What's the point of borrowing one's life instead of mourning?

The older generation often said, "We can borrow other people's homes for funerals in rural areas, and even stop at other people's homes for some special reasons. Although it is inconvenient and unlucky, it is not good for a wedding for rural people who attach great importance to feelings. People will thank you and God will see that the deceased will rest in peace. The wedding reception must be held in one's own home. Neighbors only borrow houses, not houses.

"Borrow to die but not live" your own house. If an outsider lives in it and dies, the owner will feel that there is nothing acceptable. People think that the house is the wealth of their life, and the so-called "wealth and bureaucracy" are collectively called "room gas", and the deceased can not only take away the room gas, but also leave all the good luck before his death. And "borrowing life" means that the child will take away the room gas when giving birth to a child, but there is also a saying that the mother will bleed when giving birth to a child, which will bring "the disaster of bloodshed" to the owner.