An article on the theme of life perception
Everyone, from the moment he came to this world, began a cruel life assessment and entered a long and short journey. In the whole process of life, because of the different environment, our life has become colorful and varied. Some people have everything and haven't had time to want anything, and some people have gone through hardships to pursue it, but they have failed. In this world, the so-called fairness does not exist. The so-called "fairness" and "advocating the existence of fairness" of our ancestors are because we can recognize the existence of fairness and inspire us to constantly surpass ourselves and strive for strength.
Although fairness is a white lie told by our ancestors, we have to admit the strength that this lie has brought us.
It is precisely because we acquiesce in the existence of fairness from the heart that we will strive to improve ourselves and tell ourselves in despair that I am not worse than others, thus realizing our own value and paving a colorful road.
Li is writing a book here, talking about the gains and losses of life. Perhaps the writing is immature, the thinking is superficial and the interpretation is vague, but please don't laugh.
Well, life is everywhere, but there are more or less points, sooner or later. Perhaps many people feel the pain of having nothing, and they don't deny that having all enviable things can really satisfy the vanity that only a thoughtful human being can have.
However, getting does not mean happiness and happiness. We should know that people's ambition and curiosity are great, and daunting things will make us have the desire to conquer. Everything that has great temptation to us is far away. And what you can't get is beautiful.
As we grow older, we gradually forget the ID. Many things that seemed out of reach when I was a child are now within reach, and many childhood wishes now seem so insignificant.
Therefore, at this moment, we are not dismissive of our childhood aspirations and wishes.
Therefore, what we have now can no longer make us happy. It is not that we are not enough, but that we forget books and ignore the simplest things that once surprised us.
We are always chasing, always thinking that we can't get what we need, what we struggled with, and what we dreamed of. We just casually put it aside and start chasing again, always thinking about getting something again, and there will be happiness and happiness. However, I get more disappointment every time.
In fact, we can all have happiness and happiness more or less. It's just that we ignore the essence of life and forget ourselves. I remember a philosopher once said to me: If you go far, you will forget why you started, so don't go too far.
There is no denying that chasing is the basis for us to create the value of life, but only on the premise of not forgetting ourselves and being simple can we get surprises and happiness all the way.
Loss: there is a gain and a loss. This old saying, which has been circulating for hundreds of years, has been constantly verified by the world.
In the journey of life, we keep losing, some are insignificant, while others make us feel pain.
Life is an endless evaluation process. Some things, some people, no matter how reluctant we are, will leave and lose, some will lose, and some will leave. Unlike lovers, each other's departure will meet at the next stop, but forever, it will not be possible, it will not be possible, and there will be no loss if.
Some things or people's departure is inevitable, and they will not work miracles because of hard work or reluctance.
Perhaps no matter how strong the heart is, it can't bear the pain of losing someone or something, and no matter how optimistic the person is, it can't stop the sadness of losing. We are human beings, ordinary people with thoughts. It is our nature to have worldly desires. However, we must make it clear that no matter what we lose, please remember that we have cried and suffered, we still have to face life. No matter how important the loss is to us, we must live rationally after crying, because we must learn to grow up and bear the pain and sadness alone.
Loss does not mean rebirth, but injury and pain can help us grow. No matter who it is, no matter what it is, it is only half of us. The person who taught you the first dance step will not accompany you to the party.
What is lost, no matter how much effort and sacrifice we make, can't be recovered, so we should accept it frankly. The only thing we can do is to cherish, cherish and reduce regrets when there are regrets.
If you get it by chance, you will lose it. Therefore, regardless of gains and losses, we must be calm.
Life perception 2: Gratitude blooms on the road of life, and happiness and gratitude coexist.
Inscription: There are too many ups and downs in life, too many sadness, too many people think that the sunshine is short, happy and stingy, the reality is ashamed, and the dream is far away. But as long as we have a grateful heart, the world will become beautiful.
The cruelty of reality, please thank it, at least we still have a place to live, and it has always inspired us to move forward. The pain of life, please thank it, because there is pain, so we know how to pursue happiness, no matter how much misfortune, please thank it, at least we are still alive.
Thank it for what is lost. At least we used to have it. Whether it is long or short, it does not constitute a denial of the credentials we once had.
If you are deaf, please thank it. Even if you are deprived of the right to listen to the wonderful vocal music in the world, it brings you the joy of ignoring gossip.
If you are blind, please thank it. Although it took away the colorful world, it also saved you from the helpless sadness of watching the tragedy happen.
Please thank the person who loves you, whether it is true or not, at least you still have that concern. Please thank the person who hates you. Even if your heart hurts, he makes you understand the importance of love.
Life is beautiful because there is a grateful heart.
Grateful parents, whether good or bad for you, are people who have raised you for more than ten years, grateful teachers, regardless of their conduct, at least people who have given you knowledge.
Thank you for all the things you lost, even if you were deeply hurt, but at least let you know, let you know. Thank all the people you know, even if they are just passers-by, but your memories have added weight. Thank all strangers, even if you have never met or even met, but because of these strange individuals, you are more yearning and more ignorant.
The world is brighter because of a grateful heart. Because of a grateful heart, we are happier and more beautiful. Everyone has a grateful heart, so the world has reduced hatred and increased sunshine.
Please learn to be grateful, so that you will stay away from pain and sadness. Please go with gratitude, so that you will have happiness and happiness.
