous but clean, and you will have three simple meals a day. This life is better than living on the streets without food or clothing, right? In the final analysis, it comes down to your own mentality.
Listen to orders, believe in fate, be tolerant and charitable, face good or bad luck with an optimistic and positive attitude, do your best, and obey destiny.