Five tips to teach you how to get to know noble people.
Five tips to teach you how to get to know noble people.
First, it is impossible to meet.
Noble people are really hard to meet. If you think of the noble people to help you in everything and rely on the "noble people" to help you complete everything, it is tantamount to waiting for him. Therefore, you can't be greedy, and you can't throw yourself into the sky. It is impossible for a noble person to suddenly appear in front of you.
Second, the sun is positive.
I have said many times that everyone is willing to get along with a sunny person and will think of them when something good happens. Besides, a sunny person can always find opportunities and seize them. If a person is depressed all day, bored, full of complaints about people and things, full of irony, full of accusations, and complaining about everything, the gas field formed by such a person is dark, inaccessible and unwilling to approach. Where can someone help you?
Third, be grateful.
I've met many friends, and I always think that being a great help and saving a lot of trouble is the so-called "noble person". In fact, this is completely wrong. Parents' upbringing, teachers' teaching, elders' teaching, lovers' care and even a stranger's enthusiastic guidance are all noble people around us. If you can't be kind to these people, can't be grateful, and think that only those who promote you to be a big official and help you make a fortune are noble people, then it's hard for you to meet real noble people.
Fourth, don't be greedy.
It is a gift from God to get the help of noble people, and you are lucky to get it! No matter how powerful a noble person is, he can only help you within a certain range and time. You really have to rely on yourself. If you take what you get unexpectedly as what you deserve, once greed rises, the nobles will leave you, just as we say, "It is a duty to help you, not a duty." What's more, those who have sacrificed the nobles who have helped them have seriously hurt their luck, and often betray their relatives and friends soon, and their luck will come to an end, because even if you hurt the nobles who have helped you, you don't know how to be grateful. Who will help you?
Fifth, be open-minded.
Lin Zexu has a good saying, "All rivers run into the sea, with great tolerance." If a person wants to achieve something, he must be open-minded and broad-minded. In modern terms, it is "empty cup psychology". I have received some inquiries from my friends, saying that they are here for consultation, but they are actually full of heart. No matter what you say, he has his own set of excuses waiting for you, making full excuses for his inaccuracy, and sticking to his own ideas is the most correct. Who can help him in this situation? By the same token, if you are not humble and respectful, who will be your noble?
Having said that, I think friends should know more about "distinguished people". So from a professional perspective, who can really help us? In fact, in a popular way, a noble person is what we often call "connections." With good contacts, you will have many "noble people" to help you. You got it?