How can we know if the other party is scheming?

I don't think emotional marriage has anything to do with Feng Shui, but it is mainly related to two people's three views, the same life goals and the same living habits.

First and third views are very important. A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't match each other, then your three views may be difficult to agree. It is very tiring for two people with different views to live together, and marriage will naturally become useless after a long time. Second, the goal of life. In marriage, if the life goals of Reeve and his wife are the same, they will be harmonious for a long time. However, if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, it will directly affect their marriage goals and structure. You think about the future goals of marriage, but he feels that it is good to muddle along, so can a marriage with different marriage goals last? Therefore, many people don't care about the family background and family circumstances when they get married. They think that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by family of origin. Compared with these, the spiritual compatibility is more important, because it will directly affect whether your married life is relaxed and cheerful. Therefore, if you want to be happy in marriage, you must not ignore the spiritual compatibility. Third, * * * the same language. The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether you have the same language. You are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you in a trivial way, just like a chicken talking to a duck. You will never find a topic to chat with. Slowly, you will become alienated and the spiritual world will feel very lonely. Fourth, learn to forgive others, understanding others, which is often as difficult as asking yourself. We always try our best to find the faults of each other. We always feel that the other side has a hard time with me. We always feel that everyone is against me. Many things were unintentional, but there are those narrow-minded people who always sit in the right place and ask for trouble. I don't understand others, but I often say something unintentionally. When the person who has the heart to criticize listens, he takes a seat, thinking that he is sarcastic and sarcastic, and he can't get through it with himself, and he is annoyed. After a long time, once or twice, there may be a general outbreak, a fight, and even a murder case. Various social news reports in newspapers, such as a murder case caused by a few dollars, make a joke and lead to a tragedy. Learn to forgive: learn to forgive your friends and relatives. The closer people are, the more likely they are to misunderstand each other because they care too much about each other. Can't explain, can't defend, outsiders see jokes, and they can't let go in their dreams. At this time, the only thing that helps is time, which will dilute many things and melt resentment. One day you will find that if you are friends, you will definitely come back. And you forget what you said or heard one day earlier in your heart, and forgive each other or yourself one day earlier. The biggest beneficiary is not each other, but yourself, and you will be happy and sweep away your troubles.