Does Confucius have a wife?
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The man's father, quick of eye and quick of hand, rushed forward, grabbed Confucius' arm and advised, "What do you care about them?" Sorry. "
Aren't we going to let the animals kick in the car? When you first learned to drive with me, the horse didn't listen to you.
The key is to practice your whip well. As soon as the whip is thrown down, gravity will be fatal, and the whip is in the key, so we still have to worry about surrender.
No, fierce horse! ……」
Confucius shook his head after hearing this. As soon as he let go, the bamboo slips fell to the ground and tears rolled down like scratches. He deeply
Meng Lang blames himself: How can you be angry with these books if you are unhappy? He squatted down slowly and carefully arranged the bamboo.
Put it back on the table. These bamboo slips were soaked with mother's sweat, blood and tears, and they spent countless summers with themselves.
Cold. I have absorbed infinite wisdom and strength from them, and my mother and son have also learned from them in the most difficult and painful times.
I found great comfort in the middle. How can you be angry with them now? If you have any difficulties, you will complain bitterly. This is yourself.
Short-sighted At this rate, how can you become the Duke of Zhou? Thinking of this, Confucius picked up another bundle of bamboo slips.
Hold tightly in your arms, tears keep flowing. ...
Confucius has been chewing and savoring a sentence from the father of mankind: "... the key is to practice the whip in your hand and throw it."
Go down, it's gravity, the whip is the key, but you can't surrender the fierce horse! "Mann's father is talking about riding and driving.
But it tells a profound philosophy. What is the whip that subdues the fierce horse in his own hands? Nature is knowledge, learning and foundation.
From then on, Confucius studied harder and made great efforts.
Lu is the fief of the Duke of Zhou, and it is the only vassal state that can offer sacrifices to heaven and earth with the rites and music of emperors. "The rites of rites are all in Lu", which is
The vast sea of China's ancient culture is unfathomable and boundless, where Confucius swam and fought tirelessly.
rainstorm ...
One snowy night, in a shack, under the fire of beans, Confucius was absorbed in reading Shangshu. Playing drums at night, he
Had a stretch; The cock crowed and he yawned; The rising sun in Ran Ran is near the window, and he is full of energy.
In front of the stove, Confucius was making a fire to cook. He was absorbed in his study with a book in his hand. The firewood under the stove went out.
In the grinding tunnel, Confucius held a grinding stick in his arms, and there were a bunch of letters on the top of the grinding stick. He is holding a book, reading and grinding while walking.
Tears are dripping on my face.
In the lush vegetable garden, bloom is warm in spring and breezy. Confucius is having a heart-to-heart talk with the old nursery and asking about the skills of growing vegetables.
Confucius and the old farmer were sweating like rain on the ridge where the sun was scorching and the wheat waves were rolling.
Seek knowledge of growing grain while working.
It's raining cats and dogs and the road is muddy. Confucius galloped away in a carriage, and the people beside him kept correcting his whip.
The posture of the halter.
The rain continued and the autumn wind roared. On the banks of Surabaya River, Confucius is practicing archery.
Confucius studied hard and practiced hard. He never had a regular teacher. Later, he said to Uncle Jing of Nangong, "A threesome,
There must be my teacher. It is a summary of his own study and life.
In 533 BC, Confucius was nineteen years old.
One morning, Confucius sat on the floor and devoted himself to engraving on bamboo slips. Suddenly, Father Man broke in.
Without hesitation, he took Confucius' right arm and went out: "Come on, Dr. Zhong Sun is here, and he wants to propose to you! 」
Confucius was puzzled.
When I arrived at Mann's father's house, my mother and brother were warmly entertaining Dr. Zhong Sun for tea, and Dr. Zhong Sun was smiling.
It turned out that after Chu destroyed Chen Guo, in order to communicate well with other countries, King Chu Ping called several big countries to gather in Chen Guo to discuss how to govern.
For Chen, Lu sent a doctor During the banquet, Dr. Song and Dr. Song talked about the situation of Song.
