Why is it the easiest to break up and quarrel before marriage?

First, why is it the easiest to break up before marriage? 1. For material reasons, the house and the bride price are indispensable things in marriage, but some girls asked their boyfriends for material conditions when they got married, which made the man very unhappy, so they broke up in a quarrel. I suffered from phobia before marriage, and I was always in a panic when I was about to enter the marriage hall with my beloved. I'm afraid that person can't give me the happiness I want, and I'm afraid that I can't be a family-oriented woman, so there are many contradictions between the two people and they finally broke up. 3. There are contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law before marriage. There must be a lot of things to prepare before the wedding, but young people and old people have many different ideas. The mother of the maiden's family will choose to compromise with her daughter, but her mother-in-law will not necessarily choose to compromise, so conflicts occur frequently and a good marriage becomes a farce. Second, why is it the easiest to quarrel before marriage? At the wedding, many girls will reluctantly say yes, but there are also many girls who are unwilling. This is a question of courage and maturity. Some girls just think that all the wedding invitations have been sent out. At this time, I regret not only being late, but also what others think of me later. How should I bear the consequences? My parents will definitely ask me questions, and there are many things to deal with later. How can I stand it alone? After thinking about these problems, she silently endured. Those women who hesitate before marriage and are reluctant after marriage will inevitably regret getting married! One by one, she was at a loss, and she even felt that refusing marriage was the perfect solution to the problem! And some girls bravely refused, and in a short time, she will indeed be influenced by some eyes, but if she dares to say no, she will naturally have a mentality of facing more things, and her future life will be smoother and smoother! But before the root of these problems, why do girls hesitate? It's simple. Being anxious before marriage means deciding not to get married after the invitation is sent out, because getting married is a very complicated thing. In communication, we may keep the best side of each other because we haven't been together long enough, but when it comes to marriage, husband and wife will know each other better. If there are some irreconcilable phenomena at this time, some people will show their true colors at this time, but at this time, another person can't stand it. She thought it would collapse in the long run, so she thought. Therefore, anyone who is anxious before marriage is because after each other's masks are torn off, they find that the other party is not suitable for them! Third, the reasons for breaking up before marriage 1 Many couples have a very good relationship when they are in love and never quarrel, but there will be some differences when buying a house or decorating a house before marriage. Slowly, the bad side of two people will be displayed in front of each other, or they will blame each other. At this time, the other party will feel that there are too many things that are too melodramatic, which will lead to breaking up. In fact, many men and women try their best to show their good side in the love stage, but some things that will happen when they are about to get married will make the other party see their bad side, thus making the other party have the idea of not wanting to get married. So much for today's talk about breaking up before marriage. In fact, in the process of communication, more should be considered whether two people are suitable. Think more about 15 things to consider before marriage. Living together for a long time, you will often quarrel, and there will inevitably be some friction in your life. But if we can solve these frictions well in the process of getting along, Bian Xiao thinks we can still try to get married. Why is it the easiest to break up and quarrel before marriage? Why is it the easiest to break up before marriage? Because all tolerance and understanding in love are based on the affairs of two people, as long as one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer, the other can continue. Marriage is a matter for two families. After a period of getting along, there is no novelty before, and there are running-in and contradictions between families, including the collision of wedding bride price and family values. There are some contradictions, so naturally I don't want to continue. Therefore, I personally think that breaking up before marriage should be cautious and responsible for the feelings of both parties. For those who are afraid of marriage, they think that marriage is a certain life, they are unhappy and afraid of the unknown. If the subconscious is such a logic, it is easier to break up in behavior! Why is it easy to quarrel and fall in love before marriage? We usually don't need to have too many problems to solve. Even if there is a problem, it will not involve fundamental interests. It's just that you're in a bad mood today. I'll take you out to eat something delicious. I'm not satisfied with what you did. You take me out for two days. Such a small friction only involves emotions and mood problems. Marriage is almost the first time in a person's life that he faces various conflicts of real interests, all kinds of inevitable things that need to be solved in a short time, the balance and reconciliation of ideas and opinions of several people or even dozens of people, and so on. For example: 1. When to register (who will decide the date, whether to check the almanac, what time to go on the registration day, who will be responsible for the process, and where to get the marriage certificate) 2. Bride's dowry (how much dowry, dowry geometry, how to go through the process, what to bring to the man's family, what to bring to the woman's family) 3. What about the wedding (whether to pick up the bride, pick up the bride? What is the budget? Do you want to spend thousands of dollars on a trip? What if the wedding photo is not taken for the first time? What if the wedding photos can't be taken back in time? ) 5. Don't have a wedding, travel and get married? What's the destination? How many days? Who made it happen? What is the itinerary? Who's driving? How to arrange accommodation? 6. Where do you live after you get married? Did you buy a house? No. Where do you live? Do you want to live with your parents? If so, where can I buy it? When will the house be delivered? How to decorate after delivery? Is it full before marriage? How to share it if the husband and wife share it? ) The above is just the tip of the iceberg. When actually getting married, the problems are far more than these, and each problem may lead to discussions, arguments and even quarrels between two people. It is basically impossible to be efficient, conflict-free and satisfied, unless both sides have no father, mother and relatives, and their personalities and views are the same. What if I want to break up before I get married? If you are old enough to talk about marriage and both parents agree to get married, if you want to break up at this stage, you must break up with him quickly. Because I think you have reached this stage now. If two people feel inappropriate and want to get married, they may delay their own lives or each other's lives, and then they may lead to a particularly unhappy marriage. I think this is particularly bad. You can break up with him now. Don't wait until after marriage, it will involve a lot of interests, and then it is particularly troublesome for two people to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get married and divorce. Besides, I think you should consider what you think first. Do you want to break up because you are afraid of getting married, or do you think you don't like this person at all? I think if you are afraid of getting married, you can discuss it with your boyfriend, that is, whether you can put the wedding time behind you and not get married now. If you just don't like this person, break up with him as soon as possible, and don't delay other people's lives.