65438+1October 27th, are there many people getting married this year? Is the weather good today?
1. Select Runnian Runyue
China people attach great importance to the choice of auspicious wedding days and the theory of "leap month" and "leap year", that is, there will be a leap year every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "leap month" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in a full moon year.
In recent years, the situation in beginning of spring during the Lunar New Year is as follows:
20 1 1 Year of the Rabbit: Single Spring
20 12 (the Year of the Loong): Double Spring
20 13 (year of the snake): No spring, few years.
20 14 (Year of the Horse): Double Spring
20 15 (Year of the Sheep): Single Spring
2. Avoid 379
It is best to avoid the three auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for holding happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month, that is, the August of the lunar calendar is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.
3. Avoid Sanniang's killing
According to legend, Yue Laosan did not lead the red line for San Niang, which prevented her from getting married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so it is not suitable to get married on the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh day of each month.
4. Marriage and date selection method
The principle of choosing a wedding date is to take the bride's date of birth as the main factor and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as a child is born, a woman marries by the line". Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems or even divorce in the married marriage; On the contrary, it is good luck.
5. Don't choose your parents' birthdays
In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that it is not appropriate to get married on the exact date of parents' birthdays, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married within that month.
6. Real wedding day
If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, it is best to do it in these two days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day according to the traditional etiquette of wedding reception and wine setting, because China tradition always regards this day as a real auspicious wedding.
7. auspicious day method
Some people think that there should be a stricter method for calculating auspicious days, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated according to the date and time of birth of both men and women. However, this practice is quite complicated, and more people prefer to see the date chosen by the Gregorian calendar or listen to the suggestions of people who study Zhouyi.
8, to consider the actual work and study of both sides.
If one party studies in his spare time, he should avoid the tense review date; If one party is engaged in major technical research projects of the unit day and night, the other party will wait patiently for a period of time, and then choose "auspicious day for marriage" when the good news comes.
9, to consider the reality of both families.
Choosing "auspicious day" needs to take into account that the elderly, relatives and friends have time to participate and can witness the festive and harmonious scene.
10, considering the physical condition of both parties.
If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange marriage, but to make timely diagnosis and treatment and consult after recovery. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of new life and easily aggravate physical condition. The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. When choosing an auspicious day, the man should pay special attention to the woman's opinion.
1 1, unify the wedding date and holidays.
It may be wise if the wedding date coincides with holidays. The advantages of this are: unforgettable; Newly-married people put on holiday clothes to add spice; Relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, and the atmosphere is warm. It is economical and festive to entertain relatives and friends at home and celebrate the festival. However, many new people get married during the holidays, so we should pay attention to booking hotels and motorcades in advance.
12, the definition of a good day
In any case, the definition of "good days" is always different. No matter which day you choose, try to choose those days that are satisfactory to everyone.