A descendant who moved to Shandong talked about Shuhe, and also talked about the current situation and livelihood of the city. Dr. Song is a very
The happy man immediately said to the doctor, "Lu and Song are married, and his ancestors were Song people, so he should marry a Song woman." 」
Dr. Zhong Sun promised to seize the monarch after returning to China and deal with it seriously. After listening to the doctor's performance, Lu made peace with Song.
I am very supportive of this marriage. Please ask Dr. Zhong Sun to take charge and deal with it as soon as possible.
The monarch asked, Dr. Zhong Sun dealt with it. This is really a blessing from heaven, and Confucius naturally celebrated with his family. Man, father, mother and Meng Pi
Married as parents, the expenses will be paid by Dr. Zhong Sun.
Then there are six gifts: accepting the gift (proposing marriage) and asking the name (asking the girl's name from her family).
Birthday), Najib (went to the woman's house to report good news, give gifts and get engaged after a good omen), and he was caught (gave her a heavier gift after her engagement)
Bride price, also called Nabi), invitation date (choose auspicious day to get married, solicit opinions from the bride's family), and greet the groom at the bride's family.
Marry a bride).
Near noon, surrounded by the crowd, the wedding car slowly drove into Queli Street and approached the low Mao of Confucius.
The thatched cottage on the street is full of drums and voices, and Qufu people are in an endless stream. The urchins like to join in the fun.
The crowd drilled around, and some climbed branches and walls. Teenage girls can't restrain their excitement and interest.
Excited, blushing, with a shy smile between the eyebrows, as if sharing the joy of others' wedding. Boys took the opportunity to laugh and fight and do their best.
Show your existence and hope to get the favor of which girl. Wherever young people go, there is a wave of joy.
Head. The trumpeter demonstrated his ability with his whole life.
The bride walked out of the sedan chair with the help of the bridesmaid, only to see her graceful, plump, slender waist and beautiful face.
Like peach blossoms in March, hibiscus smiles in June!
The spring tide of praise, laughter and cheerful drum music sent the bride and groom into the wedding hall, and the best man sang:
Next is the heavenly prison, (Skynet is long and slow, but not leaking,)
Life is decided. I chose King Wen as the son of heaven. )
Wang Wen's first publication, (Wang Wen is just something to understand,)
A match made in heaven. Get him a wife as soon as possible. )
In the sun (in Nanshui)
In Weihe River. (It's next to Weishui. )
Wang Wenjia stopped, (Wang Wen knows a smart woman,)
Dabang has a son. (is the daughter of a big country. )
Dabang has a son. (is the daughter of a big country,)
Sisters in heaven. (it's the sister of heaven. )
Wen Ding Jue Xiang, (engaged in auspicious marriage,)
Welcome to Wei. (Wang Wen personally goes to meet Weishui. )
Build the boat into a beam, (connect the boats to make a floating beam,)
Don't show its light. (This is not brilliant, not glorious! )
This is a poem praising Wang Wen and welcoming to the new world. Later generations respected Wang Wen as a compliment to congratulate their marriage.
Words like "combination" have continued to this day.
The best man sang again: "Worship heaven and earth. 」
With the help of the best man and bridesmaid, Confucius and his bride closed the customs and bowed to the world with sincere awe.
"Two meeting the bride. As soon as the best man said this, Confucius felt his nose sour and angry. Confucius attributed his mother's death to his father and mother.
Taking good care of him, he thought of his parents and was naturally sad. Tears swirled in his eyes, and he tried to hold back his tears and gave them to his parents.
A present.
"Couples get married. The best man sang the next ceremony loudly and picked up the new Zan prepared in advance from the altar.
Cut it in half in the middle, fill it with wine, and give the bride and groom a gourd ladle, each taking a sip.
"Newcomers into the bridal chamber. The best man's long note did not fall, and the music suddenly rose. The crowd surrounded the bride and groom and ran to the bridal chamber.
