Do you believe in fate? Why?
Senior year came out for internship. The internship site was originally an unknown four-star hotel in Hangzhou. This is a mistake, because my sister changed hotels with her boyfriend in another district and came to a five-star well-known hotel. (However, I didn't know it before I came.)
Although we entered a five-star hotel, the work arranged by the hotel for us (ordinary two colleges and universities) is catering department, housekeeping department and recreation department. On the day when the job was officially assigned, HR suddenly said that a person in the backstage department needed to write well and take photos? Do any of you want to try?
On second thought, isn't this opportunity for me? Although I have been psychologically prepared for serving food, I still want to go for an interview after hearing that there is such a position.
Pass the ball Become a new media intern.
As the time of internship in the department is getting longer and longer, I like the working atmosphere and interpersonal relationship in this department more and more, and occasionally I think it would be great if I could stay here after the internship. But I know this is wishful thinking. There is a new media specialist in the department. I'm just an intern.
In the last month after the end of the internship, the new media Commissioner's family suddenly changed and left home.
Therefore, the manager expressed the hope that I would stay.
In fact, with the growth of age, I really feel that many times our situation is arranged by heaven. What we have to do is to be optimistic, work hard and be positive, and pass this positive energy on to people around us. That's good.
I also believe that this is doomed. I came to the city to play when I was a child. An uncle with eyebrows teased me and said that when I grow up, I will be locked in his house and married to his grandson. That is one of my childhood memories of being curious about this city. As a result, when I grew up, my husband took me to his house for the first time before we got married. When I saw his grandfather, I was confused. I was actually a grandfather in my childhood memory. And now the place where we live is the place where grandpa lived in the old memory. This place has been transformed into a downtown city. Isn't it amazing? Besides, my husband and I were introduced. The night before he first met me, I dreamed that my cousin went to the ditch to catch fish and put the fish in the footprints on the muddy road. The footprints are very clear. It's dawn My husband went to my house around 9: 00 in the morning and said that he saw a lot of fish in the ditch on the way. He caught two of them in the footprints on the road. Before introducing others, I have to pass by my house first. I think he is the person to be introduced. He saw me for the first time, and later he said that he felt that the introducer wanted to introduce me. We also have a good understanding after marriage. When driving, we want to go that way. When doing something, we will suddenly think of a problem at the same time, and we will all ask each other the same sentence in unison. Isn't it amazing?
Tell me about my own experience. I kind of feel predestined.
Mr. Wang and I were introduced by relatives. The day before the blind date, I had a dream.
Strange dream: I dreamed that I was in a bad mood and asked my best friend to go skiing. The skiing place is on the mountain in the garden complex like the Summer Palace, or I ride Harley on the undulating skating route. I didn't want to give up halfway, so I pretended to fall and began to cry. Then a child staggered over, so cute. He wants to help me, but he can't. After a while, his mother came over, and it was no good. He is still waiting for his best friend to help me get up. Chatting to know that the child's name is Wang Minghao, I also want to be smart and ask if it is Hao, Hao or Hao. I don't remember whether his mother said a tree heart or stood next to someone and went to his house to be a guest. I don't remember the specific content either. But I remember that when I left, a dog chased me through the forest and saw many unnatural creatures. Then the big dog jumped on the car and put it on my shoulder. When I get home, the second changes to two. What impressed me the most at that time was that the child was so beautiful, and I was still wondering if I dreamed of meeting my husband.
I went back to my parents after work the next day, and then they said that your fourth grandmother introduced you to an object, and then I thought I couldn't refuse, so I agreed to meet.
Then, you know, the person I met finally became my lover now. My husband's name is Wang mign*, a dog in 1994. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. I still think this is a magical fate.
I believe that people's life is destiny takes a hand. Why do you say that? In fact, at first I didn't believe in eight-character fortune telling. Until the end of last year, my mother went to the witch's house in our street to help my sister ask the red horoscope for fortune telling. Witches are semi-blind and have poor eyesight. She is right about my sister. My sister works outside all the year round, and my mother asked me by the way. It's really accurate. She said I had gallstones for years. I don't know myself. I said my back hurts when I feel uncomfortable with flatulence. The doctor said it was either cholangitis or stones. Let me have a B-ultrasound. I really went to our town hospital to see the B-ultrasound, and the result was really gallstones! I won't say anything else. She's right. She doesn't watch it now. She only reads it when she meets an acquaintance and asks her for something!
The love of my parents.
Before my mother met my father, someone told her never to look for anyone from the C family, whose mother-in-law and sister-in-law were very difficult to deal with. A few days later, mom's blind date went to mom's office to find mom. At that time, my mother didn't know that my father was the C family in other people's mouths. I didn't know until I went home to see my mother-in-law for a while. But by then, my father had become a complete pain in the ass and just wanted to marry my mother home. So mother-in-law and sister-in-law won't be a problem.
Up to now, my father has always said that your mother and I met by destiny takes a hand.
Dad is away on a business trip, and the two will still video chat like falling in love.
As soon as my father comes home, the food on the table will become rich.
If dad goes out to study and there is money left, mom's jewelry will increase.
Dad still likes to spoil his mother when he comes home.
So I always believe that I have my own arrangements.
