After the second child policy was allowed, why are Shandong people the most daring to have children?
Having more children means more blessings, and this is passed down from generation to generation. Our parents have taught us since childhood that we should love and care for our brothers and sisters. When we grow up, we will all be "companions", taking care of each other and supporting each other. All kinds of friendships are They are not as close as their biological brothers and sisters, so they are more willing to have a second child. It’s not that Shandong people don’t know how to enjoy a leisurely life. No matter how stressful life is, they still need to find a “partner” for their children. After all, a child is too big. When you are lonely, your parents cannot accompany you for the rest of your life. Of course, family bloodline inheritance and culture are more important.
Having the courage to have a second child is a good thing for your own family, but in fact it is beneficial to our country.
What does it mean that Shandong favors boys over girls? In fact, why are you born in Shandong? Generally speaking, those with boys in the family will envy those with girls, and those with girls will envy those with boys. Now that the conditions are better, there is generally no need to worry about life. Having children is the ideal of many Shandong people. Giving birth to two sons is generally stressful. Big ones.
This is a true story. He lives in a village in Wenshang, Shandong. Let’s call him Little A. When he turned eighteen, he found a factory with the help of his brother-in-law. Because Xiao A was pampered at home since he was a child, he couldn't stand the hardship in the factory and wanted to resign. His brother-in-law persuaded him to stay and asked the boss to find him a position as a driver for the boss, which changed Xiao A's fate.
Because Little A is honest and introverted, he is highly appreciated by his boss, so he is promoted to captain of the entire factory team. His status and salary satisfy him very much and make people in his hometown very envious. When Little A reached the age of marriage, the matchmaker arranged a marriage for him. The girl was from a village not far from his home. We called her Little B. It was a natural progression. Little A and Little B got married. After the marriage, they had two children. After having a girl, Little A and Little B didn’t plan to have any more, but Little A’s father couldn’t accept it and forced Little A and Little B to give him another grandson. Little A’s father cried every day and drank too much every night. He scolded Little A and Little B for being unfilial and said: I didn’t expect that in your generation we would have no descendants! The fine for family planning is not a problem for Little A, so Little A and Little B discuss it, and Little B agrees to have another child, but it doesn’t matter whether he is a man or a woman. Little A's father was so happy that he stopped drinking and found a job as a janitor. He was very motivated every day and named his unborn child "Dazhuang".
Shandong Province is the hometown of Confucius and Mencius and is heavily influenced by traditional thought. On the other hand, Shandong people have a strong sense of responsibility and do not pay much attention to enjoying life. Two children grow up together and can support each other. Economically, Shandong is neither a wealthy province nor too poor to have food to eat.
Shandong is not as active in giving birth to second children as other provinces. In other provinces, second and third children can go to kindergarten, but Shandong only gives birth to second children. If you encounter a second child born in the past nine years in other places, you will be fined 500/1,000. In some places in Shandong, the fine is tens of thousands. Who dares to give birth to a child? Every province is different. People in Shandong can't have children when they are young, but they can't have children when they are older due to the liberalization of the policy. Brothers and sisters should take care of each other more, and parents can take care of the family with less fatigue when they are old. Otherwise, a child would be so tired.
Everyone has their own plans, but one child is too lonely. When you get older, you will know the benefits of having more children, especially when the elderly are hospitalized. One child is really too tired, day and night. They have to take care of each other in the hospital, delaying going to work and taking care of the children. I have experienced it personally. If there are more brothers, they can be transferred to take care of them, which can reduce the burden. Since the country allows it, you can have a baby if you want. In fact, most people who want to have a second child now want a little girl. Are there people who prefer boys over girls? There are certainly some, but there really aren’t many in today’s society.
Are you tired of having another child? Definitely tired. The financial burden has definitely increased. Why do I want to have a second child? I just want two children to be companions. I just want a boy, is there anything wrong with that? If you don’t dare to ask for it because you’re afraid of being tired or being burdened, don’t let everyone force you. Rich people can have multiple children, but should poor people die? China is entering an elderly society. Wouldn’t it be nice to have more young people in the future? In fact, what people can save in this life is not a villa or money, but children. When you die, all that is left behind is the children.
Which provinces are most receptive to new ideas? Hunan and Hunan, Jiangsu, Zhejiang, and Northeast China. I don’t know if it’s Hebei or the northwest. These places usually have one, at most two, and three are basically individual cases. Children People generally have a high level of education, and the worst people nowadays have basically graduated from a vocational high school. This is because children are more playful. People in these places are easy to accept new things, and Guangdong should be considered the same, so modern talents basically appear in these places. Because I have been taught since I was a child that old age is old and new is old, my living conditions are relatively good.
In terms of family planning, this is because Shandong’s family planning is stronger than other provinces. Southern provinces can spend money to buy quotas, and those who want to have a child have already given birth to one child. Shandong's family planning policy is strict, and even those with a better financial situation don't dare to have a second child, so now that it is relaxed, many people want it.
It is selfish to say that you only have one good child. Have you ever thought about having a child? Have you ever thought about your children? When you get old, all the responsibilities will be given to one child and there will be no one to share it with. The bigger the family, the more mixed it is. A bachelor has no wife and children and has not seen the mixed family business. This is how people are. The greater the pressure, the less capable you are. The bigger they are, the more they can afford to be born.
Before giving birth to a child, you must be rational, physically and mentally prepared, and be responsible for yourself and even more for your child. It can be said to be the most important decision in life. If having a child is for Elder care, if it doesn't develop according to your will, wouldn't it be very painful? In fact, we can learn from Western adoption and tell the children truthfully from the time they are sensible: We are not your biological parents, but we are people with love in our hearts. Let your young life grow up healthily. The relationship between us is not maintained by blood but by love and respect. If it can last long, it is also an option. The purpose of the country's liberalization of second-child policy is to increase the demographic dividend, promote economic development, and slow down the aging of the population.
Doesn’t Shandong’s large number of second children conform to the country’s development needs? Besides, Shandong can afford to have children and raise them, so at least there aren’t that many left-behind children. The character of Shandong people is recognized throughout the country as being relatively good. Without so many Shandong children, how could there be so many outstanding Shandong soldiers? Shandong has already contributed a lot to the country. Why are there still people who want to criticize Shandong and not let you raise them?