Five-month-old baby did not respond to naming.
In the eyes of treasure moms, this seems to be no big deal, but in fact, it is likely to lead to the baby's slow response.
The 3-year-old boy was diagnosed as "unresponsive". Doctor: Don't yell at the baby if it's okay.
Lele, the son of colleague Xiao Fang, is only three and a half years old, but he is very tall and his face looks mature. People who don't know thought Eva was in primary school.
Although it is still normal now, as long as you interact with him a little, you can obviously feel that the child's reaction is a bit slow, not only not as good as that of children of the same age, but even some babies younger than him are faster than him.
Outsiders can see it, but how can Lele's mother not see it? But on the one hand, the child is still young, on the other hand, the situation is not particularly serious, so I have never cared.
It was not until Lele went to kindergarten that she found that there was a great contrast with her peers, and her family was anxious. Later, I went to see several hospitals. After investigation, the doctors all said that there was no problem.
Recently, the doctor suddenly asked Lele's mother if she always liked to call her baby's name, even when it was clear that the child was fine. Hearing this, Lele's mother nodded.
After seeing it, the doctor said to her seriously, "Don't yell at the baby in the future. This is the reason why children are slow to respond. If it is corrected in time, it is still possible to recover. " Later, Lele's mother did as the doctor said, and it really worked. Lele's reaction speed is not the best among peers, but it is also at a normal level.
Calling the baby's name will slow him down? Although it sounds incredible, it's true.
Because the child has long been conditioned by his name, when his parents call his name, he will immediately prepare for his parents' requirements.
But if parents just scream, this preparation will be in vain. If this situation is staged several times, the child's conditioned reflex to his parents calling his name will disappear, and the reaction will naturally be slow. So, don't call your baby by his name. It really makes sense.
Inappropriate calls may confuse the baby.
Obviously nothing, but someone called me by name.
Calling the baby's name will not only slow the child down, but also directly confuse him. Because in his psychological expectation, parents should interact with him next, but nothing happened.
This will confuse the children. Did they name it themselves? Once such an idea is generated, children's self-cognition will also be biased.
One child corresponds to multiple nicknames.
There is also a situation that will confuse children, that is, give them many nicknames, even one for different family members.
For example, some people call the child "X Bao", some people call the child "Little X", and some people call the child's full name. This inconsistency will also bring great confusion to children, because they are not sure what their names are.
These two situations can be said to happen from time to time, and the harm to the baby is also obvious. But unfortunately, few parents will notice this problem, so that they will not be alert until the situation becomes very bad, or even until the children are slow to respond.
Parents should pay attention to these three points when addressing their children by name.
1.？ Don't give up nicknames.
It is no problem to call your baby's nickname at ordinary times, but it should be noted that it is best for your baby to correspond to only one nickname. No matter who you are, you should call him this nickname, and you can't give your baby any other nicknames to avoid confusion.
Therefore, treasure moms should take the initiative to share their baby's nickname with others, so as to avoid others giving their baby a name.
2.？ The baby has responded and needs timely feedback from parents.
No matter what happens, as long as the parents call the baby and the baby responds, the parents should respond immediately.
Otherwise, parents often don't respond to the baby, which will make the baby feel very boring and gradually have little reaction to their own names, which will lead to the baby's slow response to some extent.
3.？ Try not to shout when the baby is doing something.
It is also unacceptable for some parents to ask their children to play whenever they want, no matter what the occasion is. For example, when you find your baby absorbed in something, you'd better not call him to avoid distracting him. Otherwise, it may not only make the baby unable to complete the task, but also lead to his inattention.
Children should be parents' pride, not "lip service", so don't just talk about their children's names, call them once or twice less, and your love for them will not be reduced by one point.
Only by calling the child at the right time can he respond to his name more quickly, which is also of great benefit to the child's brain development.