In the bridal chamber, everything is neatly arranged and the candle is brightly lit. The bride held her breath and sat side by side with Confucius. Best man, go.
Singing ceremony: "A glass of wine makes husband and wife harmonious." The bride and groom each drink a little wine. "Two glasses of wine grow old together." Husband and wife again
Everyone has a sip of wine. "Three glasses of wine give birth to a baby early." The best man sings, the bride and groom each drink a little wine in their hands, and then
Swap glasses before drinking. This is the so-called toast, which has continued to this day. The two boys took advantage of the bride's drinking.
Machine, stepped forward, holding her head and neck, only make the bride cough, covered in jade bracelet body trembling,
Shine in the candlelight. Everyone had a good time, and the best man advised everyone to break up.
Confucius saw that everyone had left, especially the best man and the man's father went to the door, turned around and stuck out his tongue; Made a face.
He knew what it meant, and his heart was pounding. ...
Confucius has never been alone with a girl in his life. It's quiet around, only a slight shake.
Candlelight and the occasional melting wax core are mixed with the breathing of two people. The brand-new bedding on the bed smells intoxicating.
The fragrance makes people sleepy. By candlelight, the bride's white face is more charming, her cheeks are reddish and her nose is high.
Cheng's eyes seem to be open and closed, and his lips are tight. Confucius seemed afraid to look at the woman in front of him and didn't believe that she was his own.
Wife, will share the bed with * * * pillow, and share weal and woe with * * *. Confucius is a very active young man. Whenever and wherever,
He always thinks more than others, thinks deeply and thinks far. At this moment, he couldn't help thinking of his mother: her misfortune and her sadness.
Sour, mother's tears, mother's extremely disproportionate aging ... He is determined not to let his wife make the same mistakes as her mother, he
Do the duty of a husband, shelter her, care for her, sympathize with her, understand her, give her more warmth and love, and let her
She lives a happier and happier life! Of course, we must not indulge in the gentle land, but for the love of mankind, for
Benevolence runs the world, calling for the realization of the world of "Tao trip, the world is public"! I don't know how long it took,
The wild horse of Confucius' thought was strangled, and he noticed from the rough breathing of his wife and son that her heart was tense.
Jumping wildly. Yes, her home is far away in Song Dynasty. Maybe she is homesick at the moment? Confucius is not as cold as some people say.
Desert, he is also a warm-blooded man, and secular desires. He just wants to have sex with his wife as promised by the best man. Good morning.
Have a baby. His heart can't help but jump wildly: marriage is to worship the ancestral temple, inherit future generations and reproduce future generations. He had no choice.
Had to look at his wife, just at this moment, the business administration office also looked at him, four eyes relative, such as lightning, if a meteor, fleeting.
Right away.
Candle tears flooded the candle heart, and officials took the opportunity to pick and cut the candle flowers in a panic, but Confucius waved his hand to stop it. Business administration room whispered:
"This light to bright, on behalf of our husband and wife longevity. 」
"This is everyone's wish. How can man's fate be compared with candles? 」
After listening to this, the official did not withdraw, and returned to the bed and sat down.
The room is getting darker and the candlelight is getting weaker and weaker. ...
Confucius approached his wife, held her tightly in his arms and said softly, "It's late at night, let's have a rest!" " ! ……」
With a bang, the flame of the candle went out completely. ...
Before marriage, Dr. Zhong Sun recommended Confucius as a Commissioner. The Commissioner is a small clerk in charge of the warehouse. After he took office,
It was found that the accounts were chaotic, and it turned out that the former Commissioner had colluded with other staff to enrich himself. Confucius used himself to learn.
Mathematical knowledge of counting materials, auditing accounts, and handling affairs impartially. In less than half a year, the surplus grain in the warehouse was cleared. Ji is very good
Appreciating Confucius' loyalty and talent, promoting him to be a farmer is a small official in charge of cattle and sheep. During the Spring and Autumn Period, sacrifice was the head.
