Your pattern is your Feng Shui

What is a pattern?

Pattern refers to the inner capacity of a person's knowledge, mind, vision and other factors.

Confucius once said: "A gentleman does not have utensils."

People cannot limit themselves to something like a certain utensil. in a narrow range.

Otherwise, life will be limited.

Life is like chess, you have no regrets when you make a move.

A person with a big layout will not just focus on the chess pieces in his hand, but will know how to observe the layout of the entire chess game.

Only by making your own layout well can you win the game in one fell swoop.

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The bigger the pattern, the less entangled

People often say that the bigger the pattern, the less entangled it is. People are better able to know what is important to themselves.

Indeed.

People without a pattern cannot see clearly, so they will struggle endlessly;

People with a pattern, see clearly, Just don't stick to trivial matters.

As the saying goes: "A wise person will be confused about small things; a very ignorant person will be careful about small things."

A truly dignified person will not struggle over trivial matters.

In ancient times, there was a young man who was very shrewd and never wanted to be deceived.

He has to make careful calculations in everything he does, for fear that he will suffer a loss.

He knows which restaurant in the city has cheap clothes and which restaurant has large portions of food.

But such a calculation did not bring him happiness. Instead, it made him fall into a kind of anxiety of fear of suffering losses. He would be upset about even the smallest things. pregnant.

Once, when he came back from a meal, he found that the amount of money in his pocket was wrong and two yuan was missing.

He went to the restaurant, and both the waiter and the shopkeeper said they had not charged the wrong money.

So he looked for it along the way home, but found nothing.

After returning home, he has been depressed.

After a period of time, his body became weaker and weaker.

One day, he felt it was too painful, so he asked his family to ask a doctor to see him.

The doctor said that he had a heart problem and needed to open it up on his own.

He suddenly realized that this mere two cents had caused him pain for so long.

Since then, he no longer has to worry about everything, and his body and mood have become better and better.

There is a saying that most people who are entangled in everything actually live unhappy lives.

Entanglement will make life lose a lot of fun.

Human life is like a game in the world within a given time.

You decide whether your life is good or bad.

People with a big picture know what is important.

You will not waste your time worrying about trivial matters.

They are more willing to spend time and energy doing more meaningful things.

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The bigger the pattern, the wider the road

The second half of life is not about competing for wealth and status, but about pattern.

Only those who have a pattern have a good vision.

For those who have a pattern, the road will become wider and wider; for those who have no pattern, the road will become narrower and narrower.

Yu Qiuyu once said: "If a person has a large life pattern, he will not sink into the trivialities of life."

Different patterns will allow you to see a different world.

There is such a story:

Three masons were building a wall. At this time, a man passed by and asked them respectively. What are you doing.

The first person said angrily, "Didn't you see it?" I'm hard at work building a wall.

The second person replied, We are building a high-rise building.

The third person said happily that we are creating a better life.

Ten years later, the first man is still working as a mason, the second man has become an engineer, and the third man has become the boss of a construction company.

In fact, there is no difference in their work itself, but the life directions of the three people are very different.

This is because their initial layout determines their direction.

What kind of pattern will lead to what kind of life ending.

People with a small pattern will only repeat what they are doing day after day;

People with a big pattern will Think about what this will do to you.

Zeng Guofan once said: "Those who plan for great things must first focus on the pattern."

It is difficult for a person to see what is in front of him. Go further.

In life, we can often see scenes like this:

Some people, when trying new things, You will be full of enthusiasm at the beginning, but you will give up once you encounter difficulties.

This is because the layout is too small.

The layout is small, and you can't see the farther scenery, letting the difficulties in front of you block your way.

People with a big picture will not stop because of the hardships in front of them, because they know that there will be more beautiful scenery behind.

Therefore, those with a big picture are more likely to succeed.

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Your pattern is your Feng Shui

The best Feng Shui for a person , not how lucky he is, but how big his pattern is.

People with different patterns will have different lives.

Some people say: "A person with a big picture can not only see himself, but also see others."

Everyone has a pattern, but the most important difference is its size.

People with a small structure only care about themselves; people with a big structure will take care of more.

People with a big picture have a bigger mind and have the world in mind.

A person's pattern is the feng shui of his conduct.

Qian Xuesen studied abroad when he was young. Just when he was becoming famous, he heard the news of the founding of New China.

He did not hesitate and immediately decided to return to China and join the wave of building a new China.

Foreign scholars said: "No matter where Qian Xuesen goes, he is worth the strength of five divisions."

Qian Xuesen did not give up returning to China because of his superior living environment and high-paying job.

He overcame numerous obstacles and finally returned to his motherland.

After that, he did not put on any airs or complain about the scientific research environment.

For decades, we have been working hard for our country’s national defense, science and technology.

In a difficult environment, he pioneered the aerospace industry of New China and fulfilled his responsibilities to achieve great achievements for the country that shocked the world one after another.

Pattern is not the wisdom of speaking, but the wisdom of doing.

People with a pattern have a better understanding of the overall situation.

Truly powerful people do things not only for themselves, but also for the sake of others.

Such a person will be more responsible in doing things, and you will feel at ease when working and getting along with him.

There is a proverb that says: "No matter how big the pancake is, it is not bigger than the pot in which it is baked."

There is a big picture Only those who are strong can bake a bigger cake.

People who have no structure will only calculate their own interests. Such people are often unreliable in their work.

People with structure will be liked by others wherever they go, and the road in life will become smoother and smoother.

As the old saying goes: "If people move, they will live, but if they move, the trees will die."

A person If you are too attached to one thought, you will not be able to open up the situation, and the road in the future will become narrower.

There are three realms in a person's life: seeing oneself, seeing the heaven and earth, and seeing all living beings.

Different patterns determine different realms of life.

In life, you need to know how to enlarge the picture in order to see a different scenery.

You must know that only by standing higher and seeing further can people live a better life.