A speech about a life without complaints.
A speech about a life without complaints.
Hello, everyone. I believe that no one will choose to come from a family, right? Indeed, everyone has decided their origin from the moment they are born.
A life speech without complaining [think tank | topic]. Some parents live in harmony, some parents live together but have no feelings, and some parents have separated. On February 1 2007, our family of three went to the Civil Affairs Bureau. I didn't know anything at that time, because my parents were around, so I was very happy. After that, we had dinner, and my father and I left Guangxi in the afternoon. That day, they separated, and my mother and I separated for the first time. I was less than seven years old that year. When I was 8 years old, I knew I was a single-parent family. I wanted to find one in the basket that day, but I dug up a divorce agreement. In fact, I have long realized why my parents don't live together, why my parents are not with me, and why I haven't seen my parents chatting intimately since I can remember. At that moment, I suddenly understood everything. But why did my parents get divorced when I was so young? Why didn't they tell me, but I dug up this blank sheet of paper myself? Why can't they keep each other and miss their old feelings for me? Can I choose to complain? Sure! Complaining when something goes wrong is a way for people to vent their dissatisfaction. But Ephesians 6: 10 tells me, "trust in the Lord, and be strong in his power."
I returned to Guangxi in the sixth grade and spent my junior high school in a key middle school. There, like my classmates around me, I talked in class, read novels during my lunch break and crammed for exams. However, this is unfair. Those who are like me at ordinary times can "calmly" spend the third grade because their average score is higher than mine, and I, a math major, was called by my teacher to do some ideological education almost every time I finished my exams that year. The teacher turned a blind eye to my advantages, my hobbies, and even my collapse due to day and night exams. No one cared. Except my mother, she knows my talent, my difficulties and my efforts, so when other parents are oppressing their children to study day and night for the senior high school entrance examination, she just soothes my nervous mood and makes me try my best. I changed my name shortly before the middle school entrance examination. The class teacher called my mother for this matter and then asked me to go to the office. "Do you know that if you change your name now, it will be difficult for your local students to transfer their exam results to your current name?" I didn't answer. He sneered and said, "No wonder there are such parents and such children. I really don't care about the senior high school entrance examination at all, and I don't know what you will do in the future. "After that, he sent me away without giving me any chance to explain. I refuse to accept it! Why do all those teachers look at their students with colored glasses! Why not treat everyone equally! Why am I always laughed at by the teacher! It's not fair! I hate it! I hate people who laugh at me because of my grades! I hate those duplicitous schoolmasters! I still hate myself for being so bad! ..... but am I really bad? I can't find any reason why I can't complain about my annoying teachers, indifferent classmates and grades that I can never get. But Proverbs 29: 1 1 tells me, "A fool is full of anger, but a wise man is full of wrath. Matthew 24: 13 tells me, "Only those who endure to the end will be saved." "
In 20 12 years, my father remarried. I hate his wife because her single eyelid makes her look miserable and reminds me of the vicious stepmother in Snow White. When they get married, they often show their love to me. Once we went swimming together, why did they make out in front of me? I only remember that I was very sad when I saw that scene, and my heart ached. I'm afraid they'll see me cry. I immediately lowered my head and buried half my face in the water. Considering that my sobs seemed too obvious, I closed my eyes and sank into the water. I thought of my father, who was not close to me. He always asks me to be kind to my aunt and be a grateful person. You are right! But my relationship with my aunt is awkward. Nobody cares if I can accept this fact slowly. Everyone is telling me her strengths, how good she is, and how good she is to me. Now that they have been married for four years, it is common for me that they have a big fight from time to time, and my uncle, as a nanny, often scolds his two children at home, so I gradually don't like going back to that noisy home. My aunt, who is in charge of all financial affairs, is not worthy of her mental words, and the one who once asked my grandmother for my mother's phone number makes me hate it. But I didn't complain, because Matthew 6: 14 and 15 told me that "if you forgive others' sins, your heavenly father will also forgive you;" "You don't forgive others' transgressions, and your heavenly father won't forgive you. "
I have believed in the Lord for eight years, and now I am a student of the art club and live in God's house. The people and things I have experienced along the way have taught me to persist, work hard and forgive. God has been supporting me with his words all the way, making me feel his love for me. If we choose to complain, we will be trapped in bitterness, darkness and pain forever, but if we don't complain, we will find that our surroundings are actually full of love and warmth. I hope that in the future life, everyone can hold on to God, love each other and not complain about life.
