How is your relationship with your siblings?

When I was born, the national family planning policy was tightened, so we all wondered how my parents could have two more children when they already had my brother and me. My family is simply a "superborn guerrilla", and it is more than enough to assemble a table of mahjong. My mother had a strong preference for sons over daughters. I heard from relatives that she felt that one son was not enough, so she pursued two more sons. Unexpectedly, they were both girls. In the countryside, there were families with several children, but basically there were several girls at the top just to have a boy. Like my family, there were already a boy and there were few who wanted to pursue another boy. I guess it may have something to do with my mother’s experience. In my mother’s family, the elder brother is the eldest, followed by a bunch of older sisters. It’s really not an exaggeration to use a bunch of sisters. There are seven sisters! I heard that there was a younger brother who seemed to have fallen into the river and drowned. Anyway, my mother never mentioned it, and we didn’t dare to ask. It was all hearsay. Since my mother is very patriarchal, the three sisters and I have always been at odds with each other since we were little. We often fight. But after all, my brother is the eldest, and the previous parental mentality was that the eldest must give way to the younger ones. Therefore, my brother was beaten a lot because of our relationship. The most severe one was when my father broke his belt. My dad is actually patriarchal at heart, but he never said it. We girls rarely get beaten. Usually when we make a mistake, we kneel on the washboard or write a letter of apology. My dad is a weirdo. He has collected everything we have written. The self-reflection letter is still locked up. I don’t know if they want to take it out to ‘humiliate’ us in the future.

So, generally speaking, in our family, the relationship between my brother and us girls is somewhat incompatible. So do we sisters 'love each other'? Of course not, everyone Talking about three women and one drama, although we were born to the same parents, we look like triplets to outsiders, but we have different personalities. Fights are common, and they are noisy over food, play, and watching TV.

These are things that happened when I was a child. Although those impressive memories are always noisy, in fact we got along peacefully most of the time. We did homework together, ate together, watched TV together, and went out to play together. The three sisters often changed clothes, and most of the time was warm.

Especially now that everyone is married and starting a business, and they are not in the same city, they cherish their childhood time even more. Even if you have troubles, you won’t have someone to talk to. Relatives are always the closest ones and will always patiently enlighten you and keep you optimistic.

I think it’s good to have so many brothers and sisters, and it’s likely that there will be very few brothers and sisters like mine in the future. When everyone and I go on trips together in the future, we can form a group, how great!