It seems that Lin Qingxuan said it. Understanding and thinking in the morning is better than earning 1 10,000 in the morning.
Which road is not bumpy? Which big river has no whirlpool? Which family has no books that are difficult to read? A painter said: "I always want to raise my painting to a higher level, but I often suffer from no breakthrough." Since being with art, it's like carrying a cross on your back, doomed to irreparable original sin. "In the eyes of ordinary people, the painter's achievements have always been enviable, but the painter himself is so heavy. In fact, there are many such people around us. In the past, when people lived in poverty and material poverty, people seemed optimistic. But what about people's spiritual world today when material life has changed dramatically? I think each of us should ask ourselves.
I've seen such people. He was very angry outside, but when he got home, he still sulked, making the food terrible and sleepless at night, like a ghost, and sometimes even taking it out on his wife and children. As a result, one person is angry and the whole family suffers. Maybe he is really wronged, maybe the other person is really too much, but can a person sulk at home solve the problem? Does anyone know? Maybe people are enjoying delicious food at the moment? Maybe people are snoring and sleeping at the moment? You say, why are you suffering? Isn't there a good saying: Being angry is to punish yourself with other people's mistakes. You even hooked up with your wife and children. Lost a lot.
For another example, it is a long way to work, and a person who is good at creating a good mood will think: Great, I can see so many people every day, and I can see all kinds of clothes and expressions. But a person who creates a bad mood will think: what bad luck! So far, it means that I work an hour longer than others and go home a long time later than others. You see, who gave these two different moods? (article reading network: www.sanwen.net)
The fact will not change, but the mood can be different. We should have too little and not too much. No wonder we always hear people complain about this and that, as if someone should give him something, as if nothing is what he wants.
In fact, as long as we adjust our way of thinking slightly and change our thinking angle, it is not difficult to find that we are not only materially rich, but also spiritually rich.
Life is always unsatisfactory. There are always some rugged paths for us to walk alone, and there are always some dark canyons for us to cross. Only those who are good at creating a good mood for themselves can calmly move towards the light. Rousseau, a French thinker, said: "The real source of happiness lies in our self-knowledge. For a person who is good at understanding happiness, others can't make him really poor anyway. "
A person who is good at creating a good mood can not only be happy himself, but also bring happiness to his surroundings and form a happy atmosphere. A person who is good at creating bad emotions will not only be unhappy, but also bring disharmony and unhappiness to his surroundings. Say, what kind of person do you want to be?