Sacrifice requires fat cows and sheep. Therefore, although the status of taking the field is not high, it needs reliable people to bear it. The season when men and fathers fight.
Ping Zi was very dissatisfied with the appointment of Confucius as a Commissioner and a farmer: "They turned a blind eye to the dog's eyes and made a knowledgeable person. "
Do such a humble thing! Confucius explained: "As long as there is something to do, it must be done well, and nothing must be done well."
So simple. Besides, cattle and sheep are sacrificial feed. What could be more important than this? The same is true for managing warehouses.
It is very important that Guan Zhong once said, "Cang Li is loyal and courteous." So, put me in charge of the warehouse, and I will put the accounts in the warehouse.
The purpose is clear. Ask me to take care of the cattle and sheep, and I will make them fat and strong. 」
After marriage, Confucius and his wife loved each other and respected each other as guests. During the day, Confucius went out to work, managing warehouses or wives of cattle and sheep.
Textile, housework In the evening, Confucius read by candlelight, while his wife was doing needlework. ...
When Confucius was a child, he was forced to graze cattle and sheep for the rich, so he knew the habits of livestock very well and mastered feeding.
Technology, not long after taking office, has formulated a series of management measures, for example, immature cattle and sheep are grazing, not only strong.
Good health, but also save forage. When the body is healthy and gradually fattened, the female fence and the male fence are raised separately, and the grass and feed are well fed.
Men and women are not allowed to fit in and mate. The range of activities of the fence should not be too large. Try to reduce its activity and make it fat.
Fat. Forage should be strictly screened to avoid mixing mud with sand. Strictly limit drinking time, such as whether to drink after grazing.
Water, do not drink water after exercise, do not drink water after eating, do not drink water after mating, and so on. Feed it at least twice a night during the fattening period.
As the saying goes, "livestock are not fat if they don't eat night grass." Select excellent male and female cattle and sheep as breeding animals, and feed them in special tanks for special breeding. ...
In this way, in less than a year, cattle and sheep flock on the farm, and six animals flourish. This year's suburban sacrifice
Sacrificial ceremonies and ancestral temples used the best livestock ever, and all the officials and people praised Confucius.
An omnipotent young man, unlike ordinary aristocratic descendants, is ambitious, talented and narrow-minded, and can't do great things or small things.
Willing to do it. Zhao Gong also appreciates it very much.
In 532 BC, Confucius was twenty years old.
One day, Confucius was watching his subordinates feed cattle and sheep with mixed feed, when he saw Meng Pi limping over and told Confucius
Say, "Zhong Ni, you have a son!" Before Confucius could answer, all his colleagues gathered around and invited the people at the wedding banquet to dinner. Confucius was very happy.
Not satisfied, he said to the crowd, "When I get ready at home, I will treat my brothers to a wedding banquet. 」
Confucius rushed into the room and saw his sister-in-law holding the baby. The wife's tired expression reveals the joy of being a mother for the first time. Confucius
Standing in front of the bed looking at his wife, hey hey smile. The official was embarrassed and quickly changed his mouth and said, "Look at your son.
All right! Confucius seemed to wake up from a dream, took his son from his sister-in-law, studied it carefully, and could not help but bow his head and kiss his tenderness.
Little face
"Second brother, come on, the monarch sent a big gift." Brother is shouting outside.
Confucius hurriedly gave his son to his wife to meet the envoy sent by the monarch.
Confucius rushed to the door and saw his younger brother leading a man in a palace costume to the door. He hurried forward to salute.
The bearer replied, "Big Wang Xi heard that his master had a son and asked me to send carp to congratulate him. 」
"But a mere king, how can you be so generous? Please thank the monarch for me! When Confucius gives a gift, he will come.
Show the door.
"I want to report to the king. This is the meeting ceremony between the villain and your son. Don't be too contemptuous. Please accept it. " Come from me.
Take out a string of coins for Confucius.
"How dare you let adults spend money, Kong Qiu thanks a lot! Confucius received money and sent another gift.
