Why do women with good careers generally have poor marriages?
I discovered a phenomenon: women with good careers often have unsatisfactory marriages and high divorce rates. The better ones always have a good lover around them, but the worst ones don’t even have a man around them. Some women who are not yet married even start their careers first, start a company, make their own money, buy their own cars and houses, and then they become leftover women who cannot get married.
Why is this? Is it wrong for me to work hard and be an excellent woman?
In fact, this is caused by the export of values in today’s society.
Today’s values define people with large assets and good careers as outstanding people and capable people. There is nothing wrong with this. It is good in itself to strive for progress as a human being. But due to the value orientation, it became the direction of efforts, to make money and to start a career.
In a horoscope, if your career is good and you make a lot of money, you can understand this life phenomenon as a structure, and for this structure, the horoscope has a special term called: pattern. When a pattern is formed, people will do things related to the pattern. The scary thing is that once a pattern is formed, the timeline will be stretched out for at least 8 years or even longer. In other words, the pattern forms a closed time loop, and people will keep spinning in this loop. All the energy and spirit of a person will act on the pattern, so the energy representing the husband and family cannot get in. In the mild case, the couple will have conflicts or not see each other for a long time; in the worst case, they will simply divorce.
A relatively common phenomenon is that a couple works together to start a career. When they don’t make a fortune, they live in peace with each other. But when they make a fortune, they end up getting divorced. This means that when you get rich, your business is successful, your family is broken up. The higher the development of the cause, the greater the repelling force. Because women are also involved in business management. In her horoscope, there is the phenomenon of success.
Some women will be very aggrieved. I don’t want to be like this, but there is no reliable man around me. I don’t rely on myself or anyone else. From the perspective of causal logic, this is not because women cannot have reliable men around them, so they have to work hard on their own. Rather, a woman has a pattern in her horoscope, and all her energy is devoted to her career and making money, so that there is no reliable man in her life. I have met such a woman, who sells luxury goods. She is a very good person, and her conversational skills and knowledge are higher than many men. He and I talked about our destiny for a long time, all of which were about career issues, and we didn’t even mention a word about marriage until the end. In other words, her horoscope structure means that she no longer needs a man in her life. From a realistic psychological point of view, I have completely lost confidence in men and don’t think about it anymore.
In fact, if a woman can completely give up and live alone, loneliness is the greatest reward in life. As long as a person is willing to enjoy loneliness and feels completely comfortable, it is actually a good thing. Good thing. Human? Being comfortable is the most important thing.
The paradox is that women have an innate psychological tendency: the pursuit of completeness. Since the female body is incomplete in its congenital structure, the acquired psychological needs are extremely longing for completeness, and the things that fill this need are husband and children. Therefore, no matter how rich a woman is but there is no man around her, or you are very satisfied with material life but cannot have children, you will always feel regretful in your heart.
Therefore, the biggest outlet for outstanding women with successful careers in their spare time is various training courses. What about psychology, spirituality, personal healing, yoga, etc. A woman who truly has a good family relationship and a loving husband and wife, whose entire energy field focuses on her family, is unlikely to frequently participate in social activities and group gatherings. This is the reason for people’s own energy structure.
Conclusion: I believe that balancing career and family is something that everyone hopes to achieve. There is nothing wrong with pursuing excellence in life. This is also a necessary driving force for social development. But the ideal and safe division of labor is for men to make money and women to take care of the household. Once a woman becomes stronger, it is basically difficult to maintain a harmonious family life. This is not to promote so-called male chauvinism. It is the objectively existing law of yin and yang.
Tiancheng Metaphysics Studio Teacher Li