You must "can afford to lose" if you "can afford" to win.

Whenever something is labeled as a "win", there will definitely be a "loser".

From childhood to adulthood, as long as it involves competitions and selections, we all know that winning and losing are everywhere, all the time, and even the label of winning or losing at a certain time has been hidden in the hearts of others. , it has more or less affected some people’s views and evaluations of these people.

If a person wins more and more times, the things he wins will pile up higher and higher, including his talents, abilities, as well as the recognition and reputation brought by the outside world. And envy, etc., in some important occasions or competitions, if he wins in the end, it will be surprising, because he already has the sufficient conditions to win in people's hearts, and has not yet jumped out of people's expectations. The scope of the judgment, over time, maybe people will get used to him winning. But think about it from another perspective, what if he is not the winner this time?

Everyone is a different individual, and of course they experience different things, so their thoughts and feelings may not be the same. Some people may think that this so-called loss is nothing, and they regard it as relatively indifferent, and they really have a calm attitude that victory or defeat is a normal matter for a military strategist. Some people, on the contrary, believe that all their efforts and efforts must be rewarded with good results. When things go against their expectations, it is external sources such as this or that. There are many reasons and excuses as shields, but none of them are found within themselves.

Winning or losing is one thing, but whether you can afford to lose is another. One is objective and the other is subjective. How can they be tied together? After all, "winning" is not a necessary and sufficient condition for everyone. Everyone who is prepared may not win. Not all are ready.

Just like in a game of chess, there are losers and winners. There are so many variables that we cannot ask anyone to win, and everyone must lose. This is just a question of whether you can correctly view the results and face yourself. The person who wins is filled with joy or radiance. We all pay attention to making mistakes without regrets. In fact, losers can also achieve the state of "winning".

I have seen too many people who take first place and win trophies. Those who "can afford to lose" on the stage are more likely to be admired and appreciated. What I admire is his courage and spirit of not being arrogant, impetuous, and unwilling to give up. It is his magnanimity and character as a person. Therefore, how you behave is related to your magnanimity and structure. If you are narrow-minded, you will be limited by the existing structure and be short-sighted about the future.

Many things actually imply personal character choices, and it will be reflected in whatever you do. Everyone has different needs and choices, which creates diverse personalities and various characteristics that belong to everyone.

Just like how you view losing, people can choose how they view you.

Only if you are tolerant enough in your heart and can tolerate more things, you will be more stable when you show it. In every experience in the future, this wisdom will accompany you. Farther

Winning does not mean fame and fortune, and losing does not mean lack of strength. I hope you will win a lot today, but you can also afford to lose.