What is happening now is the best arrangement.
I have experienced this problem personally, and I still believe it.
My husband and I were introduced by girlfriends. At that time, he was working in other places, so we added QQ chat first. But I don't know why we always quarrel when chatting, and then we delete each other. It wasn't long before we became friends again, and then we had another quarrel, deleted it again, repeatedly added and deleted it for nearly a year, and deleted it for the last time. I was so tired that I decided not to add my friend or bring him back. And I won't accept his friend's request.
It has been half a year, and during this time, I have forgotten his existence. I had a holiday on May Day that year, and I had three days off. I do not have a reservation. I feel that it will be three days, and suddenly I feel particularly lonely. So I picked up my phone and looked through my address book to see if anyone could accompany me on vacation. Looking around, no one accompanied me. Suddenly I thought of him, turned out his mobile phone number and sent a short message: "How have you been recently?" I was about to send it when QQ rang. At first glance, it was a friend application, and the result was him. Then I deleted the message and called him directly. We met on that holiday.
Later, he became my husband. When I told him about this experience, he felt incredible. Somehow, he has his own plans!
I believe that fate exists. My eldest brother Qiao Feng, my second brother Xu Zhu, and my third brother Duan Yu, I'm old four, and my name is Xia Jian. Why haven't you heard of me? Because I don't know martial arts, I have no glory. At the same time, my brothers also protected me from being bullied by people in the Wulin. So, I'm not that famous, but I'm destined to become sworn friends with them!
I met Duan Yu for the first time. I like his character and cynicism. He had a hard time chasing Wang Yuyan and always wanted to please Wang Yuyan. I happen to have Wang Yuyan's micro-signal, which was found by people nearby. I was working in Suzhou at that time, and I couldn't talk to her. Because there is no common language, Rosa likes to learn martial arts, and I am not interested in martial arts. Once she and Mu Rongfu invited me to dinner, and I took her as my godsister.
I met Xu Zhu by chance. One summer, I was freezing watermelons in the freezer and found Xu Zhu and grandma coming in. I'm afraid of being discovered, so I've been hiding. Later, I found out that Xu Zhu and Princess Xixia were like a family, and it was hard to get cold in the ice room. Later, I woke Xu Zhu up and told him about Princess Xixia. Later, we became sworn!
Qiao Feng was introduced to me by the two of them. Anyway, these are doomed! Forget it, beat my balls with my brothers!
Let's give an example around us. Little friends who played together since childhood, whose father was a teacher, played basketball very well. Supposedly, he should be able to play basketball, but when he was young, he hung out with us all day and had no interest in basketball. Later, because of a little friction, he didn't play with us for a while. Then I learned to play basketball with my father, and then I fell in love with basketball and played well. Of course, we also had a good time afterwards. I feel that some things seem to be arranged by God. How should I operate? ...
Yes, I must have a plan. For example, a person's marriage often does not marry his favorite person, nor does he marry his favorite person. Because the fate between people is neither earlier nor later, only at the right moment. I want to get married, you are by my side. You want to marry, I want to marry you. Otherwise, even childhood friends may not be married. I have a classmate who likes me silently all the time, and has sincerely expressed his love for me several times. The moment I was moved, I remembered his phone number one day. As soon as I saw it, I said to my mother in the room, "I have been with him for so many years." When the phone was connected, he told me that he was married.
Somehow, we can arrange it freely, but we always miss it.
I especially believe that because the people I know around me and my personal experience have already happened!
I came into contact with someone. She has been honest and pragmatic all her life. There are only a few things that make her stingy enough not to be publicly condemned. Beneath her soft appearance, there is a heart of stone that no one can recognize!
Maybe her inner world is wearing a pair of dark sunglasses, and everyone she sees is black, but what she can see clearly is the words People's Bank of China!
Everything she has given in her life has a purpose. If you don't play for her blueprint, the consequence is that you will die for no reason, no matter who you are!
In the end, the rest of her life is a detour. Around what she experienced in this life, it happened again and again, and this sentence was fulfilled: there is fate in the dark, what is fate, it is people! As long as you are kind, God has a plan.
Remember from childhood to now, I; No matter who you have problems with, sometimes you are very angry. In anger, there seems to be another voice telling itself "no". Until today, I didn't understand where this particularly powerful voice came from!
When I got sick, I was treated for five months by a professor from Harbin Second Hospital and a professor of traditional Chinese medicine affiliated to Harbin First Hospital, but the disease was not cured. I was really desperate! Suddenly, I have an intuition, a strong intuition telling myself that someone will give me advice on medical direction and I will cure this disease!
Thank god, thank the person who gave me advice, my physical illness is really below the person who gave me advice!
My confidence comes from my destiny! I believe in myself and my kind heart, but I also hate my mouth! I can't help it. I can't change my innate character if I want to!
Remember, reading these words in the article is very enlightening; When you ride a bike, others say; You ride too slowly and it's a long way. When you drive, people will say: There is a cliff ahead. Come to the cliff and get on the plane!
People! Don't listen to other people's arrangement, as long as you have a clear conscience. Life is not long. In your short life, don't do anything for your conscience, because the debt you owe in this life will be paid by God for the rest of your life.