Why does the longer you break up, the more painful the man is?
Boys naturally love freedom, don't like being bound, and love each other. Girls, on the other hand, like being clingy, following and loving each other. Boys' natural personality will make them feel bound in love. Girls often let boys do things they don't want to do, and often have the idea of returning to being single.
The first time to return to being single is to let go of yourself and have fun. Men feel liberated and free, and immediately go back to the dormitory to play games with their classmates, without much uncomfortable feeling. Gradually, the game is over, and men don't know what to do for a while, because they should always find a girlfriend at this time, but now they have lost it and suddenly feel a little empty.
When a boy's passion for freedom passes, he will think about his mistakes. This is a sad time for him. On the contrary, girls have adapted to being single in this transitional period, because during the period when they just broke up, girls were immersed in happy memories with boys every day, always feeling that they would not break up and would keep going, so girls felt like dreaming, and a relationship broke down. It can be said that girls gradually came out of their feelings and sadness.
So the boy's sadness is caused by himself, because there was enough time to save this relationship, but the boy was addicted to the so-called game and prepared to spend the rest of his life with it. When the girl came out of her sadness and wanted to have a new life, the boy woke up and he had lost it.