Come and greet people to offer carp and other things. Confucius and Meng Pi took it and put it on the hospital table, upon:
"Subjects Kong Qiu thank humbly, never forget! Qiu Ding teaches strictly, and it won't be from you. 」
Everyone was very happy to see this, said some congratulations to each other, and people came back.
Meng Pi ordered his wife to cook fish soup, but Confucius seriously stopped him and said, "Brother, this is the yin of our ancestors."
De. How can his newborn baby be so blessed? This kind of fish is absolutely inedible, so we should remember the kindness of the monarch.
My son was named carp, the word "fish", which I will never forget. As a gift from the Invalides, I can find another way to nourish my body. 」
After listening to the second brother's point of view, Mrs. Meng Pi said nothing more. The whole family is very happy.
Zhao Gong's delivery of fish soon spread all over Qufu and Shandong, and people paid more respect to Confucius.
In 53 1 year BC, Confucius was twenty-one years old.
Confucius was an official and a farmer, with outstanding achievements and extraordinary talents, and his reputation spread all over the city.
Ji was promoted to departmental level official.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, the feud between princes caused a large number of people to die, and the number of people was often a sign of a country's strength. List of officials
On the surface, it is to investigate the population, but in essence, the more important task is to breed and increase the population. This is beyond the ability of ordinary people.
As soon as Confucius took office, Ji gave him a difficult problem: take out an effective recruitment March.
Articles of association of the mouth.
Confucius has always been loyal to his duties and has superhuman talents, so he handed in his "answer sheet" in less than ten days: First, he did not pay attention to it.
Taxation; Second, light corvee; Third, be cautious about punishment; Fourth, advocate thrift; Fifth, get married.
Ji Pingzi saw it and found it reasonable, but he didn't fully understand it. He sent for Confucius.
When he arrived at the prime minister's office, Ji received him politely. Confucius was polite, but Kan Kan and Kan Kan talked about it. He said: "taxes are very heavy, and people
When children have no food and clothes, they will move to other places. People are afraid of dying in battle and want to flee to other countries.
Torture, people have no criterion, do not know what to do, have to escape. I don't know how to be frugal, but life is easy and difficult.
When it becomes unsustainable, it will be displaced. On the contrary, if you do these four things, the whole world will hear the news and vote. Why worry?
The population will not increase? The most important thing is to get married, which is the foundation of population reproduction. A man marries a woman indefinitely and gives birth to a man.
There won't be many children, how can the population increase sharply? ……」
Qi Pingzi listened with relish. As soon as Confucius gasped, he quickly asked:
"Zhong Ni said very reasonable! But I don't know how to decide. 」
Confucius smiled and then said, "Engagement refers to the age of marriage and the size of ostentation and extravagance." Early marriage, undeveloped men and women
Enough is enough, giving birth to unsound offspring, causing endless harm; Marriage at a later age and childbirth are essential, so don't overdo it. Male, sixteen years old.
Toarey Yang developed impotence at the age of 64. The woman matured at the age of fourteen and was sterilized at the age of fifty. In this way, men should be split in two.
Married at the age of ten to twenty-two, women should get married at the age of twenty. Zhou Li's stipulation that men get married at the age of 30 is a bit excessive.
Moreover, the current wedding expenses are too high, and many families can't get married without the "six gifts" expenses, which will affect the reproduction of the population.
Advocate thrift. Anyone who doesn't get married at the age of marriage will be punished for his parents ... "
Ji Pingzi smiled admiringly. Ji Zai played an important role and promulgated the whole country. At that time, everyone was running around Lu.
It is reported that foreigners have moved in one after another, and the population of Shandong has increased dramatically. Confucius' reputation has also been greatly improved.
Since Confucius became a department official, he feels much more comfortable than herding cattle and sheep. Everyone in the Ministry is experienced, and Confucius is polite.
People, people treat Confucius like stars and arches the moon. One of them is a little pen pal named Jinghe? 9? 0 is diligent and boring.
Child reuse.