Life speech without regrets Part II
Dear guests, tutors and classmates, good afternoon! My name is Wang,
Speech "Speaking for a life without complaints" (). I am very happy to stand here and give you a speech today. The theme of my speech is a life without complaints. When something goes wrong, complaining is a way for people to vent their dissatisfaction. But nowadays, complaining has become a part of people's living habits, and it has become a means for them to fight against realistic contradictions. Complaining, as its name implies, is what happens when people are dissatisfied or dissatisfied with reality, but at the same time they blame others. People's life is not smooth sailing, on the contrary, there will be many setbacks and many hardships.
I often hear people complain, why is this dress so expensive? Why has the price of this house gone up again? Why did God do this to me? These things are easy to happen in our daily life, which makes us complain. However, it is useless to complain, but it may affect our own good mood. When we drew lots for speeches this Tuesday, I drew the order of 16. I complained then. I complained about why I got the number so late. But I don't blame God, because I believe that God made all this happen out of kindness. But then again, if I complain, it won't have any effect, I won't move the order to the front, and I won't stop speaking directly. In the Bible, after the Israelites left Egypt, they repeatedly experienced a abnormal state of life-complaining. The Israelites complained about why God led them out of Egypt. Why did you come to the wilderness? Why is there no meat to eat and no water to drink in the wilderness? But complaining can't bring us closer to God. On the contrary, it sometimes prevents God from torturing us through the environment.
Since complaining is useless, don't complain. On a study tour, we went to Qingtan, Mount Tai. There are beautiful scenery, waterfalls and many different shapes of stones. The lake is crystal clear; Trees are thriving. But there's a place near the waterfall that turns people off. There is rubbish everywhere, and it will attract flies. However, neither the supervisor nor the students complained about this situation, but the supervisor led the students to pick up and collect garbage. Su Shi, a poet, had a rough life, with family changes and frustrated officialdom. He was demoted again and again, but he didn't feel depressed or complain about the unfair environment. Instead, he played between mountains and rivers with a chic and optimistic attitude and devoted himself to literary creation. Since then, the officialdom has lost a frustrated official and the literary world has gained a poet. When we complain that we have too much homework and have no time to rest, some people will take the time to finish their homework and make time for themselves; When we complain that the teacher's marking is too strict and the score is too low, at this time, someone will seriously analyze the wrong questions and make full preparations for the next exam. Don't always complain, in fact, many times, the problem is yourself. Therefore, instead of complaining about the environment, it is better to change yourself.
Now we all know that complaining is not good, but it will bring many negative effects. So from now on, we should stop complaining. When we want to complain, we should control our mouths and learn to be grateful with positive thinking. We can also transfer bad emotions by listening to songs and running. Everyone here is _ _. People in Christ have more ways to deal with complaints. We can pray to God and tell him who and what we want to complain about. We can also ask the elders, priests or brothers and sisters of the church to help us.
Looking back at myself, I found that I actually shouldn't complain a lot. If I think about it with positive thinking, I know that my parents are good for me. I went to kindergarten earlier than my peers when I was a child. I didn't want to go, but my parents wanted to see me off, so I cried. Especially envious of peers. They are playing, so I go to kindergarten. I prayed to my parents not to send me to kindergarten, but they disagreed. Every night I complain to my parents: Why should I go to kindergarten? Why don't some children go to kindergarten? As the days passed, I made a good friend in kindergarten. She comforts me every time I cry. I went out to play with some classmates some time ago. I see that all students have their own mobile phones, which have many functions. For example: QQ, WeChat, Taobao, Meipai and so on. Look at my mobile phone again, I can only make phone calls and send text messages, and basically have no other functions. When I got back, I complained to my parents: Why didn't you buy me a new mobile phone? However, if you think positively, in fact, my parents are doing it for me. I play with my new mobile phone, which affects my study. Therefore, from another angle, these are things that should not be complained and should be grateful.
Don't complain, this sentence sounds simple, but it's not easy to do! As _ _, we should not complain more than secular people. The life of Christ is in the power of God, and God gives you difficulties because you have many shortcomings that need to be improved. When God closes one door, he will open another for you. Therefore, the birth of Christ, even if full of hardships, also has the meaning of God. Philippians says, "Whatever you do, don't complain or argue." Let's stop complaining and live a good life together.