In order to make the child "born on time", the family refused to sign the consent form for the operation, and the tears of the mother made people feel distressed.

In the past, many old people were very picky about the time when their children were born. If children are born on auspicious days, they will be rich for the rest of their lives, but if children are born on unlucky days, their future fate is doomed to be lonely.

Now it seems that this statement is completely superstitious. After all, when the child is born is random. Even if caesarean section is decided, the doctor will decide the date of operation according to the maternal situation.

However, in real life, there are still some people who are very concerned about the birth time of their children, even in order to let the children be born on the set day, even regardless of the safety of their mothers.

In order to make the child "born on time", the family members did not sign before the time, and the maternal tears made people feel distressed.

Outside the obstetric operating room of a hospital in Chongqing, a netizen took a very angry scene.

In the picture, a pregnant woman is in danger. The doctor suggested caesarean section as soon as possible, but in the face of the consent form, the pregnant woman's husband refused to sign it.

The reason for not signing is not because I am worried about my wife, but because my husband and family are very concerned about the birth time of the child. If you have a caesarean section at this time, the child will not be born within the time of your choice.

In this way, because of superstition, no matter how doctors and nurses communicate with their families, they just refuse to sign, or even refuse to let pregnant women sign, always trying to delay the time until what they think is a "good day."

Seeing a dispute between the doctor and her husband, the woman at the operation door looked very helpless, and finally raised her arm and wiped her tears. This scene also made netizens angry and sad.

In the comment area, many people denounced the behavior of maternal families as ridiculous. If you abandon your mother's life because of superstition, what qualifications does such a person have to be a husband and a father?

"I am very angry. A woman must have her family present when she gives birth. In any case, adults are the first! "

"God, when is the time to choose a birth? Is there a throne in the family to inherit? Maternity is also weak, why not sign it? "

"This kind of husband can be thrown away directly. Only when a woman gives birth to a child can she really see a person clearly. How can a person who takes his life seriously deliver the rest of his life? "

In the new era, the birth time of children has a new interpretation.

In the eyes of many older generations, the birth time of children is indeed a bit particular. For example, children born in the morning are smarter than those born in the afternoon. Children born at noon will catch dinner here and will definitely not go hungry in the future. Children born at night have a big temper and will be stubborn and unruly in the future. ...

Some parents even spend money to estimate the best birth time of their children, let them win at the starting line as soon as they are born, and then perform caesarean section in strict accordance with their own auspicious days.

In fact, these statements have no scientific basis at all. The reason why some people are superstitious is just the coincidence of some examples around them.

In the new era, parents with higher education should also keep pace with the times in the interpretation of their children's birth time.

First of all, we should understand that the birth time of a child is evaluated according to the expected date of birth. If the expected date of delivery is exceeded, premature delivery or delayed delivery will have certain risks for both adults and children.

Secondly, some people think that giving birth in the morning is better than giving birth in the afternoon, and giving birth in the daytime is better than giving birth at night, because doctors are full of energy in the morning and there are many people in the hospital. But if you give birth at night, many doctors will be mentally exhausted, and family members will not be so excited when they see the baby.

Therefore, "when is a good time to have children" is only based on objective considerations and has nothing to do with the fate of the children themselves. As the family members of the parturient, what we should do is to calm the mood of the parturient and actively cooperate with the doctor, instead of sticking to superstition and ignoring the safety of adults and children.

Finally, every little life is the darling of parents. As long as children are healthy and adults are prosperous, then no matter when a child chooses to come into this world, the moment he is born is a good day.

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