How did your classmates get along when you were at school?
Give one or two examples!
At school, a classmate in the class smoked, fought and stole things on weekdays, and was expelled from school for stealing a TV. Now he is a section chief of the District Education Bureau!
When I was in high school, several students who were similar to me failed to go home to farm because of the college entrance examination. Ninety-one of them crossed the single-plank bridge, and another classmate, his father, entrusted him to the bank and is now the president of a branch!
Nowadays, society can rarely mix well by hard work, which has nothing to do with no background. Even if you die, you can't mix with others!
Go to school and say all roads lead to Rome! But some people were born in Rome, and you just started working hard in Rome, and the result can be imagined!
For better or worse, as long as you are always in a mediocre mood, you will not be so eager to correct your eyebrows every day! As long as honest, less extravagance and waste, peace every year!
Let me tell you from my personal experience how my classmates got along when I was at school. I was born in 1986. When I was in junior high school, it was 98-00, and Hong Kong films were very popular in Chinese mainland. The "Young and Dangerous" series is every boy's favorite. Beyond and the four kings' songs are all listened to by tape recorders. No cell phone, no walkman, only tapes.
Township junior high schools have morning and evening self-study, and most of the students are from neighboring villages. Influenced by Hong Kong films such as Chen Haonan and Pheasant, some students with poor academic performance want to find a sense of accomplishment in other fields. For a time, various groups such as "Tiger Head Gang" and "Huaxing Society" filled the campus.
When I was in junior high school, my grades were ok, and I was firmly in the top three in the township. I'm not involved in this. But I play with someone who is involved. As for them, they occasionally make trouble in class, whistle at beautiful girls after class, call out boys who are not pleasing to the eye in the boys' dormitory at night when hormones are excessive, start smoking early, and give alms, drink and brag together. What about these students now? Later, our junior high school alumni WeChat group, what I learned about these people later can be roughly divided into three categories:
The first kind, get lost, then succeed in school, take root in the city, have a successful career and have a stable family.
My hair Xiao Xiaoming is such a person. When he was in junior high school, his grades were average, especially English, but he was good at physics and mathematics. He joined the "Huaxing Society", the kind of person who only participates in activities and only drinks without fighting.
Later, I was told by my family and taught a lesson by my father. My family was collecting peanuts at that time. It was a weekend in the wild. Father held out his hands to show him the calluses on his hands and the mud embedded in his nails. He said, "Son, my father has no education, so he has been farming all his life. It's not that farmers are bad, but that they work too hard. Are you willing to be like me all your life? " The boy's tears rolled in his eyes and he didn't speak. .
After returning to school the next day, I seemed to be a different person, taciturn and quit the "Huaxing Society". Fortunately, it's not too late. I was admitted to the key high school in our county in the senior high school entrance examination. People who have the impulse to fly high will not be willing to climb on the ground. Three years in high school, studying hard at the cold window.
He is good at science, flexible in mind and has made up his English. He was admitted to Xi Jiaotong University in the college entrance examination to study computer technology. Now he works for a large software company, has a college lover, a daughter, bought an RV in Xi 'an, picked up his elderly parents and enjoyed his old age.
The second category, poor grades, entered the society early under the arrangement of family members, and lived a good life through their own efforts and hard work.
Xiao Qiang comes from my neighboring class and village, and his grades are really pleasing. He joined the "Tiger Head Gang". In the third grade, I didn't even get 100 in every monthly exam, and I didn't even go to high school. Later, I stopped going to school. Go to Zhengzhou to learn car repair with a distant cousin. I am diligent and have enough brains. Later, I went back to our county and opened a car beauty shop. I passed the county town when I went home last year. When I met him, I was a little fat and flushed. I opened three stores and my life is booming.
Lu Xiao is my distant cousin, and he is also a fool. After graduating from junior high school, he stopped going to school. 18 years old, was forcibly sent to the department by his uncle. Military camp is also my dream, where people can really exercise. This boy was a soldier for three years, but he was sent to a military school. He served in the army for ten years at once, and he reached the rank of major. Doing business in the sea depends on honesty, perseverance and deep friendship in the army, and it is booming in the hometown city, but it is good to be strict and self-disciplined now.
Third, leaving school too early, getting married and having children, working as an assembly line in a factory or enterprise, but living comfortably.
This is my deskmate in grade one. My grades were not very good at that time. I barely finished high school and went to work in Shenzhen. I am an assembly line worker. He got married when I was a sophomore, and later he had a son and a daughter, and his wife was from a nearby village. Two people worked together. At first, they ran around and later settled in a factory in Guangzhou.
Now he has been promoted to workshop supervisor, his wife is in charge of quality inspection, his eldest son is in junior high school in the county, and his youngest daughter is in primary school in the county. They bought a house in the county a few years ago. I attach great importance to children's education. I met him during the Chinese New Year. I plan to let my wife quit her job at home, urge the children to study and go to work by herself. Because I don't want my children to go their own way, reading is the most important thing.
