Why can Lan Qiongying, the second wife of Stanley Ho, have the last laugh among the four young ladies?
How rich is he? For example, the horses' heads and pigs' heads of the 12 zodiac signs in Yuanmingyuan are all living abroad, and it is this rich man who spent huge sums of money to buy back these two zodiac signs and donate them to the country for free. On the one hand, it shows his patriotic feelings, on the other hand, it also shows his economic strength.
Such a rich man naturally has many stories to tell in his love life.
Stanley Ho, the gambling king, was recognized by the world as having four wives all his life.
Among these four wives, the second wife, Lan Qiongying, once became the woman who had the last laugh in people's eyes after the death of Stanley Ho.
The woman who can be recognized by the world as Mr. Why is not a simple person, but the status of the second wife Lan Qiongying basically belongs to the "mistress" after the death of the first wife. Even if Stanley Ho brought two beautiful women later, it would not shake her position. Why? Be specific.
1, because of his talent, is it a high climber for the gambling king to fall in love with the granddaughter of Major General Lan Qiongying and Stanley Ho?
Although Stanley Ho was one of the few rich people at that time, Lan Qiongying had a good family background.
Her grandfather Lan was a major general in the Republic of China, and her father Lan Jianyi was an anti-Japanese general. As a descendant of the family, Lan Qiongying is far superior to ordinary women in both personal temperament and personal ability.
When Stanley Ho first met Lan Qiongying, he fell in love with her talent.
According to records, when Mr. Stanley Ho attended the Chamber of Commerce, he met a beautiful girl Lan Qiongying with a bit of heroism in her beauty.
At that time, Lan Qiongying recited a poem at the party. His elegant voice and natural and graceful appearance made Mr. Stanley Ho hard to open his eyes at first sight.
After the party, Stanley Ho made an appointment with Lan Qiongying to get in touch with his feelings.
Along the way, Stanley Ho praised her all the time. A series of compliments made Lan Qiongying blush, and she was a little embarrassed. Lan Qiongying may not have noticed that her blushing face is particularly cute in Mr. He's eyes. Perhaps from that moment on, Mr. Stanley Ho decided that she was his second wife.
In the following days, because of their common hobbies, such as Goethe's poem Violet and dance, the relationship between the two gradually warmed up in contact. Finally, this talented girl from Seeds of Love fell in love with the romantic gambling king.
Hong Kong/KLOC-At the end of 0/958, Stanley Ho married Lan Qiongying as his second wife in accordance with the laws of the Qing Dynasty.
2. The concubine room is opposite to the first room, and there is no accidental smoke. As long as it is surprisingly harmonious, Li Wanhua, Mr. He's first room, is also a very powerful woman. She was born in a prominent lawyer family in Macao, and was known as "the first beauty in Macao" when she met Mr. He. Along the way, Mr. Stanley Ho's business has grown bigger and bigger, and she is also the wife of the rear, so the relationship between them has always been good.
But disasters always come unexpectedly. On the anniversary of Li Wanhua's marriage to Stanley Ho 10, a car accident left her in a coma for nearly a month, and then she was ill in bed.
On the day when she was ill, Stanley Ho married a little wife in Hong Kong. As a woman, Li Wanhua naturally has a sense of crisis. At first, Li Wanhua, the first wife, was afraid of Lan Qiongying, his second wife.
However, after a year of getting along, Li Wanhua, the first wife, found that Lan Qiongying, the second wife, was young, beautiful and healthy. She didn't show off in front of her, and she was very sensible. She could also help her husband a lot in dealing with housework.
Li Wanhua knows his own situation, is in poor health, stays in bed all the year round, and her husband's family has a great career. She needs an energetic and capable woman to help him. Although unwilling, she recognized the character and personality of her second wife, Lan Qiongying, and she gradually accepted her.
In the following years, the world can often see a beautiful and very graceful woman accompanying Mr. He to attend various chambers of commerce. This is the second wife, Lan Qiongying.
3. Why did Lan Qiongying get the approval of Mr. Stanley Ho's principal's office and have the last laugh? Because she is independent and knows how to advance and retreat, if only because of her talent, Lan Qiongying can be recognized by Mr. He's first wife and become the last of the four wives of the gambling king. It is really too easy. After all, there are too many talented and attractive women. What really made Stanley Ho choose Lan Qiongying and let the gambling king recognize Lan Qiongying first was her independence from birth and her high emotional intelligence.
For example, after she married Mr. Stanley Ho, she was in Hong Kong and her first wife was in Macau. She didn't take her seriously ill first wife as a thorn in her side, nor did she start showing off because she was young and healthy. Maybe the honor of a military family doesn't allow her to do this. She fully understands Mr. He's "love" for the first house, and also supports Mr. He's practice of one wife and one concubine and one bowl of water.
At the same time, she didn't live up to Mr. Ho's expectations. In addition to appreciating her, Mr. He naturally has expectations for her.
At this point, the biography of Mr. Stanley Ho recorded a sentence from Mr. Stanley Ho:
"I can't be a monk all my life. Besides, I had a big family at that time, I was very busy with work and had many kinds of entertainment. I need a woman to do housework and always accompany me. "
In other words, when the gambling king chose Lan Qiongying, he also took a fancy to her ability and needed her help to take care of his increasingly wealthy home and help him cope with various social parties. With the ability and wealth of the gambling king at that time, she was definitely not a little woman who only knew "husband and wife". You need an independent personality, an emotional intelligence who knows how to advance and retreat.
Obviously, Lan Qiongying is such a person.
However, after Lan Qiongying married the gambling king, she was not satisfied with the status quo. In addition to helping Mr. He to do all the work well, she has been studying constantly and starting her own business, and has made some achievements.
No one's "Excellence" and "success" are accidental. Where is Lan Qiongying's "Excellence" and "Success"? In her independence, she learned "emotional intelligence".
Whether she is independent or knows how to advance and retreat, she actually has a good "control" of the distance between people.
There is a fable in the west that there are two hedgehogs in winter. In order to keep warm, they want to get close to each other, but they are stung by each other's thorns. Later, they began to adjust their distance. At close range, two hedgehogs can warm each other without stabbing each other.
In other words, when two people get along, they will get cold if they are too far away, and they will get hurt if they are too close. It is wise to keep a proper distance.
However, after the marriage, Lan Qiongying knew how to keep a proper distance from the first palace, and did not infringe on the "territory" of the first palace, but she could also show her "goodwill" and "sincerity" not far away, so that the first palace could see herself and recognize herself. This requires brains and high emotional intelligence.
As a man's wife, she didn't turn herself into a full-time wife, but after dealing with her husband's various social activities, she focused on things other than her husband in a diligent way, keeping herself and her husband at an appropriate distance, which not only proved her value and ability, but also preserved her feelings in an appropriate "distance".
She is really a capable woman!
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