Yu Hua's Living: People have lived all their lives, but what are words?

People can't be feng shui all their lives. Ups and downs are normal. After all, ups and downs are the normal state of life. ,

Some people become bourgeois, others become beggars as soon as they turn over, and life is unpredictable. No one can fully control his own destiny.

A moment of scenery does not mean a lifetime of scenery, and a moment of depression does not mean a lifetime of depression.

People live all their lives. To put it bluntly, there is actually one word: forbearance.

"forbearance" is what most people need to experience all their lives. When they were young, they wanted a doll, and their parents said they would only buy it if they got good grades. After work, I came from an unknown clerk and suffered a lot of grievances; After marriage, family chores and contradictions come to you, and you have to bear them.

In the face of all kinds of contradictions and hardships in life, have you ever complained about the injustice of heaven?

In fact, this is the normal state of life. You have to face it, you have to experience everything, and you have to endure everything.

You will find that patience again and again has made you reach the peak of your life and made unprecedented achievements.

After all, people live all their lives, and all patience is for a better tomorrow.

02.

Fu Gui in Alive has been "forbearing" all his life. He was born in a landlord family since he was a child, and he had no worries about food and clothing. But it was such a comfortable environment that he fell in love with gambling, which made him lose everything.

Many rich people rise and fall because of gambling. Even a billionaire will lose everything in the casino and end up with nothing.

No matter how successful a person is in other places, from the moment he takes part in gambling, he loses, and Fu Gui is no exception. He lost all his property and his old house, and his family became poor. At this time, he chose patience and survival.

He also wanted to make up for his mistake, but God didn't give him a chance at all. As a strong man, he was caught on the way to find a doctor for his mother.

During this period, he experienced a lot of inhuman torture, but he knew he needed patience. It was several years before he was redeemed and had the money to go home.

In those years, Fu Gui has been enduring, and he must endure. If he wants to survive on the battlefield and go home to see his family, he must endure day after day and wait for the day when the light comes.

03.

As long as people are alive, there is hope. Fu Gui's patience gave him a chance to reunite with his family. He finally went home to see his family.

Fu Gui's wife Jia Zhen is also a person who knows the word "forbearance". At that time, Fu Gui's family had declined. As long as she went home, she was still the daughter of the rice shop owner, with at least food and clothing.

But even so, she didn't choose to go home. She silently accompanied the immature husband and gave birth to children for him.

Fu Gui went out and never came back. Under such difficult circumstances, she was brought up by a woman with a pair of children, which is admirable.

She used to be a young lady of a big family. In order to make a living, she went out to work, dragging her family forward alone, and her life did not improve, leaving a disease.

Fortunately, her patience and persistence are worthwhile. Fu Gui's return has made this family a pillar, and all life is developing in a good direction, which seems to have a bright future, but tragedy soon befalls this family.

Daughter Xia Feng gave birth to a child and died of massive bleeding. The originally happy family was fragmented, and Jia Zhen, who lost her daughter, passed away quickly.

One by one, the family can't lift its head. Happiness is short-lived, but the living will continue. After all, as long as people are alive, they can wait until the day when they make a comeback.

Life is really bitter, but as long as you live, you must endure it to the end.

04.

Fu Gui once thought that returning home was a new beginning, but he didn't expect that the nightmare of life began after returning home.

Fu Gui's life seems to be a "history of suffering". His son, daughter, wife and son-in-law died one after another, leaving him alone and an old cow.

But he is alive, still firmly alive, he endured, still silently endured everything given by fate.

In fact, people are really strange, sometimes very fragile and sometimes very strong.

As Mo Bosang wrote in "Life", "People's fragility and strength are beyond their imagination. Sometimes, I can be so fragile that I burst into tears. Sometimes, I find myself biting my teeth and walking a long way. "

When people are alive, they have to move forward. Even though the road ahead is long and there is no future in sight, they still keep moving forward, just for the unknown tomorrow.

Where do people come from and where do they want to go?

Live, and you will find that the answer is actually simple.

Those who came yesterday will leave tomorrow.

In fact, the goal is very simple, just live.

However, most people, just living, have spent a lot of effort. People's life is so bitter, so difficult, they can't get what they want, they can't fall in love, and finally they don't even have the courage to leave.

05.

Parents, wives, children and grandchildren passed away one after another, which should have been a happy family. In the end, Fu Gui was the only one left. Even though he despairs of life, he is still alive.

Without expectation, but waiting in the dark; I can't see a bright future, but I still move on to the next tomorrow.

As long as people are alive, they must learn to "endure". Even if they are extremely painful, they must go on strongly. This is the meaning of life.

Life is actually a practice. You can never predict what will happen tomorrow. Those who were chatting together yesterday closed their eyes forever the next day. No one wants to experience this kind of pain, but as long as they live, there is hope.

Live bravely, even if something terrible happens, it may make you feel hopeless, but you should know that when people reach the bottom, there will be a turning point. When you come into this world, you must experience something.

Suffering will make you stronger, and setbacks will make you more resilient. As Nietzsche said, "Those who can't destroy you will eventually make you stronger."

Cherish every day, because living is a wonderful thing, you can see the sunshine and smell the flowers.

The meaning of life lies in understanding the world, so even if you are suffering from injustice now, as long as you "endure", it will be a beautiful tomorrow.