Based on my experience and thinking, I will answer your question comprehensively. During school, students who joined gangs to form a "mixed society" are still doing well, because the material situation as a child does not mean that they will be irresponsible when they grow up. They now have three types:
First I lost my way, and now I have a successful career.
Second, after entering the society, work hard and make a fortune.
Third, the ability is not too great, but hard work is also a well-off life.
Therefore, no matter how rebellious and ignorant people are when they are young, as long as they live hard as they grow older, they can always live a high life.
So, when you were at school, did you have any classmates who were mixed up in society? What happened later?
Seeing the problem, I couldn't help crying. During school, everyone will have several girlfriends, especially boys, which is a typical "mixed society".
Getting along with good friends in primary school may be because parents have a good relationship, or they may be relatives, or they may be able to play with you. What impressed me was a good friend. At that time, his family was ordinary, and he often went to catch pig grass together, so he got along well. Every day after school, I go to catch pig grass and sit on the upside-down bamboo basket first, telling the plot of the TV series I watched yesterday. Looking at the sunset, the mountains and plains are all red. Looking back now, it is beautiful enough. Now, my good friend drives a tanker, makes money, buys several big trucks and hires drivers to pull his goods. When we meet now, we often talk about many things in the past.
Friends who get along well with each other in junior high school are now working in the unit, while comrades who work in the unit are more restrained (not bad). A person with too many restrictions will make you unsociable. We are in the same city and get along well. Every time we meet for a drink, he will pull me to brag and brag. Then let's talk about the unforgettable thing in junior high school: on New Year's Day and the third day of a certain year, we were ordered to make up lessons by the school. Everyone is angry, but there is nothing they can do. Later, my friends and I decided to prove by actions that we didn't know how to make up lessons at school. Then, we hide under the covers and refuse to get up (we live on campus). Later, the class teacher came to "invite" us both, and each of us was slapped twice. After the fight, the class teacher actually smiled and said, "Happy New Year, this is a New Year gift for both of you." Later, both of us and the class teacher caused a sensation in the whole school because of this famous saying of the class teacher.
I didn't feel rebellious until high school. At that time, I liked playing basketball. Almost all the "friends" we get along with are friends of the stadium. We went out to drink together, skipped classes together, ate instant noodles together and handed each other love letters. Everything left a deep impression on me. However, we are not completely presumptuous. We should just follow the path that every young person should take. We not only played beautifully, but also got poor grades. Almost all of them were admitted to good universities. But because I don't live in a city, I feel that the relationship is completely weak now. We knew how to make wine as soon as we met, and then we boasted and compared ourselves-compared with the house, the car, the wife and children.
Youth is beautiful. When you come and look back, you will find that the rugged roads and roadside scenery are beautiful! It's nice to have so many people accompanying, laughing, crying and walking by!
When I was in junior high school, some older people couldn't study well. Students who like to form gangs and mix society. After entering the society, there is a sharp contrast. There are backstage people at home, engaged in entertainment, real estate, driving a luxury car, living in a mansion, and mixing feng shui!
Of course, there are also unlucky people who fight and gamble and have been detained by the police station several times. Later, I couldn't get along in the local area and worked in other places, and then I disappeared!
Also, people who mix food and drink in society kneel down as younger brothers when they encounter severe foot color. After the arrest of eldest brother, he had to work as a coolie in the mine. Later, when he was old, it was difficult to get along in one place!
Society is a big dye vat, and it is not easy to blend in. It takes two or three people to get ahead. Some of them studied well and went back to their hometown to become mayors, directors and county heads after going to college. To make matters worse, he became the executive deputy director of the provincial public security department. Even under normal circumstances, it can be an ordinary civil servant, or it can be a teacher or employee of a township enterprise.
In short, there is no harm without comparison. Read a good book, go to a good high school and go to a key university. Thirty years later, look at life, who is good, you will know at a glance!
Don't like studying, often skip classes and fight. Several people often fool around together, learn to smoke and drink, watch pornographic books and CDs, flirt with girls, and even steal things and rob with knives. Several students in my class took all of them, and finally drove home without even graduating from junior high school, and then began to mix with society, and some started working when they were young …
Several years have passed, and it is unknown what they have done during this period. It was only at the last class reunion that I found out which students didn't finish junior high school. Nowadays, money is everywhere in society. One of the demolition workers actually got a villa in a good area of the city. There are several cars at home, and the BMW 5 Series is the worst. Another student is full of energy, and there are no strangers on the black and white roads of the city. Countless immigrants to the United States have traveled all over the world, Europe and Africa. In society, you can't live a good life without knowledge and education. On the contrary, those who graduated from college and were assigned to state-owned enterprises, and those who closed down state-owned enterprises were laid off and lived a tight life of food and clothing. This is the social status quo.
They are both husbands. It's normal to form gangs when you were a student. Several students have a very good relationship. As long as they don't do anything illegal, they are all worthy of forgiveness. Knowing your mistakes can improve a lot.
Better than a good student.
Much better than those admitted to the university.