He went to work in America just to improve his life. But in the end, my wife separated!
When I was in America, I met a Fujian guy who worked in a Chinese restaurant. He is 34 years old, married for 9 years and has a 7-year-old daughter. He worked in this China restaurant for five years. He came to America on a tourist visa. Usually, he is a black worker. Fortunately, this is Chinatown, and American immigration police rarely come here. In fact, there are many people who do illegal labor like him. The US police and the Immigration Bureau are also very clear that "people don't sue, officials don't investigate." The most important thing is the shortage of labor in the United States, especially in the service industry. White Americans rarely do it, and even if they are willing to do it, the salary is high and it is difficult to manage. Like Chinese restaurants, they are generally reluctant to hire local Americans. Chinese restaurant employees are mainly immigrants from China and Mexico.
The reason why young people go to the United States to work as illegal workers is because the wages in the United States are high (of course, this is relative to the RMB). He pays $3,500 a month without any insurance and taxes, and pays his salary in cash. (3,500 dollars for 20,000 RMB) Do this for a few years, and you will definitely become a rich man. At first, he just wanted to earn more money in America, and then he went back to China to live.
But after a long time in America, he wants to live in America. The first question of 1 is identity, and a lot of money has been spent to solve the problem of illegal workers.
The problem of illegal workers was solved, but then the application for identity was in trouble. He failed to apply for American identity several times. He originally wanted to apply for identity, so he took his wife and children from China to live in the United States. I didn't expect the application for identity to be so difficult that I didn't pass it for several years.
Although his application for identity was not passed, he didn't want to go back to China. One is that the salary here is ok, and the other is that he doesn't know what he can do after returning to China.
Others didn't go back, and the money was sent back every year. Every time, his wife in China asked him to go back. He's always looking for an excuse to wait, and his wife lost patience with him after having been to China once or twice. Although he said he worked in an American restaurant, his wife never came. She doesn't know. Coupled with the long wait, the woman finally lost the patience to wait any longer and chose a divorce!
He is still waiting for his application for identity to be approved.
I don't know why he must get this identity and why he must stay in the United States. Is it not good to go back to China?
Even if you get American identity and stay in the United States, your home in China will be gone. Is it worth it?
My friends, if it were you, what would you choose?
Do you listen to your wife's call to return to China, or do you want to stay in America?