Please have a grateful heart and then convey it to the people around you. Let's open our hearts and shout: please learn to be grateful, long live gratitude.
Life perception 3: five flavors of life, five flavors of life
Since I started working, I have actually had a rest this time 10 days!
In these ten days, I recalled my past, recalled every step I took, and saw my growth and my shortcomings. Today, my heart is full of mixed feelings and ups and downs.
Sour, I am jealous, especially for things I care about, especially people. I have always felt that I am not generous enough. Then I wanted to close my eyes and anesthetize myself with alcohol. I gradually like the feeling of drunkenness, which makes me want to stop. With the continuous increase of rings, a little alcohol can no longer make me dizzy. The main problem is that I don't care. Now I have begun to suffer selectively. I have been numb to those who don't care, but I am still sour to those who care. I don't love everyone anymore, my heart belongs to you. The heart has a home, and life has a way out!
Honey, I have many memories. I was afraid to face them before. Used to be sealed in a bottle with a stopper. I don't want to open the bottle, but I can't bear to throw it away. 10 days after 240 hours, my thoughts and thoughts went back to a long time ago, really a long time ago. I like walking in the rain without an umbrella when it rains. I like the feeling that my hair is wet by the rain. I like not seeing everything clearly. I am looking for inner precipitation in the hazy confusion. But this time I changed my mind. I went to the sun with my memory and began to refresh my memory, leaving behind those beautiful past and deleting those meaningless thoughts. When I tried to cover the bottle again, I found it unnecessary. I am the happiest, the most worthy and the sweetest thing to let me go, all in my heart. I never left. I always feel that missing is a very painful thing, but I have become so strong and confident. I like you. Wait for the lighthouse, wait for the ship to dock!
Suffering, people always live in a world full of dust, otherwise it can't be called the world. Although the source of the heart is gone, the world is bitter, and to live in this world is to live in suffering. Therefore, people in the world, whether rich or poor, sick or healthy, are inseparable from suffering. If they want to escape these pains, they have to see through the world of mortals and be carefree. How many people can see through the world of mortals?
I have never regretted my choice. I am not a strong man. In those years when I left home, I was more of a weak person. I can feel pressure and resistance from all sides. It is the appearance of these things that gives me a strong heart, a stronger heart, and I used to have geometry. I also tried to give up my ideals, live an ordinary life and have a person who loves me for life. I began to reposition myself and set the direction and goals suitable for a happy family. Just when everything returned to normal, when the ship left the shore, I was dragged into a chaotic whirlpool by something unspeakable. I struggled to escape and didn't want this life, but in front of the children, everything became ... I began to want to escape and struggle, but I was speechless when I saw that cute look and looked at the children who hadn't called dad yet.
Buddha said that life will not block all the doors for you. When a door is blocked for you, it will open a window for you. I have been here for half a year. Thank you for your company, which is this company. My bleeding heart is cared for by you, so that I can face everything calmly now. I don't want to say thank you, and I don't want to hear you say thank you all the time, because I regard all this as a kind of nature and do it for you. In fact, it is also a kind of pain for two people who love each other. There is no right or wrong on the road of love. I can't live without this love all my life. Let's bear this pain silently and persist for a lifetime in exchange for being with you in the afterlife.
Spicy is actually a state. I live a spicy life, which is a kind of excitement. Youth is spicy, and life can't be less spicy. After turning the turbulent rings of youth, I gradually entered a peaceful and slightly curved road, but my character contains two passions, the sadness of violin and the excitement of basketball court. Miss the days when there was a violin in the innocent age, watching the drizzle outside the window and listening to butterfly lovers's touch. Miss the excitement of youth on the basketball court. For the victory of a ball game, I can't find theNo. 16 of the all-around stadium, regardless of the bloody knee and the reincarnation of the sun and the moon. I vaguely remember my freshman year. After the autumn basketball game, the poster said that the jersey 16 was short and won the scoring title.
Life has five flavors, but it always says ups and downs, and there is also a taste of life, tasteless.
What is a tasteless life like? Tasteless includes two States, one is not eating human fireworks, and the other is not greedy for ups and downs. Another state, eating all the ups and downs, eating tasteless. Like a Buddhist who sees through the world of mortals, Taoism wants nothing.
Five flavors, tasteless and inaction are the three stages of life and have a high philosophy of life.
When you taste the five flavors for the first time, you will develop a state of mind, each with its own context.
Tasteless, extremely dark during the day, not completely white, not perfect black. Pure white is as opaque and tasteless as pure black. It's the same reason. I've eaten all the ups and downs of life, and if I eat too much, it's tasteless.
Doing nothing, doing nothing without doing anything, doing things naturally, not acting rashly, not demanding, not doing the opposite; This is a principle of doing things. I remember when we visited the Forbidden City together, we couldn't understand the word "inaction" inscribed by Emperor Qianlong. Through the study of Tao Te Ching, we finally understand its meaning. Do nothing, pay attention to the solution of self-acceptance, everything exists in the world, and so do the five flavors of life. Don't insist on everything, go with the flow, stand at 30, don't understand at 40, know your destiny at 50, and people have five flavors on their birthdays. Where can I do nothing in life?
Ten days of leisure life made me look down on many roads I had traveled. Now it's time to set sail. There are five flavors in life, five flavors in life, and everything has marriage. As long as life goes on, the five flavors will always be around, turning my thoughts into a kind of strength. When I looked up, the ends of the earth were not far away.