What behaviors of roommates make you most unbearable?
1. Different schedules are the most common contradiction. Roommates get up at 6 o'clock every morning, brush their teeth and wash their faces, and open and close the door. I hope everyone can hear them. I don't climb into bed until after 0/2 o'clock every night/kloc-,where I play games and talk to people, as if I didn't know everyone was asleep. Sometimes, people ask them to keep their voices down, and after a few days, they forget and dislike each other.
2. Dormitory is not only a public area for four people, but also a private space for everyone. But there are always people who easily cross the line, throw rubbish everywhere and even use other people's things casually. Of course, some people are withdrawn, busy with their studies and never ask their roommates for help, as if everyone is an outsider. People who are too casual are extremely disgusting, and people who are too indifferent are chilling.
This is probably the ultimate contradiction between roommates. Every dormitory has a local with a sense of superiority. They can go home at any time without worrying about their hukou and house. There are also children of migrant workers' families who are sensitive to inferiority. They work and study, and their roommates go out to eat and find various excuses not to go, just to save money. The wandering middle class envies even the rich roommates who can buy all kinds of big brands, but they don't know how to help the poor roommates.
Most of them are only children, so it is inevitable that they will only consider their own interests, but in collective life, they should rest assured of others. For example: be quiet after turning off the lights; Call, go to the corridor or balcony; Family members send special products to share with roommates.
Although roommates meet every day, they must not invade others' privacy and take others' generosity for granted. For example, don't touch your roommate's desk, even if he has gone home; Don't whisper to your roommate at night; Don't engage in small groups with other people in the dormitory to bully another person.
6. Of course, if the differences between roommates are too great, or even the three views are quite different, there is no need to change yourself at this time, and there is no need to insist on being good friends. And for those roommates who are bursting with natural superiority and want to express themselves, you don't have to make them happy. After all, you can't lose yourself while reassuring others.