How to treat "lovers for a week"?
First, create a risky platform A few years ago, couples became popular in different universities or groups in a week. Although the original starting point of the organizers may be positive, they just want to help young people broaden their social circle and explore the relationship between men and women, but at the same time they also create opportunities and platforms for boys with ulterior motives to do so. Who knows what a boy will do to another girl after seven days? At this age, boys are passionate and have their own needs. What will he think when he has a chance to draw lots and meets a good-looking girl with a good figure?
Second, put girls in danger. On the other hand, couples know each other on the online platform for a week, and everyone has a chance to know each other. You know nothing about each other's family background and details. When a man meets a woman, the goods may not be right, wasting everyone's time. Women are invited out, but they may meet boys with ulterior motives, and their lives are at stake. In the past, there were many news reports that young girls lost their virginity and even their lives because they were invited to participate in online dating with boys.
Third, it provides boys with the opportunity to taste forbidden fruit for the first time. I have a good friend who met several girls through the internet, and one of them later became his girlfriend. Because they were all young, in their early twenties. Finally, they became fascinated with an activity, that is, going to the seaside to blow the sea breeze.
But when they say go to the seaside, they actually mean that when there is no one on the beach at night, two people can do whatever they want. My good friend even told me the process, and I could hear that he enjoyed it. Of course, after everyone's passion, the relationship between them gradually began to cool down. Finally, my friend said that because the girl made more than a dozen phone calls a day, she often needed to know what he was doing, which made him feel extremely troubled and broke up. Maybe you think what they want is what they want, but in the end, all they get is an unforgettable memory. This relationship is not true love.
Fourth, the feelings do not match, wasting time. Another tragedy happened to me. At that time, I was not 18 years old and had not graduated. I met two girls because of my part-time job. In retrospect, they are definitely not my type. At that time, in February 65438, a part-time restaurant held a year-end gala, and a slightly fat girl asked me to be her boyfriend for one day. She held my hand wholeheartedly. At that time, I was too young to refuse. I just think it shouldn't hurt to know friends and have someone to go out with me to relax.
After the party, they let me sing and drink with her. I saw their crazy side. In this process, she always took the opportunity to hug, but I didn't feel it. Everyone played all night. Finally, when we went home, everything was like a dream. Later, when she worked part-time, she didn't mention what happened that night. I don't want to admit this nondescript past in my heart
We haven't contacted each other since then. After a while, I saw her in the street once and took the opportunity to stay away from her so as not to embarrass everyone. Generally speaking, couples personally think that a week does more harm than good, wasting a lot of precious time when they are young, but on the other hand, it also puts many immature men and women in high-risk places. The real relationship between men and women is better to develop through normal channels.